Why does...?

Question

Why does love lead to sex? We need more sexless love relationship! I would blame the songs and the dirty dancing on the floor. It makes them too horny and when they are in love, they want to do it already. Most of them doesn't wait until they are married. They want to do it before they are married, and most people masturbate also. this world has gone corrupted. I swear. Hell, if I was to fall in love, I wouldn't be having sex with her even after we are married. I don't mind kissing her though but not having sex though.

Answer 1

Most women who wish to get married, also have a desire for kids. Hard to have kids if you don't wish to conceive them. So even if you find a woman who just wants to be your roommate for the next 50 yrs, keep in mind this means she can seek annulment at anytime and therefore no point in getting married at all if you can just break up.

Love, in an ideal world, leads to sex b/c of the physical intimacy you share. You are actually merging your bodies the way you merged your lives and hearts.

It is perfectly ok if you wish to wait until you are married to have sex but it is a very healthy part of a relationship. I believe I've heard relationships are a triangle and one leg of the triangle is sex. I've also heard that in a good marriage, sex is only 10%. In a bad marriage, sex is 90%.

As far as masturbation--people have always masturbated. The only difference in today's society, it's become accepted and something that can be acknowledged, whereas before no one would have ever spoken of it. But I doubt it's any more common now than it was a hundred years ago.

Answer 2

That marriage won't last then! You have to understand, True love needs desire. Lust is a biblical label. However, even in the Bible it's still called love! Without it love is incomplete. Why not go for the whole shabang?

Answer 3

thats not love it is lust