I still think about my exboyfriend everyday for 3 yrs. Im with someone and he is the second boyfriend after the one i think about. Does that mean i still love him? why do i still think about him?
2007-02-27 07:51:17 · 14 answers · asked by Vane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need closure...find him ...remember why ur not together...and get over him.....
2007-02-27 07:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by nicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you do still love him, or at least care about him a lot. Otherwise, why would you think about him so much when you have a boyfriend now?
Ask yourself a couple questions: 1. Would you ever be interested in getting back together with your ex? 2. Do you love the guy you're dating now?
Answering these questions should help you understand how you feel. If you would be interested in getting back together with your ex if the opportunity arose, or if your feelings for him are stronger than your feelings for your current boyfriend, that's not really fair to your current boyfriend.
2007-02-27 08:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by kielsa03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...yes it's possible! You may end up loving them for a lifetime in fact. Unrequited love occurs all of the time for allot of folks really. I know...I still love most if not all of my former lovers....that's just me though. I don't attempt to get back with people after a breakup reasonably...but I still have feelings for them. No it's not like head over heels love either,...but it's love none the less. I don't like burning a perfectly good bridge with someone,...even if I don't see eye to eye with them perfectly. Life is difficult enough,...wouldn't you believe. Stay friendly if you can. You'll feel better about yourself in the morning if you do.
2007-02-27 08:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definately. Even if your not together you can still love him. I still love a man that I am not with and i think I will love him for the rest of my life. Matter of fact I know I will love him for the rest of my life.
2007-02-27 08:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by todayillsee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you truly in your heart and soul love someone you never stop thinking of them. True love with someone they become a part of you so much. I know because I loved someone like that. I never stop thinking of him. But regrets are hard to live with, things that you regret not doing.
2007-02-27 07:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by BC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so - my ex and I broke up a year ago and she is in a relationship but still talks about me and I find out about it - I still care a lot about her as well.
2007-02-27 07:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still love because your heart won't let go but your mind has decided to let go.
Decide now!!! You cannot mix your heart with your brain.
2007-02-27 07:57:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help how you feel. There is nothing you can do to change your feelings. You might never get over him, you'll just learn to live without him.
2007-02-27 07:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you love him but i think you might just miss him some times i think about my ex and its been 5yrs and i have a wonderful boyfriend
2007-02-27 07:57:10 · answer #9 · answered by baby g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still loving him
2007-02-27 07:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by Ravioli man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's obvious you miss him or miss the idea of him. also, you're current boyfriend just isn't cutting it for you
2007-02-27 07:55:08 · answer #11 · answered by anna c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋