I decided after my ex dumped me when ever I saw her I would say hi, but just as a friend, and that would be it I didnt think I'd get into a really deep converstation with her. It was going well untill my friends started to get involved because they know I still love her. I wasn't anywhere near them when they did this but from what I've been told they started off by just asking why she dumped me but they just kept asking it and then she started to think I had told them to ask her which isn't true. So she flipped and told me to F*** up and get over it :(. But the worst thing is my friends told her I said f*** off back to her which I didnt :( So now she hates me and I feel that I've got to talk to her and tell what really happened and hope she listens. Do you think I should talk to her?
2007-02-27 07:57:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should talk to her. First of all, you probably will see this girl again. And you don't want to see her out one day and have things weird between the both of you. If I was you I would try to give her a call. If she doesn't answer then go to her house.Keep in mind...don't make it like you are stalking her either. Tell her that there is evidently a cause to this. If your friends are really your friends, they wouldn't have done this in the first place. It's always good to be the bigger person when it comes to arguments. Tell her you don't know why your friends are trying to break you two up, but there will be other friends, but there is only one of her. Sorry to tell you but you will have to choose if you want her back. It's either between your friends or her. maybe you won't have to choose. Good luck with the whole situation.:o)
2007-02-27 08:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by Puglovinlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you need to talk to your m8's. They may think their doin you a favour, and maybe they are, but that's not they decision. If you still really like this girl, even if she tells you to **** off, then the owrst thing you could possibly be told now is 'sorry but your gonna have to get over it'. Unfoutunatly, you do have to get over it. After you've talked to your m8's then you need to talk to her. Phone her or text her and just start by saying that everything is really f**ked up at the moment and that most of what she's heard isn't true. If she listens to you then you should be able to get your friendship (and i mean friendship) back. If she doesn't then do you still want her as a friend??
Good Luck!
2007-02-27 16:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by Phantom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she is obviously upset she may not be able to stay calm and listen to you clearly if you talk to her in person. Maybe send her an email telling her that you were in no way related to your friends attempt to gain some information about your old relationship together. Tell her you didn’t say what they told her and that you hope she understands you want to be friends and because of that you would have never started something like your friends did.
2007-02-27 16:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would talk to her and I would also re-think about how much your friends are really your friends and what right they had to meddle in your personal and private business and ultimately sabotage any kind of interaction with your ex.
2007-02-27 16:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's better to clear things up, and if she doesn't want to hear it you could always write a letter and give it to her, this way she doesn't have to listen to you. And if she still doesn't want to listen, then she's not worth the trouble, but you could atleast say you tried. Good Luck. *_*
2007-02-27 16:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I am 100% agree with you.You must go and talk with her to clear all misunderstanding.
Good Luck
2007-02-27 17:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by vee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, she won't believe you even if you tried, but even if you did try, I bet she'd try to get away from you as fast as she can thinking you're being anoying once again.
Look else where, they are more fish in the sea.
2007-02-27 16:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by DrPepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should talk to her and tell her the truth.
good luck
2007-02-27 16:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by ~lipgloss barbie doll~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all girls hate their ex - don't expect her to think like a guy
2007-02-27 16:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
better talk to her to clear matters.
2007-02-27 16:00:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋