My bf and i have been dating for a month and a half. BTW im 20, hes 24In the last 2 weeks he has gotten REALLY busy with work and I am starting to feel neglected. I saw him once last tuesday, and I was with him and his buddies and my girlfriend on the weekend, but never alone with him. I just think that we should spend more time together, especially alone, instead of always with friends.ive been alone with him 3 times since we met. I am trying to be patient, but it's REALLY starting to bug me.I want to know if i should try to talk to him about it and if i should, what should i say so that i dont sound like im nagging????I really want this to work, but how r we supposed to get closer and get to know each other better if we never spend time alone? I briefly brought this up about a week ago, but not a conversation (it was on the phone and he was with his friends).iam seeing him 2nite and i just dont know how to bring it up!!!
2007-02-27 08:00:06 · 12 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you really clingy? You have to keep in mind you guys have been together a little over a month. Before you, he had a life and he can't just drop it like that. You should have one too. Do what you did before you met him. If he cares about you he will start seeking you out and even go as far as ask what you have been up to or why have you been distant. Then the situation is open for discussion. Be patient I know it can be fustrating don't come on so strong its too soon. Have fun.
2007-02-27 08:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by ilisalec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been a month. If you "bring it up" with him, you will probably scare him off! If I were you, I would plan a special night for the two of you. If you make the plans (especially suprise ones), then you get to dictate who attends because he doesn't have time to invite anyone else!
2007-02-27 16:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you do not tell him what you expect out of this relationship then he will never know. Just do it in a nice way and kinda ask and if that does not work tell him what you want. well best of luck to you hope this helped.
2007-02-27 16:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by MOM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should deffinatly talk to him. You should say something like "youre a busy busy guy sweetie, i miss you" make it sound like a joke but then be serious. tell him you really love hanging out with him and you wish you could do it more.
2007-02-27 16:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jsut tell him what you said here. That you would like some time alone with him to see how the relationship develops.
2007-02-27 16:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth..just tell him that you really like him and want this to work..he needs to try harder to make more time for you if he feels the same other wise it aint going to work out..get him a nite to yourself an plan something romantic a wee nite in together..a nite for him to remember an maybe that will encourage him to want to be you more on your own..
2007-02-27 16:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by claire4john 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you really enjoy his company and would like to get to know him more one on one.. Maybe he is just shy and when he is alone with you he is scared sh*tless..LOL
2007-02-27 16:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um.. it's only been a month and a half... patience, grasshopper...
2007-02-27 16:04:00 · answer #8 · answered by Martin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm you lost me at BTW..
2007-02-27 16:03:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well just ask him if he feels the same way.
2007-02-27 16:05:13 · answer #10 · answered by elain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋