Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

but thanks for answearing and i alreadi tried to talk to him and he sais to just leave him alone and about the mi space whi do you think he did that saing he was single and looking for a serious relationship whi would a guy do those things wen being married i dont understand i give hem love time affection anithing that you need in a relationship t owork out. Well he sais it was just for past time but o im really confuse i don't even know what to think anymore and about the spelling sorri but mi first first language is spanish thanks and god bless averibody

2007-02-26 18:32:02 · 12 answers · asked by sweet kiss 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 18:32:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 23 and still a virgin (by choice). I’m very picky & don’t want to have sex until I feel really comfortable w/ someone esp b/c I know I’ll get very attached. Everyone around me is very sexual and assumes I am too. Very few know I’m a virgin b/c I don’t want them to assume things about me based on one fact. I am pretty flirty & sexual & really enjoy all the foreplay but guys tend to be surprised when I tell them we won't be having sex (b/c "I don't have casual sex," I say). I also don’t want to perform oral on anyone I don’t really care about.

I don’t know what to do to be able to still have fun “fooling around” without sex, oral or blue balls and still make it interesting. Just because I won’t have sex doesn’t mean I’m not super sexual. I rarely get off when guys try to finger though b/c it usually hurts (even w/ lube). Any suggestions? Also, how do guys react to finding out girls are virgins?

2007-02-26 18:32:00 · 8 answers · asked by laughterisnaturescure 1 in Singles & Dating

especially when i don't have a car and the weather is always crappy

2007-02-26 18:30:31 · 11 answers · asked by Rock 4 in Singles & Dating

Come on reply just for giggles where's the harm :)

2007-02-26 18:30:09 · 22 answers · asked by clare w 4 in Friends

My bf of 5 months says that he feels uncomfortable looking at me in a sexual way and sees me as a bestfriend but, he doesn't want to break up? What can that mean?

2007-02-26 18:29:46 · 6 answers · asked by The Worrywart 2 in Singles & Dating

last year in college, i had a crush on this guy n we keep smsing each other 24/7 .. i think he also know that i like him... but now we were in different university after graduate from college, the problem is, i still cant forget him n bcause of him i dont look at other guy in my university.. there are some guys in my university likes me but when i found out that they likes me, i start to avoid them n stop replying their msg... wht should i do, my best friend ask me to forget him because its quite hrd i can meet him again since we were quite far fromeach other n i lost contact with him.. its been a years..

2007-02-26 18:28:37 · 8 answers · asked by gophergorgeous07 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 18:28:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i got caught with a married man .i didnt know he was married until we got caught,he told me he was divorced.another thing i had a baby for this man,i dont know what to do. should i tell the wife. she doesnt know im no longer intrested in him since he lied. i figured he did it to her he'd do the same to me.that was the worst day of my life.

2007-02-26 18:28:08 · 8 answers · asked by cocoaa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 18:28:02 · 3 answers · asked by THE ACTS OF POWER 2 in Singles & Dating

if you were in a night club and a hot guy came up to you and sprayed you in the face with mace and then burnt ur gynie with a cigar what would you do?????

2007-02-26 18:27:12 · 4 answers · asked by Ziems 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband left me and our 3 kids about 5 weeks ago but before he left i was thinking he was having an affair with someone at work then he got a txt message from her and i read it before he did and she called him babe when i confronted him he said she sent it to the wrong person it was ment for her boyfriend the next day he lfet now since then he ha been telling me he wants to try and work on our marriage and he never cheated and YES we have been sleeping together he is still my husband but then 2 days ago he confessed after i kept asking that he has been sleeping with her as well and did so before he left but still wants to work on our marriage it was just sex because she has a b/f now my question is i have just found her email address should i email her or not do you thnk he b/f deserves to know if i was to email her what should i say my husband turned up at my place at 12am this morning to try and work things out but now only 6hr later he does not know what he wants???

2007-02-26 18:25:15 · 17 answers · asked by feelingstupid 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 18:25:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's working in china and im living in taiwan with my mother in law. every 3 months he has an holiday to go back here but he seems dont like to go back, he said if he dont go back he can get the money, i was worry maybe he has an affair with another girl, even sometimes he's home sometimes he still want go back china early. i dont know why, he said thats for work so he can get more money for us.

2007-02-26 18:24:02 · 19 answers · asked by chon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Can a man who had an affair and fell in love with his mistress make his marriage work again, or will he be thinking about the mistress all the time?

2007-02-26 18:22:51 · 10 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have witnessed many cases in my travels of the "beauty and the beast" syndrome. Georgous girls dating freaky emo guys. These girls can do better. Why dont they?

2007-02-26 18:22:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

his girl has been on and off with me for ages....and i dont know what to do. At the start we were really good mates, then she started taking me to lunches, movies etc...and when she broke it off with her ex, she told me to go comfort her, which i did, but didnt go any further, as i didnt want to be the rebound. Soon after, she got angry at me(dont ask why i dont know), and didnt taslk to me properly for ages...one thing i did notice, i never ever once asked her to go out to lunches, she always done all the work back then....???2months gone,and now we went to the movies together, i asked and she accepted, and also we went out during the day just mucking around, and she was acting like she used to which was great.....i dont know whether she likes me as a friend, or whether its something elsE?....she does seem to be more interested again, and is talking to me properly again now. Thing is i really like her, but dont want to ruin what we have. what could i do in a subtle way to show her?

2007-02-26 18:22:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have brown curly hair & some guys like it because I am the only one at my school that has hair like this and they think it makes me unique because they are tired of girls with plain, straight hair. But my crush said that I would look better if I straightened my hair. When I try to straighten my hair it is never perfectly straight anyways so I figure why even bother? I like to show off my natural curl anyways. What do you guys think about girls with curly hair?

2007-02-26 18:20:24 · 25 answers · asked by *Manda* 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband came home around 4pm, got his golf shoes, changed his shirt, and said he was going to go play golf with a friend and he'll be home in a couple of hours. I go to the gym around 7 and he came home 20 minutes before I left. He used to plan going golfing with a buddy and got up around 9am and was gone most of the day. He never would answer his cell when we went then because he said it was rude when playing but I was pregnant at the time and he left it on after I asked in case of emergency. Today, I'm not pregnant and yet he answered his phone. It was too quiet for him to be outside, yet he talked in an hushed voice. Something doesn't feel right with me and I was wondering, is it really possible to golf in less than 3 hours???

2007-02-26 18:19:15 · 10 answers · asked by Koozie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-26 18:18:27 · 5 answers · asked by jaime 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When I was in middle school, I and my friends have this tarty powder candy. Anyway we all talked this one guy into snorted it up his nose. So he did and he start to scream and swat at his nose as tear full up his eyes. We all didn't believe it was that bad so for some reason one by one, all five of us take turn to snort this powdered candy up our nose. Oh man it burn like hell!!!! It HURT!!

At least it's a hillarious and fond memory :-)

2007-02-26 18:18:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Or does it even mean that they like you? Because they stare everyday and they show they're interested but I don't see how you can be if you've never talked to the person.

2007-02-26 18:17:30 · 10 answers · asked by sweetlovespell 3 in Singles & Dating

i have loved a girl so much but i don't know when i will get her.

2007-02-26 18:17:22 · 5 answers · asked by darshanpal s 2 in Singles & Dating

we went out on a date it was fun, We got along for the most part lol but it was nice to be nice to each other then she seem some pics in my phone of anothe girl my friend took so she got mad at me and didnt believe that i didnt take the pics so she told me ill never change and left why was she soo mad she the one that doesnt want to be with me was she jealous or does she hate me and do you think i have chance with her or is done

2007-02-26 18:16:47 · 9 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

i did not talk to her and dont plan to but is it wrong that i think she is pretty because of your age its not far about in years its just far and this stage in life 22 16

2007-02-26 18:16:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know i hate special feelings for him
i just dont know how to say them, whenever he is around i tend to act as if he does not exist
and i try to tell myself everyday that im not good enough, and that i should not have a boyfriend because i dont love myself that much,that i can offer someone else myself.
i just want to remain single, and so i push the men i like away from me, and now i suddenly just feel the need to hate him, i know its my fault. if before i still text him and smile at him today and maybe tomorrow i plan on forgetting the whole idea
i dont know plainly, is this a sign that i do have feelings for him? or am i a coward

2007-02-26 18:16:23 · 2 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl through Yahoo Answers and we chat on the phone and txt and Email, but I feel she is using me as a kind of "escape" from her rocky marriage.
She says she wants to meet up and have a drink, maybe more, but she is in love with someone else. The question is should I just leave her to it or should I meet with her and see what happens?

2007-02-26 18:16:20 · 17 answers · asked by The Alchemist 4 in Singles & Dating

First, let me tell you, I lives with my mom. Ok, tonight, I was on the phone with my friend talking about one of my friends' mom. My mom was eardropping on my conversation and misinterpreted it. She accused me of talking about her, but she would not tell me what I said. Therefore, I can't defend myself. I went to her to defend myself a couple of times, but no hope. What do I do? Why the mind games?

2007-02-26 18:14:55 · 9 answers · asked by teryl2930308 1 in Family

My son's dad hurt my baby's feelings while talking on the phone to his gf. My son didn't know about her. The ex said he was her " husband" and he didn't know my son heard him. Later after the call my son told me he heard his dad say "I'm your husband" and he says that dady dumped me. He was so upset he started crying and then he said he wanted us together again. I am so angry that he upset him like that. He wants to call back but that nasty woman is always listening to his conversations and talking in the background about what I say. My son (of course) does not visit and they are out of state anyway and he can't visit here b/c he is on probation. He has not paid child support yet.
I just don't what to do and I hope someone can give me some options on how to deal with this. My son never asked for any of this and he is the one that hurt today. I tried to spare him my pain and I never talked sh!t about his dad in front of him. Please give me good advice.
No haters please!

2007-02-26 18:14:25 · 9 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

after meeting first time he was like ;i really like you and i know you also like me i need sometime with you so that we can make things in proper way'....then we met 2nd time with group of friends....but after 2 days of that his behavior changes a lot he has started treating me like a FRIEND only.....by the way( he had breakup of his 8 yrs relationship)....in nov 2006.......one of our common friend's observation is that his circumstances are so difficlut that he wont be able to go for love marraige for the second time,,,,he might do arrange marriage just for the sake of his mom's happiness, i am very confused at the moment ......if i cutoff....will i regret? and if i wont cutiff, will i be able to bear the pain when he will go with some one else......i discussed his behavior change with him he says no one knows what is in our fate! what should i do.......very tensed:(

2007-02-26 18:14:03 · 12 answers · asked by Ashiii 1 in Singles & Dating