i got caught with a married man .i didnt know he was married until we got caught,he told me he was divorced.another thing i had a baby for this man,i dont know what to do. should i tell the wife. she doesnt know im no longer intrested in him since he lied. i figured he did it to her he'd do the same to me.that was the worst day of my life.
2007-02-26 18:28:08 · 8 answers · asked by cocoaa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would stay away from his wife if possible. If she approaches you, apologize and let her know that you thought he was divorced. She probably wouldn't believe you but at least she will have heard your side. Your child deserves the support of the father so either tell him you want support or see a lawyer and sue him. If you don't want to approach him yourself, apply for AFDC and tell Dept. of Human Services who the father is. They will eventually contact him to recover the money they've given you and they'll get a court order to make him pay child support.
2007-02-26 18:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by sissyd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. His wife deserves to know what a loser she's married to. Also, get a lawyer and get child support from this guy. We've all been played by people at some point in time. It hurts but you can get over it. Don't ever get back with him and tell his wife all about his lies and double life.
2007-02-26 18:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by FactoryGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he certainly had no problem making the child. You didnt create it all by yourself. I would make him, pay child support and make his insurnace cover the child. I dont know that I would tell the wife. I would get a lawyer and go from there. Hope everything works out. GL
2007-02-26 18:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would certainly tell the wife and then I would sue him for child support. Good Luck
2007-03-02 17:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by andyt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes protect yourself and baby get child support!
2007-02-26 18:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell his wife you didn't know because he was low down your probally not the only one he cheated with or the last
2007-03-02 16:53:21 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman,you should tell his wife.He has hurt too many people.
2007-02-26 18:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes tell her.he probly did do it to some1 else.
2007-02-26 18:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by mosrider2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋