Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

My wife told me she wanted a divorce, that she loved me but wasn't in love with me. Now just 3 weeks later she is talking about this guy she met and she is totally in love with him. She is talking about marriage and children with him. How can she turn around so fast? I know she had a head start on the divorce, I still do not want it. Is this just a rebound relationship that is doomed or could it be something more?

2007-02-26 18:54:40 · 10 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

everyday when i leave home, i think wat if i die today! or i keep thinking wat if my fiance dies...wats gona happen!
these thoughts are driving me crazy! plz help!

2007-02-26 18:54:30 · 32 answers · asked by ღ♥eyeღℓash♥ღ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do you know you've found your soulmate?

2007-02-26 18:54:22 · 7 answers · asked by mm m 1 in Singles & Dating

how could i leave mi husband when first of all i love so much and we have a baby how so if i leave how i'm i going to take care of hem wen right now i don't have a job or going to college becouse stupid me left all that to love and dedicate time for mi husband and the house and now to the baby most important were im going to live i ave practicli nothing but mi son and god and im verry sorri for mi spelling again but mi lenguage is spanish all do i do speak perfecly fine

2007-02-26 18:53:10 · 7 answers · asked by sweet kiss 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i thought this guy liked me but then he stopped calling me and when i went to talk to him he's sort of quiet. and then the last time i talked to him i punched him in the arm (trying to be playfull) but he got all defensiv and was like 'why did you punch me?'. do i call him or...?

2007-02-26 18:52:51 · 3 answers · asked by splatterpunk 2 in Singles & Dating

Just give me your opinion. The question is up for discussion. Have at it.

2007-02-26 18:51:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Although I get to see them, its not as often as I should. Thats because the ex thinks that is her ace in the hole. If she makes me more miserable to be without my kids, I will go back to a less miserable way of life. She has rationed visitation, and fought like hell in court to see it stayed that way. I am having one of them days that putting up with her crap, seems like a cake walk. My children have given me purpose in life I was missing. Being with my ex made me feel like i was worthless. I guess i don't really have a question, I just miss my son, and daughter this evening more than usuall.

2007-02-26 18:51:14 · 6 answers · asked by ckgene 4 in Marriage & Divorce

In a nutshell,. theres this guy whom i seemed to tak a liking too.I think what did it was the fact that he would always smile at me, and come up to me and ask how I was.He gave me his cell number, but when he called me, and he heard my voice , he hung up but he called back and he told me he would like to my FRIEND and that if I wanted to go to a movie or hang out to give him a call..so a month passes, and we workout together, and the whole time he's blushing and laughing, and he tells me"you make the cuttest litlle faces" and he's asking me "do I have a friend to work out with" and if not he would like to workout with me...so a week goes by...and we talk and I told him i enjoy his company and we should hang out.. he says that we could but in a few weeks because he has no money..so a few weeks go by...and no phone call, so I text message him, while he as at work to get coffee after he gets off.. he then tells me..he's at work, so we should get together next week...

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and so I straight up ask him If he's intrested..and he says we can meet up sometimes..BUT he can't say thats interested in hanging out as an ongoing thing"

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And then he asked me if I wanted to play basketball" and asked me if he could see my calves?LOL

2007-02-26 18:50:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do they have to invent special positions or have a harness and pully attached to the ceiling to suport them?

2007-02-26 18:49:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

girls please tell me what kind of boys do u expect to be ur friend
what are the qualities you need
i feel lonely

help me

2007-02-26 18:49:02 · 12 answers · asked by xyz 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you do if a hot guy came up to you in a nightclub and shone a laser beam in your eye and while you were blinded he ***** slapped you and stuck a crayon up your bum

2007-02-26 18:48:50 · 4 answers · asked by Ziems 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 18:48:34 · 7 answers · asked by Peppermint Patti 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been friends for 4 years now, online. We talk on the phone and write letters as well. I adore him, but I am very afraid that he will be different in real life. Anyone had a similar experience? How did it go? Thanks :)

2007-02-26 18:48:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We flirt all the time ,she calls all the time ...and when im not around she misses me?

2007-02-26 18:46:50 · 5 answers · asked by Mr Gentelman 1 in Singles & Dating

Just because you're worried what your parents would think of your love. And they truly wouldnt have any rational reason, their prejeduce would be based upon race or age or social standing. If you did, did you regret it later?

2007-02-26 18:46:29 · 4 answers · asked by Jim V 3 in Singles & Dating

Say if you know people that you think are stuck in a rut, to what degree can you tell them what to do with their lives? Surely they have to find their own path?

2007-02-26 18:45:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why is it that guys always say that for a women there cant be sex with "no strings attatched"? last year i had sex with my boss a couple times "no strings attatched", i wasnt looking for a raise or promotion or anything like that, just a couple one night stands. but now a year later after he has gotten married he is expecting it to happen again;

so for the guys that say women cant have no strings what about the guys that cant let things be left in the past

2007-02-26 18:42:47 · 8 answers · asked by Over and Over 5 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy a couple of years ago , we had classes together for a year, 3 semesters one subject each it seemed like fate.I've always had this amazing dreams about him and how things would be if i dated him (i liked someone else at that time) we saw in the campus a lot .We've never spoked he was too shy ,he liked me,i can tell because i caught him looking at me but i always ignored him. At the end of THAT year he got a gf, he still liked me. Its been a long time since i dont dream about him, this week i did so i checked his hi5 and i found out that he had split with the gf. I've put my email on my hi5 in case he checks who have seen his profile and decides to add me.The signs are too many to avoid. I dont want to sit and wait but i am too shy and proud to send him a message with my email, what if he rejects me and i see him ? Wouldnt it be weird as we've never spoke? Once he was walking with her and he ignored her to look at me she noticed ,weeks after he was alone and ignored me

2007-02-26 18:42:32 · 3 answers · asked by dancrow 2 in Singles & Dating

girls if u see a guy at the bar thats a pretty boy etc..looks like a model..would u go after him or would u be to nervous to. or would u shut him down cuz he walks around with an attitude.

2007-02-26 18:41:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know a man who from Austria,and last sunday we meet in pubs,he treats me and give me a CD...because i tell him i want to listen some German songs but i donot how i gat the song..
and everyday,we will e-mail or sand msg sometimes...but he didnot call once!
he said he will go to camping ,and i asked he can i go with him yesterday?he said :yes!that will be more fun.
but ... he will leave my country this April...how can i do ?
and how do you think this man does he like me or not?

2007-02-26 18:41:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 18:41:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

help!

2007-02-26 18:40:28 · 8 answers · asked by sure_whatever_29 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 1yr and 1/2. In the beginning of the relationship we were sex maniac's (sometimes 3-4 times a day). Now we seem to be having sex less and less (about once every 2 wks). I know he is not cheating on me because I'm on the phone or with him all the time. I cant think of anything that has happened in his life recently that would take a toll on our sex life. I'm thinking maybe now that he knows I want sex a lot he has backed off. Maybe I should give him excuses when he wants it and he will realize how I'm feeling. I don't know. Sex isn't really that big of a deal I mean other than that we have a GREAT relationship. any advice for me would we appreciated. Thank you =)

2007-02-26 18:38:24 · 17 answers · asked by wisperssweetnothingz 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 18:37:28 · 19 answers · asked by mcew91 1 in Weddings

Ok I need a kick a** outfit for next time I hang out with my close to being boyfriend.
Ok I have medium length light brown hair, nice brown eyes, nicly sized lip's a nose that fits my face, and just all in all nice face (I think lol)
I have a great figure (encluding my butt lol), but I have a TINY bit I need to work off my tummy thats all.
I need something not TOO revealing but sexy, I know he LOVES tank-top's a.k.a. nice tight shirts that dont show off to much.
Tight jeans but just a few days ago I was wearing a pair of his pants (Mine were soaked) and he complimented them I duno why they were bagy as hell lol but he said my butt still looked good in them (do you think that was just something to make me feel good about what i was wearing or what?)
I need a good make-up idea (NO red lipstick it looks horible on me, + I know what lip gloss I am going to wear =]) ya know something to turn him on but that I can wear around my family lol.
any ideas would help thx=]

2007-02-26 18:36:38 · 9 answers · asked by *B.S.S.F.P* 2 in Singles & Dating

cuz shes askin me questions and now she wants me to ask questions so at should i say and not like bf and gf stuff like as friends

2007-02-26 18:36:33 · 9 answers · asked by jr. 1 in Friends

but thanks for answearing and i alreadi tried to talk to him and he sais to just leave him alone and about the mi space whi do you think he did that saing he was single and looking for a serious relationship whi would a guy do those things wen being married i dont understand i give hem love time affection anithing that you need in a relationship t owork out. Well he sais it was just for past time but o im really confuse i don't even know what to think anymore and about the spelling sorri but mi first first language is spanish thanks and god bless averibody

2007-02-26 18:35:51 · 3 answers · asked by sweet kiss 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do i suddenly hate him?
i know i hate special feelings for him
i just dont know how to say them, whenever he is around i tend to act as if he does not exist
and i try to tell myself everyday that im not good enough, and that i should not have a boyfriend because i dont love myself that much,that i can offer someone else myself.
i just want to remain single, and so i push the men i like away from me, and now i suddenly just feel the need to hate him, i know its my fault. if before i still text him and smile at him today and maybe tomorrow i plan on forgetting the whole idea
i dont know plainly, is this a sign that i do have feelings for him? or am i a coward

2007-02-26 18:35:46 · 4 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

My crush finally came to visit me tonight...what he said kinda sounds interesting.
He was in my room and we were working on the computer. He saw the cat laying on the bed. He mentioned my pillows. Then he mentioned he would need more pillows for his head. Then he asked if the cat always sleeps there. I said yes. He said something like he couldn't sleep with a cat or there would be no where for him or something. I said "Are you in my bed?" He said "No, I'm just saying if I was..."

2007-02-26 18:34:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son has just let me know that he was upset when he found out his dad has a gf. He said he wanted us to be a family. I didn't want him back b/c I can't trust him. He is making things hard for me with this woman he cheated on me with and she is a psycho and controlling of him. I am not seriously considering getting with him but my son was so distraught by that. We really never were together the whole time while he was in jail but we maintained contact and after he got out he talked to us all the time. He callsto speak to him but he has called me too. I don't like the siuation and I'm either ready to tell him to not have contact period or idk but it will be drastic. He got upset b/c he heard him tell that ***** that he was her husband, thye ain't married their playing house.
Helpful advice please. And I don't talk badly about him to my son either.

2007-02-26 18:33:47 · 5 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Singles & Dating