Although I get to see them, its not as often as I should. Thats because the ex thinks that is her ace in the hole. If she makes me more miserable to be without my kids, I will go back to a less miserable way of life. She has rationed visitation, and fought like hell in court to see it stayed that way. I am having one of them days that putting up with her crap, seems like a cake walk. My children have given me purpose in life I was missing. Being with my ex made me feel like i was worthless. I guess i don't really have a question, I just miss my son, and daughter this evening more than usuall.
2007-02-26 18:51:14 · 6 answers · asked by ckgene 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is soooo sad :( :( I am sorry, I can not imagine my life without my kids with me everyday, neither could there dad. Its a shame that your wife has kept visitation minimal, I don't know the whole story but I feel for you. I hope that thing work out for..
2007-02-26 18:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its easy to hold a grudge over an ex's head and put the blame on them,but in reality if you two battled in court then there is more to this story then what has been written. You may miss your children and feel as you were not equally justified in court, but what it comes down to is the courts made the decision in the best interest of the children and for some reason that you've failed to mention has kept you to only having rationalized visitation. There is always two sides to every story.
2007-02-26 19:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by Skinz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-09-29 23:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry you are going through this, some women are bitches and thats a fact! Your children know you and love you and before too long they will be old enough to decide where they want to be. Spend the time you can with them, make sure it is really quality time and hold out for when you can be with them more often. I will be thinking of you.
2007-02-26 18:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by minimouse68 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
fight for your relationship with your children; stay involved in their lives no matter how much your ex fights you over it; you have legal rights, but more importantly you owe it to your kids. You can do it! Don't wait for her permission, you can call the school and get the schedules, you can go the programs and the parent teacher meetings; you can get copies of report cards .....
2007-02-26 20:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-26 18:55:30 · answer #6 · answered by Sanjeev T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋