Single Woman dating advice needed?

Question

In a nutshell,. theres this guy whom i seemed to tak a liking too.I think what did it was the fact that he would always smile at me, and come up to me and ask how I was.He gave me his cell number, but when he called me, and he heard my voice , he hung up but he called back and he told me he would like to my FRIEND and that if I wanted to go to a movie or hang out to give him a call..so a month passes, and we workout together, and the whole time he's blushing and laughing, and he tells me"you make the cuttest litlle faces" and he's asking me "do I have a friend to work out with" and if not he would like to workout with me...so a week goes by...and we talk and I told him i enjoy his company and we should hang out.. he says that we could but in a few weeks because he has no money..so a few weeks go by...and no phone call, so I text message him, while he as at work to get coffee after he gets off.. he then tells me..he's at work, so we should get together next week...

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6 minutes ago
and so I straight up ask him If he's intrested..and he says we can meet up sometimes..BUT he can't say thats interested in hanging out as an ongoing thing"

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7 minutes ago
And then he asked me if I wanted to play basketball" and asked me if he could see my calves?LOL

When he was late to workout together...for one he called his friend, and he told me he was running late, which isn;t like him, and then when he showed up, he aplogizes, and said that he had to drop somebody off..and he was really agaitated when he said it...but the key things is he said "somebody"

Answer 1

He is playing with you, and enjoys putting you on a rollercoaster. Get off the Rollercoaster, emotions, are NOT TO BE PLAYED WITH. AND THAT IS WHAT HE IS DOING TO YOU.

Move on honey, he is not worth the dirt you walk on.

Answer 2

Sorry hun he is superficial and is an a&*()hole so I would say yeah ok and go date someone else who has more potential than a tea bag!!!! some guys have muscles and some only have them where its needed!!!!! and only if they know how to use them. Move on find another guy who loves you for who you are and is not motivated by your calves or your &*() life is too short for bs and that is what this is, take care and find someone who really cares, heather

Answer 3

we, (men), have issues with ours eves that far exceed the one women have, (in my opinion), we just try to hide them by acting like idiots or worse. sound like the guy is a freaky dude, (a few ladies on the side, or something strange) or he is broke and ashamed of it. try to find out, carefully, we are sensitive about people prying into our personal issues. if it is not money you are concerned about, do not tell him that bluntly, try to think of things that require no dough. in my opinion, this guy is hiding something he is ashamed of, or he is only interested in being friends. if i met him in person, i could read him like a short story, but... well, remember to take it slow, and don't be over analytical

Answer 4

this guy is very strange indeed... sounds a little off in the head.. better avoid this one.. keep moving along.

Answer 5

Probably married or has a partner, otherwise why all the excuses?

Answer 6

Listen to your heart and you will know the answer

Answer 7

so what's your question and why are you laughing out loud about this...the guy is a weirdo and doesn't seem to be interested in you at all.

Answer 8

HA HA that man likes you a lot. GOOD luck with him.

Answer 9

if you want to see what's up with him, try and give him some and see where it goes.