girls please tell me what kind of boys do u expect to be ur friend
what are the qualities you need
i feel lonely
help me
2007-02-26 18:49:02 · 12 answers · asked by xyz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks guys for ur advice
i would like to know from girls also
2007-02-26 19:08:12 · update #1
Listen mate..its a happy news..Get along with a group of guys and enjoy life..forget girls..its waste of time..girl friends are very selfish and you'll feel even more lonely after getting along..serious..from my heart.. to enjoy life ..stay away from girls..
2007-02-26 18:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by Rattler 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, girls often don't know exactly what the answer to that is even.
Girls respond to social value, in fact that's about all they respond to when it comes to finding a potential mate. (Did you ever wonder why ugly rockers get hot gf's?). Right, so all you need to do to get a girlfriend is become socially valued in a certain situation... not even all the time, just ONCE even to attract a girl.
How? Here are some qualities of attractive people -
Admired and Desireable - Rockers, hot girls, doctors, all fit here. You don't HAVE to be one of these to be this though.
Relaxed and Confident
They are THEMSELVES - this means don't be tryhard. Don't go out of your way to impess people. This implys that you are lower value then them.
Their time has VALUE - Cutting off boring threads of convo, NOT willing to sit around listening to lame stories, etc...
They are socially intelligent
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Qualities of Low Status People
They seek approval and acceptance
They are volatile and anxious
They try to buy what they can't earn
They disdain what they can't have
You GAIN status when -
Your worth is recognized and appreciated
People seek your approval
You display competence naturally
You cement someone's position beneath you
You IMPLICITLY display social intelligence
You Lose Status When:
You show outcome-dependence
You try to buy approval
Your position is cemented as below someone
You chase
What you need to do witih this is begin to actively demonstrate the HIGH VALUE characteristics. Take it one at time, step by step.
Once you have a girl ATTRACTED to you, ask her some questions that give YOU a legit reason to be interested in her OTHER then her looks.
After this step you stop acting all high and mighty and just truly be yourself.
Oh by the way... in case you didn't know (natural) looks for a guy are NOT that important. You can acheive just as much by being fit (working out) and being groomed (well dressed, clean shaved, smell nice, tan, etc.)
2007-02-26 19:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by goiowa6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to model yourself after a list of qualities a person types up. A friendship/relationship isn't about what you can "become" for that person. It's about what your each bring to the relationship. If you want a relationship to be true and wonderful, allow yourself to be exacly that YOURSELF. And, allow that person to be who they are too! Love and friendship isn't about obtaining a person who is perfect, cuz that will never happen. It's about loving them for all the wonderful qualities they have, and accepting their faults, and continuing to love them despite those faults. I'm 24 years old. I still haven't found "the one." And, I'm okay with that. Why? Because I'm worth it. And the person I'll fall in love with is worth it too. Be yourself. And live you life with your future love in mind, because you'll find them someday.
2007-02-26 18:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by lilnickle144 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all there is not any longer something to rigidity approximately...2d as i'm a female i could desire to help u by utilising telling u the flaws u could desire to could desire to allure to ladies....first of all go away this so style worried photograph that u r wanting to have a female fiend , attempt to be cool and care much less sbout ecosystem if there are some ladies watching u ;) (whether u experience v chuffed haha), then instruct of as u dont care a lot for women i mean instruct ideas-set as u r a individual who no longer run at the back of ladies yet they run at the back of u , communicate some skinny philosophical in front of a gul, attempt to be happpy and dominant in ur friendz.(guls like such issues)
2016-09-29 23:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel lonely, because as they say, LOVE COMES SOFTLY. Sometimes, when you search, you might lost some love along the way. My advice is just to let things FLOW in the way that it should. God knows best, my friend. Someone is MADE especially for you.
Anyhow, be yourself...I prefer a man with great personality, doesn't mean he has to be handsome, but he has to know how to dress well, has a great manner: courteous, i mean, and knows how to respect a woman. You have to be nice, confident and faithful if you want to have a love able aura!
May you found your IMMORTAL love!
2007-02-26 18:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by Isabel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cheer up man! Nice guy finishes last. It'd come when you least expect it.
Good Luck!
2007-02-26 18:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by Tom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when im down he needs to be able to bring a smile, or dry a tear. have the right touch and know exactly what to say. be kind loving and understanding.
2007-02-26 19:03:35 · answer #7 · answered by Over and Over 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy it; im single too! i think that this is not the time to be tied down. date around to look for characteristics that you like in a person.
2007-02-26 19:59:59 · answer #8 · answered by caramel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,i agree with chanel.LOVE COMES SOFTLY,dude just cheer up.you'll find ur perfect match.
2007-02-26 18:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by ani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT WORRY BECAUSE...
(1) THE BOYS HAVE GIRLFRIEND ARE LUCKY & YOU ARE NOT LUCKEY.
(2) THE BOYS HAVE NO GIRLFRIEND ARE SO SO SO LUCKEY & YOU ARE.
2007-02-26 18:57:08 · answer #10 · answered by parth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋