We have been friends for 4 years now, online. We talk on the phone and write letters as well. I adore him, but I am very afraid that he will be different in real life. Anyone had a similar experience? How did it go? Thanks :)
2007-02-26 18:48:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi Nat, I have heard of relationships like yours. All i have heard about have been a big success. After writing and emailing and talking on the phone for 4 years i would say, you both should know one and the only like a book. Mean him and have some fun.
A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-02-26 18:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you how this person will be in real life, if you have been communicating for four years, you should know some things about this person.Not sure what you are afraid of, I would take a close friend with me when I meet this person for the first time. Maybe your instincts are telling you that he may be different in person. Always be careful about meeting someone that you only know from the Internet and phone calls.
2007-02-26 18:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My best advice is that you should act the same way you have on messages and on the phone. If you haven't been yourself when you have talked to him, that wouldn't be fair to him. Just act normal and don't expect too much. Decide if your friendship via messages and letters are more important than what might happen. As long as you have been totally honest with him the entire time, you should have a great meeting!
2007-02-26 18:55:31 · answer #3 · answered by Too Cool For Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please, Whatever you do...make sure you tell someone the details of where, when why and how you are meeting with this guy.....so many stories about violent crimes via the Internet, you must not be distrusting but you should lookout for yourself.
Meet for the first time at a public place...and maybe the second time and see how things will go. 4 years is a long time, but still you never know....
Thanks
2007-02-26 18:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by Ariana 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 21:06:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
not be need of afraid because he is Ur friend and understanding is necessry in any friendship if he is different then you may be change
ok have nice day
2007-02-26 19:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by naveen k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya ,, i knew this girl on here that met this man she became close to,,, what a joke,,, ppl are not usually what they describe be careful,, and make sure you meet in a busy area not secluded
2007-02-26 18:52:31 · answer #7 · answered by mala 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
don't expect too much from him. Be yourself etc etc etc
2007-02-26 18:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋