am i wrong?

Question

Why do i suddenly hate him?
i know i hate special feelings for him
i just dont know how to say them, whenever he is around i tend to act as if he does not exist
and i try to tell myself everyday that im not good enough, and that i should not have a boyfriend because i dont love myself that much,that i can offer someone else myself.
i just want to remain single, and so i push the men i like away from me, and now i suddenly just feel the need to hate him, i know its my fault. if before i still text him and smile at him today and maybe tomorrow i plan on forgetting the whole idea
i dont know plainly, is this a sign that i do have feelings for him? or am i a coward

Answer 1

sounds like you have abandonment issues. did you have a stable childhood?

Answer 2

you are being selfish. I have this problem about being afraid to let someone close to me due to my hurtful past. The truth is even though I am scared and uncomfortable with these unfamiliar feelings I have towards this guy I cant judge him on the other loosers in my past. I know how bad it is to get hurt so I keep reminding myself that I don't wanna do that to someone else. I think you should leave this poor guy alone until you get over your problems involving yourself or tell him what exactly you wrote because everyone deserves a Fair chance and you cant judge a book by its cover or your past books.and Duh sweety you have feelings for him.

Answer 3

maybe you get weak when u are in love, as everyone does.which makes u hate the idea, and what i can assure u is that " hate is a result of strong love" ..Just try to relax and be urself..dont wase time on thinking.Just do wat u feel ok about.
as for me i love being single too. and am ok with it!
so do what u feel perfect for you. and when u meet that person you will feel that u have strong crush on that person and u wont even dare to keep him off:)))))))

Answer 4

Yeah yer pretty much wrong.. but dont feel bad i'm not much better..