My wife told me she wanted a divorce, that she loved me but wasn't in love with me. Now just 3 weeks later she is talking about this guy she met and she is totally in love with him. She is talking about marriage and children with him. How can she turn around so fast? I know she had a head start on the divorce, I still do not want it. Is this just a rebound relationship that is doomed or could it be something more?
2007-02-26 18:54:40 · 10 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your marriage apparently was in the crapper to begin with or she wouldn't have fallen for someone else. Did you pay as much attention to her as you could? You must have missed some signs along the way. Many men take their wives for granted after they have been together for a while this becomes a major problem. We really like it when you show us that we are important to you and you still love us and find us as attractive as you did when you married us. Let her go. If she loves you she will wake up it may be too late to turn it around. Too much damage may have been done in past. ADDS UP.
2007-02-26 23:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm facing the same problem with mines. All I can say is only time will tell after she completely divorce you move on do your thing don't worry about her if it is meant to be she will return you might been in another marriage by then but don't destroy it for her sake she is the one that made a poor choice by choosing someone else cause sex is not everything in a relationship **ck crazy female will soon learn what goes around comes around
2007-02-27 08:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by trueexposure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not an emotion...I think its a symptom of doing loving things for each other. She is probably mistaking the passion and excitement of a new relationship for love. I dont know how long you have been married...but I know most women desire that fire of a new relationship, even if they have been married 10 years (I know I do). The feeling that you are desirable, every part of you...not just a ...ummm..sperm catcher. I dont know if your marriage can be saved...since a marriage takes two and she is no longer looking with in her marriage to fill her desire. But if you do get the chance to work on your marriage...recognize that sex, feeling wanted, all of this is much different for a women. Spend time on every part of her...her body, her favorite fruit or treat (go buy it...even if she is the only one in the house who likes ) make her feel needed, desired, hungared for. She has a responsibility to you as your wife as well...and together you would need to work out what each others needs, expectations and desires are, and then work to fill them.
2007-02-27 03:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by deda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sry to hear this ,,, but she cant be in love 3 weeks later and yes sounds like rebound ,,, but sometimes you can go thru mid life crisis,, hang in there time will tell and i wish you the very best
2007-02-27 03:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by mala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it..
Just divorce her and move on...
The best way to mend a broken heart is with a new love.
2007-02-27 02:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut- She is on the rebound.
Where I am you can file for a divorce based on adultery (as this is what she is doing) otherwise have to wait one year to file.
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2007-02-27 04:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by Paradox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason being is probably shes bored of you. and woman who get bored of men easily what she did to you odds are shell do it to him. if you really love someone you wont fall for someone else it seems she never loved you in the first place.
2007-02-27 04:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by oneandonlyness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way to know for certain but time will tell.
2007-02-27 02:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by angela k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut your losses and move on. she's not worth your time.
2007-02-27 03:03:47 · answer #9 · answered by admiril 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK you need to look how you were treating her. NOW she is leaving.
2007-02-27 02:59:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋