how could i leave mi husband when first of all i love so much and we have a baby how so if i leave how i'm i going to take care of hem wen right now i don't have a job or going to college becouse stupid me left all that to love and dedicate time for mi husband and the house and now to the baby most important were im going to live i ave practicli nothing but mi son and god and im verry sorri for mi spelling again but mi lenguage is spanish all do i do speak perfecly fine
2007-02-26 18:53:10 · 7 answers · asked by sweet kiss 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have really let this man bring you down and for what....You say it is love but it has to work both ways and he is not attempting to put any effort into this relationship. You should be with someone that appreciates you and makes you feel like the most beautiful woman in the world. But instead you are letting him bring your self-esteem so far down that you are willing to just stay with him and be so unhappy.
There are organizations out there that will help you get back on your feet. They will help with housing and daycare and everything it is out there you just have to want to ask for the help. Noone and I repeat noone should have to stay in a relationship that is not really going anywhere and there is only 1 person that is trying to make it work.
You and your son deserve so much better!!
Good Luck and I do hope that you open your eyes and see that you and your son shouldn't have to go through this.
2007-02-26 19:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek out the nearest Department of Economic Security Office and ask for homeless services. Often in your city there is also an Information and Referral number (possibly 411) that can help. Do this away from your husband possibly at a library so he can't track what you are planning. Libraries can also be helpful in finding the information for your.
You'll need to plan:
Housing (Housing assistance)
Food for you and the child (WIC, Foodbanks)
Job search
Free childcare
You may need to plan more to make this work. So take your time and don't react to suddenly to your husbands use of MySpace. Talking it over may be your best option for now especially since you have a child. Please use this as a reminder to make your own plans for the future of not only yourself but your child.
If your husband is doing more than just using Myspace: see below
2007-02-27 03:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by PapaJon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't see your first question here, so I am basing this on what I'm seeing here, and in some answers.
If he is abusing you, you need to leave him. They never get better, you know, only worse. It comes down to asking yourself if you love your baby and yourself more, or him more. It would be awful for a baby to grow up with an abusive father. You must not allow that to happen.
Go to a women's shelter where you and baby will be safe. The people there can help you get started on your own. They will show you what resources are available.
Please don't waste your and your baby's lives with an abuser.
2007-02-27 03:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First go to the child support office and get that rollin,
go to the nearest Section 8 office and see how they can help you,
Go to the welfare office apply for all things necessary and child-care., get a child care provider, go get a job.
2007-02-27 03:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by DropTopAle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I know first of all you love him and it's going to be hard but remember you shouldn't give up every thing for him you have dreams and hope for you and your son,so what has he gave up for you and your son? that is some thing for you to think about, I know it's going to be hard to start over on your own, but i know you can make it through this rough time in your life also remember god is with you and he will help you get through this it's going to take time god bless i sure hope all works out for you and your son
2007-02-27 09:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by raven s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can alwys get child support. and social system will make sure you have a safe place to stay.
2007-02-27 02:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK if your husban is abusing you get out now. TOO many women get killed with husbans that are abusive.
2007-02-27 02:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋