I have witnessed many cases in my travels of the "beauty and the beast" syndrome. Georgous girls dating freaky emo guys. These girls can do better. Why dont they?
2007-02-26 18:22:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe, and this might be a total long shot, the guys are nice & interesting. Alot of pretty girls will go out with a guy who judges them on their personality instead of their looks. Maybe these guys aren't judgemental and don't see the hot girls as a trophy. Who knows why people love each other. Looks aren't that important anyway. They fade away with time.
2007-02-26 18:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by FactoryGirl 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's the old beauty IS in the eye of the beholder adage. There are
men that guys would think ugly, that are extremely attractive to
femals. It's that unnamed quality that makes them so appealing,like Humphery Bogart, many men (and some women)
don't get "it", but whatever it is he had it, the guy was just sexy,ever checkout CasaBlanca?
Besides that there's another factor that you probably have over
looked,females like guys that are secure enough in their masculinity not to go around trying to PROVE it all the time, it's
just there, and they are genuinely intrested in what a girls thinking
and not just trying to get another conquest or a one night stand.
Some guys even see us as a threat instead of a friend, like in the
job market, as a matter of fact you may be suprised to learn to
some we are the enemy, now how about that? Did you know it is
not considered sissyfied for a guy to show tender emotions and
kindness? If you truly LIKE females then show it and have fun and most importantly LISTEN to what we're saying or not saying.
All the goodlooks in the world can't take the place of honest feeling and caring and making a woman feel she's special. Now
that's SEX appeal!!
2007-02-26 18:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by peachiepie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever consider that it was about the guy's personality rather than the way he looks? Are you more than just your hair color, the way your face is, and what your body is? I hope so. I hope there is more to you than just that. Don't judge people by their looks. You are assuming that because they are not the typical "hot guy", then they are not worth someone's time. If you think like that, you could pass up a girl that isn't your typical "hot girl" that just may be the girl that is perfect for you. Grow up a bit and don't judge people by their looks. What if every single girl turned you down because they assumed you were a jerk? I don't think you would like it that much.
Amanda
2007-02-26 18:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because these ugly guys have better feelings somehow. Nothing wrong for a beautiful gal to date a ugly guy. Those gals only seek a guy with a kind heart and someone who understands them. let them be, dude. Maybe you'll end up with a ugly gal at the end. All what matters is inside. Peace!
2007-02-26 18:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
as i'm sure most people will tell you...it's because looks really don't matter in the long run. Everyone is gonna get old one day so you might as well marry someone with a beautiful heart rather than a beautiful face. Plus, once you fall in love with someone's heart...you start appreciating the way they look too...
2007-02-26 18:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by Leah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks aren't everything. If you ask most women, they will tell you that they are interested in personality. Looks are a start, but if someone has nothing more to offer than good looks, they are going to either be really lonely or in shallow relationships. Obviously these girls are getting something out of the relationships or they wouldn't be in them.
2007-02-26 18:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because great looking guys are too wrapped up in themselves to actually pay attention to the girl their with. Everyone is amazed at the girls I date sometimes, but its all becaus i put them first in everything, they know that when they are with me i wont diss them to go play poker with the boys, or leave them standing by themselves at a party. They are the center of my life as long as we're dating. It seems to work for me.
2007-02-26 19:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by Jim V 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well the answer to that is because uglier people hustle more than good looking guys, since they lack the appearance. Anyhow, ugly people tend to hold on to what they have since getting in and out of relationships with hot people is difficult. The girls don't get out of their situation because they are comfortable with a man that is more obedient and is willing to do whatever it takes to keep in a relationships.
2007-02-26 18:30:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jeffrey C 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
even if someone is pleasing, interior the middle or gruesome is a persons'' opinion. absolutely, i imagine Kim Kardashian, Natalie Portman and Kate Perry are gruesome. I observed one image of Olivia on the internet and idea she became gruesome. I observed Jennifer Lopez on television and did not imagine she became fantastically. Heidi Klum is gruesome. So is Christina Aguilera and Lauren London is gruesome. i do not decide adult men.
2016-12-05 00:29:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I know what you mean...everyone tells me that I'm too pretty for my boyfriend but i don't care. It's kind of a good thing for the girl because the nerdy looking guy makes her look even hotter & maybe the hot guys will think well if she'll go out with that nerd then she will definitely go out with me! idk thats just my opinion...there are a million reasons because of this & another one is that most hot guys are huge jerks and think the world revolves around them....unlike some of the nerdy guys who are sweet. I'm not saying all nerds are sweet but in most cases.
2007-02-26 18:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by *Manda* 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋