Family & Relationships - 25 February 2007

There is an awful lot of husband bashing in here and I know there are many happy wives out there. Tell me good things about your husband that make you love him more every day. What makes him special to you and how long have you bben married?

2007-02-25 03:14:37 · 18 answers · asked by Trisha 5 in Marriage & Divorce

he would call me everyday and night from work we talk all the time and liked the same stuff. he called me one saturday and said he was comeing sunday had me a v day gift i told him i had him one to. anyways i got worryed sunday when he did not come or call so i tryed calling him could not get any one so i wrote him a 8 page letter to him and his son telling them both how i feel he is 34 years old and i am going to be 30 years old this summer anyways he had his friend to wirte me back and say he died monday of a hearattack and he send me a photo of him laying down with flowers on top of him and a xams tree in the back ground of the photo it looks like he is sleeping not dead. i called his job they said he was not dead been working all week so i got him back he did not think i would call his job. thing is i miss him and want him back he wont even tell me why he dose not want to be with me anymore i wrote him letters trying to find out why but he wont tell me. i forgive him 4 the dead stu

2007-02-25 03:13:58 · 4 answers · asked by betty m 6 in Singles & Dating

Because he/she is really cute/pretty/handsome that makes you attracted to your sibling?

2007-02-25 03:13:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay what would you do if someone broke in to your house and went in your babys room and started shaking it and liking it? then got a bottle and started drinking out of it?? not real people! hypothetic question!

2007-02-25 03:13:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

me and my boyfriend have only been dating for like 3 months and its already screwed up...i have tried callin him almost everyday and he wasnt home so his brother told me he would tell my boyfriend to call me back,he never did!!i went ova derr like a few days later and he told me his brother never told him i dont believe that...we barely talk for the last week or too and when i breakk up with him i cant stop thinking about his dumba**>>i dont know what to do help me

2007-02-25 03:12:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it worth it? Should I keep trying..?
I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years. He is very kind, respectful, funny and we share the same beliefs. We rarely fight, which we both love. However, for the past month or so I have had weird feelings, and I question whether or not I want to be with him. Its really weird because Ive never gone through this before. I feel like I just want 'me time,' to hang out with my friends, focus on school and sports and not have to call him and what not, and lately every little thing he does annoys me. I have tried taking a break with him, but I cried for two days straight and couldn't do it. I dont really have the will to partake in sexual activities, either. But then again, when I think of certain songs it reminds me of how things used to be and it makes me really happy and sad at the same time, because I have hope that things could be like that again

ps-my feelings have nothing to do with anything he's done wrong, & he is intelligent

2007-02-25 03:12:15 · 23 answers · asked by Manda * 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My hubby & are having some hard times. He says he loves me but he has this look in his eyes. The fire has turned into a flicker, or gone out. He says he wants someone with drive & ambition. I don't know what I want to do with my life. I have a child & that is no excuse, but I want to focus on her because everyone else seems too busy to. I don't know what my niche in life is. Some say to just dive out there to see if you will swim or sink. The thing is I don't know what body of water to focus on swimming in. I love my husband but I don't know if I can take our relationship being the way it is. I almost feel pressure to kinda just pick something, but I know that shouldn't be the way to go about my life. I don't want to do something just for him to notice & the fire come back. What if what I want just seems more simple that what he wants. I don't know.......

2007-02-25 03:11:52 · 6 answers · asked by twinkle toes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He does it through new e-mail account.

2007-02-25 03:10:34 · 19 answers · asked by Sarra C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just recently ended a relationship with my 5mth old daughters father and moved to georgia with my 8yr olds daughterts father. ive been here a week and im home sick and missing my recently ended relationships father. he wants me to come back. im not really happy here. but i dont want leave my daughter here.

2007-02-25 03:10:24 · 13 answers · asked by mygirlsx3hmc 1 in Family

I ask in Family forum because it seem to be an issue with parents and kids. But what is it that is unsafe? Can people get your address? What is the main forum for communicating on Myspace, is it the instant messenger? I just don't understand what is so evil about it.

2007-02-25 03:10:00 · 7 answers · asked by The Scorpion 6 in Family

has this ever occurred in your life, that you've dumped a guy, for some reason beyond your control, and after a long time, you miss him so much and you dicover that you still love him?

2007-02-25 03:09:50 · 4 answers · asked by Honey 3 in Friends

this morning i checked my email and my b/f sent me an email that said "sorrry its over" and now im sad i sent him an email saying please i promise it will better i wont hide. just please think about it. and i asked him why and is it b/c of delisa( a girl who likeshim) he says he dont like her but at school they flirt. and what should i do? if he gives me another chance go for it hoping for the best? let him go? i am not going to be single again for 6 months!!! should i still be friends with him? ive known him since 1st or 2nd grade (we are in 7th now) im so confused!!

2007-02-25 03:08:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you guys perfer a girls cute personality, or a hot body?
what would you consider cute?
how to get a guys attention? what attracts a guy? which parts of a girls body are most attractive? do men like alot of makeup?
and how do i get a guyi don't like to leave me alone?
thanx tonz...

2007-02-25 03:08:11 · 3 answers · asked by elish 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Where I work there are the trips a group of us have to make every year. One is to Chicago and the other is to wherever the shareholder meeting is being held. Leading up to the trip, there is all this flirting and gossiping about who is going to hook up with whom. After the meeting, the only thing I can compare it to was the way it was when I was in college. We had something, but now we have to return to being co-workers. Truth be told, its a lot of fun, and I’ve gotten caught up in a couple times. Problem: I’ve been married for 12 years.

My husband caught wind of what’s been happening, and we had a big talk. He asked a lot of questions, and even though I was confident at the end of our talk that he wasn’t leaving me – I wasn’t so sure he wasn’t going to ask me to quit my job.

About a week later, we had another talk, and he told me – he doesn’t see anything wrong with it if everything is safe?!?!?!?! He’s for real, and I believe him when he says it not because he’s been cheating. It’s so baffling.

2007-02-25 03:07:43 · 13 answers · asked by carol h 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so there was this girl I knew that went to middle school with me and I knew her from 6th grade to 8th grade, but we didn't really start becomming friends until 8th grade. When we did become friends, though, she began to physically and verbally abuse me. This went on all through 8th grade, and then we went to high school and I haven't seen her since the last day of 8th grade. And for the record, I'm now a freshman in high school. And several months ago I began to realize that I missed her. I always just tried to convince myself that I was wrong, but is it possible to miss an abuser after not seeing her for months?

2007-02-25 03:05:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i've had this friend for a year now. things were great at first but now things have gone down hill fast. where we fight all the time if it's just us but act like there is nothing wrong when we have people around us. i've been there and helped out and have a lot of investment in him to just let him go. now it just seems like he wants to be with me since i have money. just the other night he told me if i didn't give him that 10 he was down with me. do you think i should let him how i feel hoping that he might change or just forget it and move on

2007-02-25 03:05:25 · 9 answers · asked by gibbs_20_11 3 in Friends

But they dont make fun of me they make fun of my friends and the jokes the say are kinda funny and I try not to laugh but I cant help myself. Then they get mad at me for doing that. I really want to stop laughing beacuse their my BFF'S. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!

2007-02-25 03:04:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A woman can be deeply in love (or enfatuated at the least) with a man, and he will NEVER know.

2007-02-25 03:04:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been a nice guy my whole life and it hasn't gotten me anywhere. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a dork or anything, I've dated many women but I usually get told I'm too nice. What's wrong if my parents raised me right? What's wrong if I know how to treat a woman? Should I just start being a jerk to women? I bet I'd see better results. Anywho, thats the end of my rant... Thanks for your opinions!

2007-02-25 03:04:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know I can't get her something too big, because we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend, but what can I get her to show her at least that I care.

2007-02-25 03:03:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've loved this guy for over a year, but never went out with him, all my friends said we should but we never did. and now recently hes come out to me thats he's gay,and the only other person he's told is his best mate. It's broken my heart but i know i should be strong for him because coming out to everyone else is gunna be hard for him. What i'm worried about is if i'll ever love another guy, cause i still love him, even though hes gay. And he even told me that he used to love me! Will i ever move on???

2007-02-25 03:01:08 · 22 answers · asked by suz 2 in Singles & Dating

i always find guys younger than me in love with me if not attracted, some people say it's because i look young and cute, and when i tell those guys that i'm younger than they are, they just don't seem to have a problem. i treat them normally, you know in a way that does not encourage them on what they're doing.
any advice or experience?

2007-02-25 03:00:37 · 5 answers · asked by Honey 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been through alot together, but it's gotten to the point where I can't handle it anymore. It got out of control just this past Tuesday, he was being all jealous and possesive, calling me a lesbian because I was walking arms-linked with my 2 best friends. I walked away from him for being immature, then we got to the bus-stop, he came upto me yelling and swearing, making a scene and causing me to break down right there. I walked away still crying, and he ran after me, telling me I have 5 minutes to either return to him, or it would be over. I never went back. Can you blame me though? He came crying to me the next day, apologizing. I was just about to, until he said he expects me to admit i'm wrong for having left him. Now he's threatening to kill himself if I leave him again, and he does drugs, so i'm really scared he just might do it. He said he loves me, but i'm just not feeling it anymore, and now i'm too scared to even get out of this. What should I do? ='(

2007-02-25 02:59:39 · 23 answers · asked by princess3arabi 1 in Singles & Dating

All of my friends have one. I mean I have A.I.M. but they never get on because they have a MySpace. What should I say to my parents to convince them that MySpace can be safe and how should I approach them?

2007-02-25 02:59:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay, Here is my situation I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years. At the beginning it was an answered prayer (literally). Actually, it was the best thing for me at the time. It has enabled me to be a stronger woman & learn how to have a "healthy" non-abusive relationship. But, at the same time my intuition tells me we are is as far as we'll ever get. I want more and he just can't or won't give more or move on from the past relationships that have severely damaged his ideas of a commitment & long-term relationship. ( Our ideas of a relationship are completely different) I have reaped his "bad past" long enough, he just will not open up to me on certain issues, & I can't help him with them. So, On the 17th of this month, after a year of discussing & planning I decided to moved out of "our" house & get my own place again. There are just to many issues that absolutely need to be resolved before "this" relationship can grow any further. For myself...If I don't resolve the issues that hinder me I will never be able to be a mentally healthy woman. I can't resolve these issues with no one else, I have to do this myself. No one can help me with them & The same for him. This is reality- not an opinion or emotion. He has helped me in this transition being very understanding & supportive.(We are still together, just living a part) BUT....

My woman intuition tells me that I need to end our relationship completely, I feel like I am not an important part of his life, that he takes me for granted. He says, "I am" but, his actions are totally different from his words. I have almost always felt like I was "on the side", that quality time with me is not an issue for him. He has always pushed the issues of quality time to the side saying, "we have 30 or more years for it, but I NEED more & no matter what I say or do I D'ONT get it. I battled this issue with him for almost 2 yrs now. I am tired of repeating myself.

In the beginning, he was everything in a man I desired... He is truly a good , decent, caring, loving man, but at the same time he is self-centered and extremely selfish. I reap the bad that has happened to him, I love him ....What do I do?

How do I let go the best thing in life that has happened to me?

2007-02-25 02:59:07 · 2 answers · asked by Cajun_ Creater 2 in Singles & Dating

i recentlly asked out my ex, bc i still liked her and she liked me. when we were talking she said not to overuse the phrase, i love you. so i havent really said it unless she says it to me, or when we say bye to each other. but last time, i always said i love you when we said bye to each other, so i would like her to say it. for the past day when we're talking on the phone, she hasnt said "i love you" after she says like bye or something. one of us usually always say "bye, i love you" but i want her to say it first. since she hasnt, does that mean she still loves me?

2007-02-25 02:58:32 · 7 answers · asked by ownby 2 in Singles & Dating

This girl she is 18 and lives in England. I like her alot and we see eachother oin the summer again. She was here a month and we had alot of fun together. She wanted me to be there when she left and she hugged and kissed me. What do I do when I see her again? I know I should just continue where we left off, but what do I do after that? I might bring up that I will be traveling around and maybe she wll bring up to come and to England by her. I am not sure about what to really do in this situation.

2007-02-25 02:58:17 · 6 answers · asked by DJIAE 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is upset with me as I have not let him focus on his work issues. He has been very stressed and he is trying to apply for a new job. I have not been trusting towards him and instead saw his distancing as him not loving me and caring about me. He has pre-warned me that he has a lot to deal with it right now but I did not listen to him and I became needy. On Friday I sent him a message telling him that I dont feel special. He got upset with me. I apologised and he said that it's always like this with me and I never stick to what I say and that is that i'll let him focus. I sent him a message telling him that I understand him and that I will not disturb him and let him be and I am here for him if he needs me. He has not responded. What should I do now? He has planned to come and see me in a few days before this conflict happened.

2007-02-25 02:55:11 · 19 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Singles & Dating

wht is ur choice of a friend? a friend for a season/reason/a good reliable trustworthy & dependable friend forever?

and what kind of a friend d wud u be to someone?

a friend for a reason/season/a good reliable trustworthy & dependable friend forever?

2007-02-25 02:54:59 · 14 answers · asked by ☆| raji |☆ says let's make life beautiful! 6 in Friends

How would you know if a girl at work fancied you???

GIRL 1:

When she walks past-she lowers her head as she passes me,other times she smiles and we make eye contact.When her friends walk past-they look at me+smile.Then they suddenly start talking again as soon as they pass me!!!The same happens during lunch.I sent her a valentine card and my mate said that her friends were talking about it. Good signs???(not spoken to her yet)

GIRL 2: (speak to this one)

Continuous flirting,being rude to you 1 day,but polite the next,saying she wants to get to know you better?

She always mentions how I pulled her mate - WHY???

I pulled her mate when we all went out as a group.(her mate outside of work)This was 2 months ago!Why she keep bringing it up?

(She's got a boyfriend though he won't commit!There are moments when we just stare into each others eyes!!!)

Advice on BOTH GIRLS PLEASE......

p.s. they don't know each other....
Tips on how to get to know Girl 1 better?

2007-02-25 02:54:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings