i've had this friend for a year now. things were great at first but now things have gone down hill fast. where we fight all the time if it's just us but act like there is nothing wrong when we have people around us. i've been there and helped out and have a lot of investment in him to just let him go. now it just seems like he wants to be with me since i have money. just the other night he told me if i didn't give him that 10 he was down with me. do you think i should let him how i feel hoping that he might change or just forget it and move on
2007-02-25 03:05:25 · 9 answers · asked by gibbs_20_11 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like he's trying to control you. If it's not fun anymore then put some distance between you and see how the relationship evolves.
2007-02-25 03:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by solotrovo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person doesn't seem like a friend at all. I would just go with your gut feeling. I would call his bluff and let him be down with ya. If he was truly your friend he will respect you even for not giving in.
2007-03-05 03:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by Tracie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right relationship. He should be spending money on you, not taking money from you. For get him and move on, It's always hard to move on. I did so can you, now I have a loving husband and likes to spoil me.
2007-03-04 22:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by Peppermint Patti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes defenitely get read of him because he is never going to change for the good fighting isnt any good in a relationship either
2007-02-25 11:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by haroldgardner62002006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him all he wants is the money and not you! ps leave him hangin for aday or two, let him "stew" abit then drop it on him!!! find someone to drop afew dollas on you
2007-02-25 11:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely. you can't just sit around waiting for somebody to change, because chances are, they won't.
2007-02-25 11:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on, hopefully he will realize how much you care about him.
2007-03-04 20:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by mel s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not going to change and YES let him go he is wasting your time honey!!!!!!!
2007-02-25 11:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absouletly yess.
2007-02-25 11:11:53 · answer #9 · answered by gwen_ksk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋