Family & Relationships - 25 February 2007

me and this boy was going out and and comes to find out he was going out with this other girl and i dumped him and thats when the other girl dumped him and then they got back together but then he started sending me messages saying hes sorry and thats when we started to talk and he would say stuff like he still have luv for me and saying that his girlfriend aint given him no play if u know what i mean and he want me to give him play so should i believe him or tell him to wait to break up with the girl

2007-02-25 02:54:16 · 10 answers · asked by iluvpoohbear7890 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not fat or ugly and I'm always willing to please, yet he continues to get himself off, why doesn't he want to sleep with me? It doesn't make sense he always wanted too, now he is so distant, I really need your guys answeres.

2007-02-25 02:52:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Both are hot and both I have a lot of things in common but I don't want to lead the other on

2007-02-25 02:51:54 · 15 answers · asked by r6crazy1 1 in Singles & Dating

jus to let u all know with an update with us both, we spoke yesterday and its weird because we both agree on everything and how we both feel but she just kept on upseting me by speaking negatively about us by saying " what if we promise to stay together and fall in love with someone else?", and "what if our familys dont get along because of us?" i kept on tryin to assure her that only we can let that happen between us, she agrees with me and stuff and then she said to me she needs to think about it because of all that weve been through and i respected it and told her to take all the time she wants to think, i just feel reeli hurt because ive got a horrid feeling that she might leave now i just feel helpless about it all now, should i just leave her and not get hurt?? i love her so much, id do anything for her and would wait for her and so dus she, but ive got a horrid feeling that this is going to turn out to be a love tragedy for both of us and i dnt know how much more i can do.

2007-02-25 02:51:33 · 4 answers · asked by lovestruck 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have my very 1st girlfriend now. I barely asked her out yesterday and she accepted. I am happy. But when can i start holding her hand? do i just touch her hand to let her know that I want to hold hands with her? When do I start kissing her and so forth?

2007-02-25 02:51:07 · 6 answers · asked by Mr Guy 1 in Friends

I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years. He is very kind, respectful, funny and we share the same beliefs. We rarely fight, which we both love. However, for the past month or so I have had weird feelings, and I question whether or not I want to be with him. Its really weird because Ive never gone through this before. I feel like I just want 'me time,' to hang out with my friends, focus on school and sports and not have to call him and what not, and lately every little thing he does annoys me. I have tried taking a break with him, but I cried for two days straight and couldn't do it. I dont really have the will to partake in sexual activities, either. But then again, when I think of certain songs it reminds me of how things used to be and it makes me really happy and sad at the same time, because I have hope that things could be like that again. What should I do?

ps- my feelings have nothing to do with anything he's done wrong.he's never cheated and is very respectful.

2007-02-25 02:50:37 · 5 answers · asked by Manda * 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my husband, I want him back. We have been married 9 years. I left him when I watched my mom die. I was snuggled in the bed with her when she took her last breath..2 weeks later I left my husband. I was mixed up, depressed and confused about everything. Now that I have had time after my mom died and looked back on our family, I want that back.
I miss my kids and husband. He kept the kids because of my depression and all.
I see my kids and husband everyday, we hang out. But he moved a woman in the house already. Her and her son. They only knew eachother 2 weeks and she let her house go to live with him. They are stupid. He says he wants me back. But will not just kick them on the streets.
He wants me to wait. I cannot stand the fact this other woman is with the family I want. My husband tell me he wants me back but he dont want to hurt her.
I think if he wants me back he wouldnt care about this other woman and he would take me back today.

2007-02-25 02:49:47 · 16 answers · asked by Navulam 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a boyfriend and he keeps asking me if I really love him and why I am dating him. I tell him that I do love him for him and that I am dating him because I love him so much and that he is a great person to hang out with. I can't get it through to him that I love him. What can I do to show him that I love him? Meaning without words.

Thank you in advance!!

2007-02-25 02:49:08 · 7 answers · asked by FHS SENIOR '08 1 in Singles & Dating

I see him just about every four months but I miss him to much. It seems like such a long time away from him. It's just not enough. Neither of us can afford to visit more often. It's just so much heart-ache.

2007-02-25 02:48:49 · 12 answers · asked by JaniesTiredShoes 3 in Singles & Dating

I have my very 1st girlfriend now. I barely asked her out yesterday and she accepted. I am happy. But when can i start holding her hand? do i just touch her hand to let her know that I want to hold hands with her? When do I start kissing her and so forth?

2007-02-25 02:48:42 · 10 answers · asked by Mr Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, here's the problem: I'm 15, my boyfriend has NEVER kissed a girl before. we've been going out for two weeks, i know he REALLY likes me but and he hasn't even done as much as hold my hand (i think he's afraid, he's never done it before)! i REALLY like him, but i'm not sure what i should do about the first kiss thing, cuz i think it should probably be soon, when should i do it and how? should i say anything or just keep it silent? should i get close to him put my arms around him, or should i just do it out of nowhere? HELP PLEASE!!! WITH DETAILS???

2007-02-25 02:48:03 · 3 answers · asked by Jenni C 1 in Singles & Dating

He's been my friend for three years, and we went out once. After we dated, he dated his friend, which is also my close friend. (us 3 hang out together). Now they broke up. I really like him, but I don't know if he still has feelings for me. He told my friend he still likes me, but that was over 6 months ago. What should I tell him?

2007-02-25 02:45:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 02:45:57 · 24 answers · asked by b 1 in Singles & Dating

every boyfriend i've had (3) has turned vile when i ended it with them..i've ended 2 relationships because of THEM cheating and one because we've grown apart and are more like friends then lovers. I thought he was a really cool guy, until yesterday i expalined to him were growing apart and he accused me of sleeping around and that i had better have used protection otherwise he would beat me up!

I WAS in complete shock, he also said i need councelling? and that i was mad? where is this poison coming from. I tried to end it nicely but it just got thrown back in my face. i didnt cheat on him AT ALL. my friends say because i'm a model and i'm studying, that he feels insecure?

But why do men turn nasty after the break-up..like turn psycho on me..?

GRRRR

PLUS hes phoned me twice this morning and i never answered, i dont want to answer after those disgusting things he said about me, but i cant help but feel sorry 4 him as he said them in anger, but it was TOTALLY OUT OF ORDER!

2007-02-25 02:45:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what will you do if your Lover woke up today and begin telling you that he's not sure of his love for you and needed some space to think it over and that perhaps he's feeling a Sudden CHANGE OF HEART !?

must you LET GO?
>> set him free, let go of your love for him and feel the pain of loneliness?
>> set him free, even though you sensed that he isn't falling out of love with you, just that he must.

or

must you HOLD ON?
>> holding on to your love for him hoping that he'll get back to you before you go insane.
>> holding on to your love for him, maybe he really just needed some time?

2007-02-25 02:45:20 · 4 answers · asked by mistiqueKNIGHT 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 02:44:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need some help. I am with a wonderful man who treats me with all the respect in the world. I really couldn't ask for a better relationship except for one thing. Our physical relationship has become routine.

Before someone suggests it, or jumps to a conclusion, I do not want to have an affair, or get into swinging or have an "open relationship." I love my man, but I'm tired of the same old thing in our physical relationship. I've tried talking to him about it, but it's made little difference. I think this is something I am going to have to take the lead on, but I need some suggestions for spicing things up a bit. Any ideas?

2007-02-25 02:44:39 · 8 answers · asked by Sexual Being Too 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why does society make it hard to make friends? I suspect the reason why I don't make friends well is because the time allocation of college and the fact that I stayed home for extra time for the past 5 years. I played too much game that I lost communication to the real world. I lost ways on how to interact with the real world. Back in grade school, I remember I am good at making friends. In high school, I barely made one good friend. now in college, I cannot even make friends. in grade school, you used to have at least 8 AM - 2:40 PM monday through friday. and that is with the same people all day. In hs school, you can only get to meet the same people at least 1 class period (75 min) for 5 days and you had time to talk to new people. In college, you can meet new people but so rare to make friends. you can only see them for at least 2 class period only per week (3 hr). and you don't even have a chance to talk. the teachers lectures all class and the student leaves.

2007-02-25 02:44:14 · 6 answers · asked by Daft Punker 1 in Friends

I'm about to get married and we are of two different backgrounds.Therefore I'm not entirely sure that our marriage would be foolproof in everyday life and my fiance said "so what we will just get divorced if it doesn't work".
Anyway my question is what kind of papers need to be signed in the US at marriage to make a possible divorce in the future less of a nuicance?

PS.:I would be thankful for the legal advice but I don't need any moralizing

2007-02-25 02:43:59 · 5 answers · asked by amateurgrower 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i know he's depressed. he's the quiet type. doesn't talk much. he's dealing with some problems now. he's my friend and i really want to help him. so what's good for him? me leaving him alone with his probs or me bugging him from time to time to check if he's ok which he never is?

oh, and he's not my boyfriend, or my ex-boyfriend or the guy who i want him to be my boyfriend. ok so there.

i know my way of asking is somewhat rude or anything, but i'm stressed out. so, please, help, thanks.

2007-02-25 02:43:25 · 7 answers · asked by Pauper 2 in Friends

Often its about the dress she is looking at, the food she is craving for or an outing she is lookin forward to. Often its like "NO" is never the right answer...even though that could well be the answer that is right....eg. that colour or cutting maynot suit you !!!

2007-02-25 02:43:03 · 7 answers · asked by Rob 1 in Singles & Dating

Im currently in Cape Town, South Africa. My budget is R 5000. I preferrebly want to buy a wedding set, but I will settle for just an engagement ring for that price, I can always much later before the wedding buy the wedding band. Now what is the best option: White Gold or Platinum? (I hate normal gold) Then I want little diamonds plus a saphire in it, this is a must, it doesnt really matter which one is on the side and which is in the middle. Now Ive been window shopping around and I cant get want Im looking for. My only other option is to get it made. But way to expensive. Can someone tell me of a jeweller thats not too expensive in Cape Town area? Or give me any other advice, please its quite urgent.

2007-02-25 02:42:59 · 5 answers · asked by M 1 in Weddings

My wife can be a real ****. A typical week is I work my nuts off all week, never stopping til 9 or 10 sometimes doing 3 jobs to support her demand for beautiful things. At weekend Im taking the kid out then her out, then if I stop for a few minutes to do something I want to do she goes beserk and say shes going to leave - she uses it as a negotiaiting tactic, but also she has no committment to our 5 years marriage with a daughter age 2, and she had to do ANY work herself she just says shes going - she thinks she can meet a millionaire if she leaves and lives alone - and doesnt care about me - trouble is I love her and the child and I work my nuts off to try to keep everytying together

2007-02-25 02:41:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been acquainted with this man for about five years. He is a very nice man. I am a teacher and had his son in my class about five years ago. At the moment we met there seemed to be a spark ignited between us and to this day, but nothing has come of it. Do you think he loves me or is interested in me? These are some signs he has shown. He has stared at me from crowded and uncrowded places. When we were in a supermarket together he immediately came up to me to talk to me. When his son had a program in my class the students were to stay in their homerooms and the parents were to report to the auditorium. However, this man stayed in his son's homeroom. While there, he looked at me alot and when I looked his way he looked away. He also complimented me on my new haircut. When traveling in my car one way he was on his motorcycle going another way, but when he saw me he turned around and followed me. When I see him somewhere our eyes intentionally meet but nothing more.

2007-02-25 02:41:17 · 4 answers · asked by tahiti 1 in Singles & Dating

dad doesn't want me to move away to go to school, but is willing to buy my sister a $25,000 BMW because she asked for it. My older brother is still living in the house at 35 y/o and he doesn't mind that, but he has a problem with me wanting to be independent. can someone please help me understand what is going on.

2007-02-25 02:40:12 · 16 answers · asked by lil'bit 4 in Family

and how much do you but into the tank....

2007-02-25 02:39:50 · 30 answers · asked by stephanie 1 in Singles & Dating

I love her.
she loves my best friend.
My best friend loves my sister.
My sister has fallen in love with me.

Help....

2007-02-25 02:39:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have brown hair and really green eyes. I've been playing the guitar for over 4 years. I have a great personallity but a BIG attitude problem. So whatcha think?????????

2007-02-25 02:39:08 · 6 answers · asked by *Guitar_playing_girl* 2 in Singles & Dating

So I asked her to meet me at my cousin's house since they know each other. While I was there my cousin called my current girlfriend and told her I was there having sex. How could he do that?
I think he was wrong and now my girlfriend broke up with me. How can I resolve this?

2007-02-25 02:39:06 · 15 answers · asked by Jo Jo 1 in Singles & Dating

what is one word that makes you happy when you say it or think about it?

2007-02-25 02:35:12 · 28 answers · asked by answer! this 3 in Singles & Dating