My wife can be a real ****. A typical week is I work my nuts off all week, never stopping til 9 or 10 sometimes doing 3 jobs to support her demand for beautiful things. At weekend Im taking the kid out then her out, then if I stop for a few minutes to do something I want to do she goes beserk and say shes going to leave - she uses it as a negotiaiting tactic, but also she has no committment to our 5 years marriage with a daughter age 2, and she had to do ANY work herself she just says shes going - she thinks she can meet a millionaire if she leaves and lives alone - and doesnt care about me - trouble is I love her and the child and I work my nuts off to try to keep everytying together
2007-02-25 02:41:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some more details - she made me buy a £800.00 leather sofa over christmas in full knowledge I would have to work every Sunday for 8 weeks to pay for it - and she didnt care
2007-02-25 02:46:11 · update #1
I dont want to just be another divorce statistic anway - cos how sad is that - I believe we can always find a solution, cos in many ways we are like soul mates.
Runing away or divorcing in my mind is immaturity and not facing up to your problems, just need a way to get her to listen
2007-02-25 03:06:07 · update #2
Its gonna be hard for her to work guys - the kid is 2 and childminder will cost more than what she earns
2007-02-25 03:49:51 · update #3
Turn the tables, Jack. She is waiting for you to step up and act like a man. Stop getting her everything she wants and get a backbone! An aggressive woman will push a man and see how far she can go and how much he will take...so push back (not physically). The next time she says she's leaving, be sure to show her where the door is. She won't be taking the child if she abandons you for no good reason. OH...taking her money away wouldn't hurt. Make her get a part time job herself. Show her you're a man. I think this is the problem. godloveya.
2007-02-25 03:36:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to here about your one sided relationship. Your wife is spoil ed rotten and very greedy. She only things about what she wants and doesn't care what you have too do, to get it for her. There will never be enough monies to make her happy. Why isn't she making a living to help out far as the monies go? Are her arms and legs broken! It's all about her and no one else. She doesn't even acknowledge she has a daughter to help support. You will end up really sick trying to make her happy. She doesn't seem to care how tired you get from working all these hrs. Work a 40hr. work week and tell her if she wants more material things she should get off her rump and get a job. Your life must be hell trying to support her selfish ways. Do yourself a favour and split from her before you end up in a grave. Hope this helps! Cocoa
2007-02-25 03:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know it is truly sad that women like that make it so hard for those women out there like myself who do not treat men this way.
She sounds like a gold digger for sure, and if you were to divorce her she will probably suck you dry for alimony and child support, but you won't be living in fear of her leaving. It sounds as though in a lot of ways she has already mentally left the relationship and she is hanging on to see just what else you are willing to sacrifice for her. If your daughter is seeing all the tension between the 2 of you, then she is suffering worse than you. Think about her. Good luck.
2007-02-25 02:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by jule1125 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont youthink you deserve better than that? obviously she only cares about herself, she is using you, she is a gold digger and I would say to her that if she thinks she can get a millionaire than go get it, other wise, tell her to get a job and help out a bit, chances are with her attitude she wont get anything and will be a very lonely person one day. I would help her pack and throw her crap outside, I bet she'd think twice about what she is doing, people like that have problems and you dont need that. You need to buck up and take control of the situation at this point, stop letting her push you around.
2007-02-25 03:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow she sounds too demanding! Tell her the threat of divorce is unacceptable especially in front of your impressionable daughter. Tell her if you are not enjoying your life, your home will never have any happiness...things will not bring you long term happiness. She sounds immature. Stop working so much and you won't be able to afford all that junk. No millionaire would tolerate that behavior for long.
2007-02-25 02:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by Li 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get real, she's not going to listen after 5 years. She acts worse than a 2 year old throwing a temper tantrum. Tell her to go if that what's she wants, she knows where the door is at. Damn, I'd be sick of working my *** off and coming home to this every night.
2007-02-25 03:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHY! It'll eventually make you sick then you won't be able to work and she'll move on. Your life is too short to be unhappy. If you loved yourself as much as you say you love her you would get counseling for the both of you and stop the madness now before it kills you.
By the by, you taught her how to treat you. Now teach her how you don't want to be abused any more. You are also teaching the child.
2007-02-25 03:01:38 · answer #7 · answered by areyoukidding 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW,
may as well get some KY because you may get reamed in a divorce.
Do not enable that behavior. She wants to buy something to make me work a sat or sun,, or get a second job. Then she had better be a princess kinda Betty crocker during the day,,, and a porno slut to me in the bedroom.
Sounds like you are being played.
One can only be treated how they allow themselves to be treated.
2007-02-25 03:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by scott in minnesota 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave her now! I sure she is not capable of raising a child so custody shouldn't be an issue. I'm assuming you are from the UK, I don't know their laws so i can't offer any sort of legal advice. Sorry. But like I said leave her, you can find better.
2007-02-25 02:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by rayth_rizel 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you need a marriage counselor if you can get to go to one and then you need to quit spending money on her. if she wants nice things she needs to find a job so she can help support the family and have money to buy herself what she wants. she is a very selfish person and is only thinking of herself
2007-02-25 03:16:30 · answer #10 · answered by ken s 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋