I need some help. I am with a wonderful man who treats me with all the respect in the world. I really couldn't ask for a better relationship except for one thing. Our physical relationship has become routine.
Before someone suggests it, or jumps to a conclusion, I do not want to have an affair, or get into swinging or have an "open relationship." I love my man, but I'm tired of the same old thing in our physical relationship. I've tried talking to him about it, but it's made little difference. I think this is something I am going to have to take the lead on, but I need some suggestions for spicing things up a bit. Any ideas?
2007-02-25 02:44:39 · 8 answers · asked by Sexual Being Too 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
start slow and let him get used to some new things...try buying a toy and using it....perhaps a clitoral stimulator and masturbate for him....or give him a bath....lite the candles, pour him a drink and make it a long sensuous evening.....watch a sexy video together and talk about different things you would like to try.....buy some sexy new lingerie and model it for him.....there are lots of things that you can do...use your imagination and have fun......good luck
2007-02-25 02:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go someplace different. Take a weekend to a cabin or go to one of those Spa places that has a pool in the room or a hot tub. Try some role playing if you think he could go for that. Route sex sucks & really hurts a relationship. DON'T do the affair thing or swinging unless you are really into that. You know what you like, so find a way to get it.
2007-02-25 11:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Brightsides 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to redefine what sex means is in your relationship. Try not having sex for longer periods of time. Try going for two weeks without having intercourse...you probably won't be able to make it, but it'll be intense to try. It works.
2007-02-25 11:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Role playing or Kama Sumatra would work!
Try experimenting with new positions.
2007-02-25 11:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry - I was staring at your cleavage and your cute little panties and I forgot your question.
2007-02-25 13:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take control. Men love that!
Good luck!
2007-02-25 11:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
have you tried dressing up?
toys? movies? role playing? anal?
trust me these things will spice it up!!!
2007-02-25 10:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask his boyfriend what your husband likes,
2007-02-25 10:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by brp_13 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋