Family & Relationships - 25 February 2007

My son and his fiance could have hand-delivered the invite to me. Instead they send it with my other son. Am I over-reacting? Also, they haven't talked to us or asked us to participate in any aspect of their wedding.

2007-02-25 01:45:18 · 14 answers · asked by proofofignorance 3 in Weddings

I was out with a girl earlier this wk (who has a BF back home). It was her idea to thank me for help with interview prep -- we're in B-school. I had a huge crush on her, she's stunning! But now I'm not so sure. She was very flirtatious throughout, but I kept getting mixed signals. She started talking about "wild" stories -- I told her a couple as well about random hookups (one with a girl in Brazil who couldn't speak English and another about a much older woman), but she didn't seem impressed (i.e., she wanted "wilder" stories). She looked a little bored after a while. She continued the mixed signals throughout the night, and said she wants to get totally drunk. I said let's pick up some booze and go back to her place, she said cool. On the way though, she said we should invite more people and open up the party, I was like WTF, but played cool. We drank all night, but it was awkward. I'd def like her to break up with her BF before anything, but I'm not sure what to make of any of this!

2007-02-25 01:44:33 · 4 answers · asked by riddler 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 01:43:49 · 18 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

to get to know a girl so she can be my gf?

2007-02-25 01:42:31 · 10 answers · asked by Welvis 1 in Singles & Dating

I love a boy and he has a twin. People say he likes me. His twin whenever he comes near gives me a 'I know something you don't' look.Does any1 no wat dis means

2007-02-25 01:42:11 · 10 answers · asked by loopybaby23 1 in Singles & Dating

Check out this youtube vid of my best friend.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X99-uFzydqM
I think she's really cute but she doesn't agree. What can I do to boost her self-confidence.

2007-02-25 01:42:08 · 6 answers · asked by Princess Marianna 1 in Singles & Dating

What does it takes to become a good father and a good husband?

2007-02-25 01:41:36 · 13 answers · asked by daniel w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the chance to confront the other person?
My husband had a 'cyber' affair with someone I knew. I found out
and everything is great between us now. (My husband and I had a
lot of issues that we have now finally managed to sort out). But I
have never got it off my chest to this 'other women' how I felt. All
I wanted was a 'sorry' but I cannot speak to her as I have been
warned off by members of her family. This is the only thing that
is stopping me from moving on. My husband has taken responsibility for his actions - so why can,t she? I have had
lots of (and still have) turmoil in my life and I think she owes
me an apology at the very least. Is it because she feels guilty
or is she frightened of what will happen if I reveal all to her spouse
who has little knowledge of what really went on?

2007-02-25 01:41:13 · 20 answers · asked by Minxy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you have any?
I'm not a gynocoligist or anything, but I'll have a look.

2007-02-25 01:41:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've been going out for 6 months now and she sais she loves me, but im not so sure. i have to make all the effort and in all this time shes probably kissed me twice, and as for the sex......what sex??
we live half an hour apart from each other, and because of work we only have the weekends, but even then we only see each other friday and saturday nights, she makes excusses about not seeing me the rest of the weekend!
am i waisting my time with her? the trouble is i love her to bits and the time we do spend together feels special and she always seems happy when we're together! but this so called realtionship feels a bit one sided to me!

2007-02-25 01:40:33 · 18 answers · asked by Alan B 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 01:40:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a girl when out with some friends last night and need some good ideas on where to take her.

2007-02-25 01:36:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. Driving 800 miles in a diaper to confront the other woman.

2007-02-25 01:35:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 01:33:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i like this guy in my science class and we talk in class most of the time and we have never talked on the phone and i get that vibe that he likes me too but im just too shy to ask him to go out with me somewhere. i wanna see if we hang out out of school maybe i can really find out that he likes me. so does anyone have any suggestions on how to ask him?

2007-02-25 01:33:22 · 6 answers · asked by Shy Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

She doesn't call me as much and does not ask how I'm doing in regards to the pregnancy. Am I being paranoid? I realize we have other friends but I guess I'm feeling a little left out.

2007-02-25 01:31:05 · 20 answers · asked by pussnboots333 4 in Friends

So a year in and your still using condoms and birth control. What is that about. Should I ask him if we should go get tested so we can have it without or what is this about. Does he maybe have something and hasn't told me all this time...I don't think so but...how do i start a conversation about this??

2007-02-25 01:29:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how romantic are you when it comes to dating?

2007-02-25 01:28:50 · 11 answers · asked by mistiqueKNIGHT 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been married 17yrs, have 2 kids but my husband and I are growing farther and farther apart everytime I think we are getting closer I get slammed in the face with reality. I'm not sure how much longer I can handle trying to live like this. I don't want my kids growing up going between houses. I still love and care about my husband its just we have became 2 total different people then what we where when we got married. I'm not sure that I am in love with him anymore or him with me. I'm not sure how to live my life with out him but I can't keep feeling the way I do now. I really don't care if I date or see anyone at this point I just don't know how to handle all of this. do I tell him that in a few years I plan on leaving once both kids are out of the house and we make the best of it for now. I just don't feel like I am being fair to him. My kids are my number 1 concern. I would give anything just to keep them happy.

2007-02-25 01:28:11 · 24 answers · asked by lost and lonely 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Now dont get me wrong, I am not one of those typical narrow minded people who try to find fault with in-laws. BUT my husbands parents are really bugging me. My husband does not understadn this as he thinks Im being to sensitive and that his parents "really do a lot for me". But I feel that they dont like me and that they try to ignore my presence. He is their only child as his brother passed away sometime back. Now my husbands parents expect him to spend all his time looking after his brothers 2 kids. When ever they call or mail - it is always about their family and his brothers family. His mother (although she acts very lovingly to me) is very sarcastic sometimes. They dont want him to go places with me or enjoy things together. Whenever we do something together they make him feel guilty about it. This is really bugging me and I've started to really really hate them. How do I get them to understand that he is my husband and that we need to have our own life?

2007-02-25 01:27:57 · 11 answers · asked by sapphire_wisdom 1 in Family

i had this friend of mine who juss played with my feelings and now doesnt realize what hes done..it might be normal for him..we were soo close..shared everthing... he went away for studies abroad n it was like everything ended...he just dissappeared for 2 and a half months..everything is soo fresh in my mind (all tht happened in sept!!) i cant seem to get him out of my mind...i try n console myself etc saying its not worth and all but at the end of the day i feel like crying..he had sen me a mail tellin me sorry for dissappearing for soo much time n all (in november) and recently 10 days ago when i was talking to him i asked him saying THE EMAIL WAS SOO FAKE-- he accepted by bluntly saying ---i dont knw must be fake..that hurt me the most..wenever we met---when he left etc i made him a card..i got him chocolates etc.. he never seemed to get it..10 days we did not speak after i sent him a mail saying not to oblige me by saying sorry..he just sent me a "ssup" as if nothing was wrong!!

2007-02-25 01:27:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 01:26:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-25 01:25:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My mate fancies about four boys. They all know it too. She fancies the boy I do and his twin brother and two other boys in her class. One boy has already rejected her and she still has her hopes pinned on th ovas. She also still likes the boy I do. I'm worried she's going 2 get hurt. Help

2007-02-25 01:25:23 · 3 answers · asked by loopybaby23 1 in Singles & Dating

Mx BF says he adores me and loves me alone, but he has been spending less time alone with me lately, and he doesn't seem to think this is a porblem. I am thinking about leaving him if this behaviour continues as I am sick of being 'single' even though we live together. He started a new job and has been working at least 12 hours a day and is exhausted a lot of the time. He says it is stress that is making him feel like he needs more time alone, but I just don't get it! Can someone please give me some explanations? Should I just pack and leave one day? I am so confused.. Actions speak louder than words don't they? What should I do?

2007-02-25 01:24:56 · 19 answers · asked by Leeza 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to start using protection because i don't want any more kids right now. I don't want to start a problem in my relationship. we started out without protection now we have a baby. what way can i come to him and tell him without him thinking that i messing around. and yes i could use the birth control but don't have ins. to go get form Dr.

2007-02-25 01:24:03 · 10 answers · asked by lil mama 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy on my bus and we make i contact and i really like him can you help me!
what should i do

2007-02-25 01:22:13 · 22 answers · asked by hockeylova#1 3 in Singles & Dating

dont be shy

2007-02-25 01:21:51 · 29 answers · asked by barbie 1 in Singles & Dating

I suppose my real question is how do you prove homosexuality? I know my husband is bisexual although I have never seen anything sexual. We seperated in 2005 after my husband "pushed" his business partner (20 yrs. his jr.) in my face. The last straw was when he wanted his "partner" to start his own company on our property, which would put this man in my face six days a week, ten hours a day. We seperated over the issue. The "partner " has since left his wife and is currently living with my husband. He kept his address a BIG BIG secret for the past year but I now have it and the "partner" is definitely living with my husband. How do I prove to the court that it is a homosexual relationship? How would you go about getting evidence, I cannot afford a P.I. HELP!!

2007-02-25 01:21:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is there anyone who lives in the netherlands or better in the haeghe?

2007-02-25 01:18:59 · 14 answers · asked by riesjex 1 in Other - Family & Relationships