2007-02-25 01:33:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
shes 1 yr older than me and is always blamin me for stuff and calling me names so i do it back but then i feel bad but she dont seem to care
2007-02-25 02:15:14 · update #1
Siblings sometimes do this to their younger brother or sister. Why I don't know but they did it to me also. Now in my older age they are still appologizing for being so mean to me when we were young and how terrible they feel about it. Still no answer as to why they were mean to me and they even say they have no idea why they did all of those horrible things. It will stop as you get older, but meanwhile it is hard to deal with. Just know that you are not alone as there are so many of us who have gone through this. Keep your chin up.......
2007-02-25 01:44:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As was said, without details, is hard to answer. But, here are some possibilities: You're Mom or Dad's favorite and she's always been jealous? You're smarter or prettier? Your folks are allowing that to happen--perhaps are doing the same to each other and your sister is modeling after them? You have more friends outside of the home? Without details, it's anyone's guess! You can figure it out, I'm sure, if you only look at the cold hard facts!! Get a family member--an aunt or uncle, and ask THEM about your mother's family system--etc. I guess the WHY isn't as important as getting yourself out of that family system in GOOD SHAPE!! Stick in there; get a good education and vocational/career going so that you don't just bolt out, get married to anybody just to be away! That just compounds the problem! Find your peer group that really supports your strengths! and value you for yourself!! YOU can make a good life for yourself in spite of/or because of what you've been through!
2007-02-25 02:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by Martell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister has her own issues (self- esteem) and takes it out on you because you seem to have it together. Stop the backlashing and ignore her. Eventually she'll get tired of it and may stop (she's a bully). If you keep your nose clean, the odds of being blamed for something you never did, will not happen, it will just look bad on her. A person who cries wolf one too many times will never be taken serious again, it's their loss.
2007-02-25 04:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sibling rivalry happens all the time. But remember people treat you the way you let them treat you. Begging her to stop won't help. Pay attention to your usual reaction when she does something and try to change it. She is getting pleasure from something, and if you do not give her that satisfaction she will change.
2007-02-25 02:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by w2kaad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone taught me this maybe it might help u:
''Be practical at work and optimistic at home''
but very frequent people turned it the other way round.. :)
2007-02-25 01:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by ChocGlico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister do that same to me when we was young.. and one day i was asking why she do that to me.. and she said that i really dunno why but if i hurt u am sorry..they dont really mean about it.. so just ask ur sister why she doing that to u.. maybe u have the right answer.
2007-02-25 02:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk.......need details........has she always been like that?.....did this just recentally happen?......
2007-02-25 01:44:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋