I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years. He is very kind, respectful, funny and we share the same beliefs. We rarely fight, which we both love. However, for the past month or so I have had weird feelings, and I question whether or not I want to be with him. Its really weird because Ive never gone through this before. I feel like I just want 'me time,' to hang out with my friends, focus on school and sports and not have to call him and what not, and lately every little thing he does annoys me. I have tried taking a break with him, but I cried for two days straight and couldn't do it. I dont really have the will to partake in sexual activities, either. But then again, when I think of certain songs it reminds me of how things used to be and it makes me really happy and sad at the same time, because I have hope that things could be like that again. What should I do?
ps- my feelings have nothing to do with anything he's done wrong.he's never cheated and is very respectful.
2007-02-25 02:50:37 · 5 answers · asked by Manda * 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Congratulations the honeymoon period is over. Don't stop living your life just because you have a boyfriend. If you have an active lifestyle things will be much better.
2007-02-25 02:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by Noree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need time "for you" just tell him. Just do it. Be done with him for the time being. Take a "break" from him for a while. If he's willing to wait for you...after your "break", and you feel like you want to be with him again...then great.
But if you don't feel like being with him anymore, even after your "break", move on.
Remember, womens intuition is usually right. You're having these feelings for a reason, whatever they may be.
Good luck.
2007-02-25 11:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by Marmylade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you just need to reach deep down inside and take a much needed break. I f you are truly feeling this way, staying together could ruin your relationship. You need to grow by yourself, after some time, you will know if he is truly the one. I do think that its worth it to find out. Best of Luck!
2007-02-25 10:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by brokenheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is a friend. and you are probably more educated than him. he is now no longer interesting because you've got what little he has to offer in those few years. chose wisely next time. had the same thing happen to me. we had sports in common, but, we couldn't really communicate, i would have to stop and explain what a word meant.
2007-02-25 10:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by REALLY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well it sounds like u really care about this guy but you need a break...maybe you should just explain to him whats going on with you...just like you did on here...tell him how much you really care about him...and what not, but make it clear that your tired of having to call him about everything you do...
maybe you should take a break from this guy...even though your going to cry it might make you feel better...
good luck
2007-02-25 10:57:40 · answer #5 · answered by icingonthekake99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋