He's been my friend for three years, and we went out once. After we dated, he dated his friend, which is also my close friend. (us 3 hang out together). Now they broke up. I really like him, but I don't know if he still has feelings for me. He told my friend he still likes me, but that was over 6 months ago. What should I tell him?
2007-02-25 02:45:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Saying that you like him would be redundant.
Perhaps saying that you love him would be new information.
Just invite him to do something with you - someting "dateish".
You don't have to pledge undying love, just spend more time
with him.
2007-02-25 02:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. If there's a chance that he feels the same way, why not? Feelings don't just go away like that. Look, i went through something like this a while back. A girl who went to middle school with me started going with the boy i liked, who was also my friend. They broke up like in April'04. I finally told him in Jan'05 how i felt & we hooked up by my bday. Even the girl (my frined) he went with & her new person hung out with us on numeruos occasions. I don't think that I would actually forgive myself if i never told him i like him. I hope you the best.
2007-02-25 10:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by Lania 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are interested.Guys really appreciate a girl who isnt afraid to admit her feelings. We are confused creatures 80 percent of the time when it comes to women and to know a girl likes you makes it a lot easier to have the guts to let her know your true feelings without the worry of rejection
good luck
2007-02-25 10:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by Cody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, talk to your friend to make sure she's okay with this. If she is, approach him and tell him you want to try another date. If he says no, don't worry! He won't be offended and you have no reason to be embarassed. You can stay friends and find a new crush!
2007-02-25 10:50:49 · answer #4 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U like him + he likes u (or did) = you need to just spill it and tell him...honestly, just tell him how ur feeling...if he doesnt like you anymore than you'll still have his friendship and well just keep in mind there are soo many other guys, you'll find someone else...and well if he does like you thats great...you'll have a relationship...good luck
2007-02-25 10:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by icingonthekake99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes absolutly tell him(just make sure your other friend is ok with it)! just ask him if he wants to do something, or if you want it to be easier, just call him on the phone and say something like," ok, i've held it in long enough, do you want to go to a movie?" the conversation should take off from there. good luck!*
2007-02-25 10:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by Jenni C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and tell him straight up how you feel! You have nothing to lose, and if it ruins your friendship, it wasnt real friendship anyways. Go for what YOU want! Dont let fear hold you back!
2007-02-25 10:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by Royce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do.. tell him as long as it wont interfere with the relationship with your friend if she is cool with it go for it you only live once
2007-02-25 10:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by Sronce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still like you. Lets go do something toegther Saturday night. Let him answer and it will answer your question if he still likes you in taht way.
2007-02-25 10:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you like him, if you never do, ull never know if u likes you back.And if u dont know that, you cant move on with ur life.. so tell him, whats the worst that could happen? good luck n tc! ;)
2007-02-25 10:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋