Family & Relationships - 24 February 2007

i ask this question several times but there 2 answers to the positive/negative. i ask her to go to them and court she said no she said my mother won't allow me to have a bf. but i ask her again she said i think of it. we text alot now. what do you think she likes me or not. should i go or not to go. i don't have any experiences yet my first time.help!

2007-02-24 22:02:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 22:02:12 · 7 answers · asked by H. Dy 1 in Friends

we met before 10 months. my dad and her dad are good friends and we are also from same community. Within this last 10 months she started to love me but there is no such emotions in me towards her, Even i told her same thing when she told me "I love you" before around 5 months. she is bit different from my dream person. Now her emotions is severe towards me. She tells she lives only for me even i have no emotions towards her. Please advice me what should i do? Should i accept her proposal and marry her even though i dont love her. Families tell that love can happen after marrige also. but last decision on me only. please tell me what should i do?

2007-02-24 22:01:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the girl whom i am talking about is a good girl but she gets angry with me very fast i treat her as my best friend but she doesn't
but for me she is my 1st & my last best friend how should i impress her & make her my best friend please tell me what should i do

2007-02-24 22:01:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hi,

Im in the UK and my fave film of all time is Dirty Dancing which was set in America in the summer of love 1963!

I would love to recreate this at my wedding, id love a 1960'3 (Dirty Dancing) inspired wedding, can you help?

Do you know anywhere that would be able to help me?

Thank you

2007-02-24 22:00:48 · 15 answers · asked by kirsty m 3 in Weddings

Since my teens I dreamed of proving myself I could be a one woman man so I kept virgin but things are not always what one may expect so now I need to know.
Besides going out and dating other people is there any other way to forget about someone? She was never my gfriend, she didn´t even like me, she never kissed me and I never knew why I fell in love with her. She hardly started to accept to go out with me when suddenly a rich family man took her away from me. I will never look for her as now she belongs to another man but I started to worry because soon I will be 40 and this happened ten years ago and I still wake up in the middle of the night thinking of her. Would you say I need psychological help? I´d never tell a therapyst I´m still virgin.
Do you think this could be only an obssesion? I only want to get her out of my head. Please tell me what you think.

2007-02-24 22:00:14 · 11 answers · asked by ANOTHERCHANCE 1 in Singles & Dating

I was told that I am attractive about a seven in appearance. But I still think that number is unappealing. How do I become cute? Maybe I need plastic surgery so that I can be a ten and be at least cute?

2007-02-24 21:59:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

....i like a men ,he's Austria...but I am Taiwaness girl,actually,he will live taiwan this April...but i really like him..
actually,we just meet yesterday night,
and he said want with me have a phots and with me take 2 photos and one only me..
he is really cute,
and we telk a lot and have fun last night...
how i talk to him i like him very much?
Does this men going nice with me?or just friendship?
he always with me mail everyday,
and when i wrote msg for him,he also sand back very quick!
how i could do?plz tell me!!!

2007-02-24 21:59:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 5 months pregnant, so basically I've been pregnant the whole time my boyfriend has had his current car, yet he keeps condoms in his car? There is no need for them with me obviously, and it's not like we used them before or I wouldn't be pregnant. (we did use them for the first couple of weeks we were together, but not since) So I ask why do you keep condoms in his car, and he says they've been in there forever and I say yeah it's not like we would want me to get pregnant and then he says no wouldnt want that to happen again, they were only in there for you. I am having a hard time swallowing this. We have talked about birth control after the baby and condoms werent one of the options I was considering, that along with the fact that I have been pregnant the whole time he has owned this car, and I still have 4 months to go makes me wonder. I was hoping to get some outside opinions on this please before I freak out. Thank you all.

2007-02-24 21:57:17 · 13 answers · asked by alexandria1_1999 5 in Singles & Dating

Recently my girlfriend has asked me to invite her to a dinner invitation that my ex-girlfriend and me attend once in a while to chit-chat. The problem is that my ex-girlfriend is more attractive than my girlfriend. What should I do? I am not as embarrass to be with her alone but I am when it comes to introducing her to my ex.

2007-02-24 21:55:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was best friends with a girl @ primary skewl we were really close.On the first day of highskewl she wouldn't talk to me for no reason.She just excluded me and i didn't do anything!when she walks past me she ignores me and pretends im not even there..
im really angry because i didnt do anything how can i try to get her to be my friend again??i dont just want to approuch her because i find that weird and embarrasing..

plz help me thanx xx.

2007-02-24 21:54:42 · 7 answers · asked by ldjfllejrd 2 in Friends

hehehe LOL!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-24 21:54:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

but she loves another..........but when i asked her abt this ...she denied to it,..i proposed her earlier ...but...still she is hiding some thing ...how shall i explain ..and enquire the truth from her

2007-02-24 21:51:18 · 16 answers · asked by Sam 2 in Friends

Okay here's the deal my ex fiance left me for another guy about 2 weeks ago. She didn't answer my texts or phone calls and tried her best to ignore me. Then I went to where she worked earlier tonight to try and talk to her and when I saw her she was in tears. I asked her what was going on and she told me nothing. We started talking and she told me she was happy with her new boyfriend. Even though she didn't look happy one bit. I asked her if I had hurt her somehow and she nodded her head yes. I told her I was sorry and asked if she would consider giving me a second chance, but she told me no I don't want a relationship with you. I then asked if she really had loved me at all while we were together and she said not really. We had broken up last month and then gotten back together, and I asked her about this and she told me that it was because she had felt like it was what she wanted at the time. So my question is what the hell is going on with her? I would do anything to

2007-02-24 21:50:07 · 7 answers · asked by Sad 1 in Singles & Dating

i have fallen in love with him
but i don't know if he feels that strong for me yet.

is it too soon??

i hadn't seen him for like 2 weeks...but then he came over to my house yesterday. and he's coming to stay the weekend next wekeend. he'll leave for navy camp pretty soon for 8 motnths and then will be in chicago for another year.
i know the only way to be with him is to marry him...so if i write him and stuff for that year and 8 months till we see each other again...doyou think he'll want to marry me?

2007-02-24 21:49:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why are their so many cry babies on this site. They ask your opinion and then cry when you give it to them. Why are they so insecure? Every other post is someone wanting validation from strangers. I think people need to get over themselves you know who you are.

2007-02-24 21:48:49 · 6 answers · asked by daboss 4 in Singles & Dating

We are a family with 2 small children, 3 & 7 and rent a room out to a lodger in our house. Our recent lodger moved in 2 weeks ago and we are not too happy with her. She is pleasant and nice BUT she is really into clubbing and I was woken up by her and her b/f on Fri at 1.30am until they left again at 3am! Although they were not horribly noisy, they were noisy enough to wake me. Last night, she got up at 2am to go out clubbing and again I was woken up whilst she moved about getting ready. I am not sure what to do but I do need to sleep as I am up at 7am with the kids!

She also helps herself to our foodstuffs. It is always, can I borrow a little of this? but it is now going on everyday and I wonder why she does not buy stuff herself?

To top it all we are still waiting for the rent in advance. She said that her bank messed up the transfer and the money should be with is sometime this week.

Any advice? Should we just get rid of her now or give her a chance after a chat?

2007-02-24 21:48:41 · 16 answers · asked by Stephanie C 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Since my teens I dreamed of proving myself I could be a one woman man so I kept virgin but things are not always what one may expect so now I need to know.
Besides going out and dating other people is there any other way to forget about someone? She was never my gfriend, she didn´t even like me, she never kissed me and I never knew why I fell in love with her. She hardly started to accept to go out with me when suddenly a rich family man took her away from me. I will never look for her as now she belongs to another man but I started to worry because soon I will be 40 and this happened ten years ago and I still wake up in the middle of the night thinking of her. Would you say I need psychological help?
Do you think this could be only an obssesion? I only want to get her out of my head. Please tell me what you think.

2007-02-24 21:48:15 · 7 answers · asked by ANOTHERCHANCE 1 in Singles & Dating

i am usually not your typical whining woman who at the age of 29, feels like i am never gonna get married...

i still have a lot of faith in meeting the right one eventually....but it's sometimes real hard when the dates whom i meet are mostly belonging to 2 categories.

The ones who are attracted to me either are married or are single who are looking to just have a rolling good sex with me....

the one & only man who adores me completely and is single.....i feel for him too & think that he has many wonderful attributes that i want in a man....but i dun feel much sexual chemistry with him...

is it my destiny or is it just me???

Though i am not the typical slim kind with perfect looks, i pride in myself being more curvy and attractive....why do most of my dates just want to have sex with me?i dun think i am giving out the wrong signals....i am a affectionate woman by nature to both men & women, frds and family.but that doesn't mean i love one night stands.anyone w my prob?

2007-02-24 21:46:16 · 6 answers · asked by icey 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex-girlfriend are good friends. As friends we have good communication and are caring in every way. But lately my ex-girlfriend has asked me to be her boyfriend again. She said that we don’t argue anymore as we did when we were together. What do you think? Would we argue again… because as friends we still argued but now we are friendlier to each other as the time pass. Should I go back with her… or do you think we would start arguing again?

2007-02-24 21:46:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Since my teens I dreamed of proving myself I could be a one woman man so I kept virgin but things are not always what one may expect so now I need to know.
Besides going out and dating other people is there any other way to forget about someone? She was never my gfriend, she didn´t even like me, she never kissed me and I never knew why I fell in love with her. She hardly started to accept to go out with me when suddenly a rich family man took her away from me. I will never look for her as now she belongs to another man but I started to worry because this happened ten years ago and I still wake up in the middle of the night thinking of her. Would you say I need psychological help?
Do you think this could be only an obssesion? I only want to get her out of my head. Please tell me what you think.

2007-02-24 21:45:08 · 9 answers · asked by ANOTHERCHANCE 1 in Singles & Dating

As someone who is actually alive does that not mean I have a life. Although it may not be as interesting or exciting as most peoples, my life is what I can financially afford it to be. Lets face it most things cost money - entertaining at home, going out, leisure activities, holidays. See where I'm going with this. I'm sure there's a lot of people who stay at home in the evening, somethimes would rather be out.

2007-02-24 21:42:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Since there are so many "advisors" out there who try to get my money for dating advice - and then you discover that their advice usually is in conflict..

What does work? If a man is interested in a woman - how would the woman like to be approached? and what is an immediate turnoff ?

Do women really want a knight in shining armor?
Or would they prefer the honest working man with a plow-horse?

2007-02-24 21:41:36 · 6 answers · asked by U_S_S_Enterprise 7 in Singles & Dating

They barely knew him. We didn't go visit often.

2007-02-24 21:40:14 · 25 answers · asked by happymomma3 3 in Family

My boyfriend and I of 2years recently broke up. It did come out of the blue. He has been making some changes lately, like going back to college, not smoking or drinking, I didn't think of these changes as negative but positive for him and supported that. He's also from a different country & has been very homesick lately, the odd thing is out of no where, since he's always said doesn't have any family here he asks me to borrow some money for a plane ticket to Denver to see some family? When I asked why since he's been so homesick hasn't he visited before he doesn't answer, so I ask him if its cousins or what not he wants to visit and just replies its his mom's family & nothing more. I asked him if this a romantic trip and he tells me to never mind about the money he'll work over time to get together. Am I wrong to suspect cheating?

2007-02-24 21:38:10 · 8 answers · asked by Ivory 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey My Sexy,

Great to hear from you again. I hope this weekend is enjoyable for you. Nice to hear the interest generated by your newspaper ad has lead to a sale. And, it is always nice when closets get freed of clutter. I feel the same way, and myself even have another few loads to Goodwill. I've got a stash of cardboard boxes I will bring on March 3rd, to help with the move.

Nessa and I are doing better today, still a little sick. Thanks for your sentiments of well wishes. Got a lot done since this last email. Being sick hasn't stopped me (or Nessa). Nessa & I went to Home Depot & got some shelves, which I installed on the wall where the stairs meet the lower level (along the same wall as the fireplace.) I used anchors rated up to 50lbs, and piled books onto them. In doing so this has freed up more space, and the shelves themselves look quite nice since the woodtone pretty much matches the trim.

I went ahead and painted the bathroom last night. The color is called "Porcelain Peach." In fact the funny thing is it matches the sink exactly, even though I had no intentions to match anything. It actually looks so much cleaner in there with the fresh coat of paint... several years of splashes, toothpaste, shampoo, had made the walls all spotty looking. The satin finish will be easier to wipe clean than the original flat paint. I even got fresh new faceplates for the outlets/switch in there since I spattered the old ones, and new ones were only 44 cents. I do in fact need to reapply a second coat to some parts of the bathroom-- I only got a quart, and it was not enough to do everything plus a second coat, so this morning during our Home Depot trip I picked up another quart.

Today I hope to also begin painting on your room. The spackle in the torn out anchor holes has dried and I already sanded it. I think the paint will probably make a big difference, the walls in there are pretty dingy. I think the doors of your closet are pretty much beyond repair. Not only have the downstairs closet doors been removed, I also pulled down the ones in mine/Nessa's room and replaced it with a double curtain (after it fell on me when I gently leaned on it while painting). So probably we might want to take down your doors too--one half won't even bend to close. Then hopefully we can just take them all to the landfill one day.

Will be thinking of you. Will catch up with you later. Have a great & special day!

Love Pumpkin

2007-02-24 21:38:02 · 12 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1 in Friends

I was rated at hotornot.com as a 7 rating. Does this mean I am not attractive? If I am attractive what would I be… still cute, not as cute, or just attractive?

2007-02-24 21:35:10 · 5 answers · asked by Lawerence S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 21:34:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 21:32:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in my senior year in high school, leaving this summer. He is eight years older than me (I am 18). But I care for him, a lot and I know he cares for me as well. He is really an amazing guy but he said that he could not, WOULD not let anything happen while I am his student. I kissed him once and he kissed me back, he almost crushed me to him and... god, I don't know. I have never been in love before but if this isn't love, I don't know what is....

So what do I do?

2007-02-24 21:29:53 · 17 answers · asked by me 2 in Singles & Dating