i have fallen in love with him
but i don't know if he feels that strong for me yet.
is it too soon??
i hadn't seen him for like 2 weeks...but then he came over to my house yesterday. and he's coming to stay the weekend next wekeend. he'll leave for navy camp pretty soon for 8 motnths and then will be in chicago for another year.
i know the only way to be with him is to marry him...so if i write him and stuff for that year and 8 months till we see each other again...doyou think he'll want to marry me?
2007-02-24 21:49:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At this point, I think your best bet is being the best friend you can to him. Time and effort will be your friends in this case; if you do your best, I don't see how he'd be able to turn you down. On top of that, he can take extended weekends to see you, and vice versa. Go with the flow.
2007-02-24 21:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married just because he's going away You need a true base in your relationship. You need to know one another in good and bad moods. You need to communicate and have mutual respect.
It may be true love, sure. But if it isn't it will be painful and expensive. Marriage is not something you do just because.
You need a real relationship as a base before you take that step. It's too soon to jump to this level. If it's true love, it can wait until it's the right time.
Either way good luck.
2007-02-25 05:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats rather difficult to answer.
If you two enjoy being with each other, and can maintain a day to day relationship, then it is reasonable. Most couples breakdown is because of lost of interest. This is often common in schools were two classmates are couples, seeing each other will often lead to loss of interest. So If you have lived with the man DAILY for..... I don't know 2 or 3 weeks maybe 2 months tops, and have continous fun and happiness together, then your good for each other. Other couples live away from each other and call OCCASSIONALLY making their relationships last.
2007-02-25 05:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by kaylo_otee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, too soon... and it's unlikely he'll want to marry someone he only knew in person for a month
2007-02-25 05:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by Shakespeare, William 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear, pray.
it is not too soon to say yo love him but i recommend waiting for him to say it first, in some way. Pray that he does. I will too....best wishes. Don't worry, be happy...i suspect he does love you!
2007-02-25 05:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by karen i 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah why not, if you loved him and wanted to show much you loved him just do it, and this way shows him that you wanted him and no one take his place, and that you wanted to spend your whole life with him! Good Luck^_^!
2007-02-25 05:57:03 · answer #6 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are infatuated -- you don't know him well enough to truly love him.
2007-02-25 05:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by jazzman6812 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure y not
2007-02-25 05:53:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES IT IS!!!
2007-02-25 05:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋