My boyfriend and I of 2years recently broke up. It did come out of the blue. He has been making some changes lately, like going back to college, not smoking or drinking, I didn't think of these changes as negative but positive for him and supported that. He's also from a different country & has been very homesick lately, the odd thing is out of no where, since he's always said doesn't have any family here he asks me to borrow some money for a plane ticket to Denver to see some family? When I asked why since he's been so homesick hasn't he visited before he doesn't answer, so I ask him if its cousins or what not he wants to visit and just replies its his mom's family & nothing more. I asked him if this a romantic trip and he tells me to never mind about the money he'll work over time to get together. Am I wrong to suspect cheating?
2007-02-24 21:38:10 · 8 answers · asked by Ivory 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is normal to think anything when you don't know what is going on. He is not giving you a direct answer. I don't know if he is cheating or not but it is not wrong of you to think that as long as you don't think that every time you two fight.
2007-02-24 21:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by twilite44 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is a suspect LIAR...he says he has family now but, before his family wasn't in the country? Either he has something to hide or he forgets to remember his lies...either way not a good thing for a relationship good for you that you two are broken up
Instead of figuring out why people lie............go shopping for a boyfriend who believes in being truthful
2007-02-24 21:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes your Haitian boyfriend is cheating on you. Its his boyfriend, Bin Bong, he misses all the booty banging good times. Don't be a prude give him all the money he asks for and more. If you have to take out a loan do it. Hes your boy toy your his Sugar momma.
You know the drill. Now pay the piper for the dance! Be thankful he hasn't yet give you aids.
God Bless you!
2007-02-24 21:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by willberb 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really shouldn't suspect anything until you have facts. Maybe he really does want to go see family. Not that I'm suggesting that you put conditions on this loan, but why don't you ask if you can go with him?
2007-02-24 21:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think u r wrong to suspect he is cheating because maybe he is just going through a phase of doubt and he is embarressed to expose his feelings-i think he is wanting some security from his family. just respect his wishes and stand by him-after 2 years i don't think he will cheat
2007-02-24 21:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I would think the same thing.
2007-02-24 21:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-02-24 21:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by djizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is most important in relationship....... trust him.......
2007-02-24 21:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by Racingred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋