Girls what do you think?

Question

Okay here's the deal my ex fiance left me for another guy about 2 weeks ago. She didn't answer my texts or phone calls and tried her best to ignore me. Then I went to where she worked earlier tonight to try and talk to her and when I saw her she was in tears. I asked her what was going on and she told me nothing. We started talking and she told me she was happy with her new boyfriend. Even though she didn't look happy one bit. I asked her if I had hurt her somehow and she nodded her head yes. I told her I was sorry and asked if she would consider giving me a second chance, but she told me no I don't want a relationship with you. I then asked if she really had loved me at all while we were together and she said not really. We had broken up last month and then gotten back together, and I asked her about this and she told me that it was because she had felt like it was what she wanted at the time. So my question is what the hell is going on with her? I would do anything to

get her back and I think I hurt her but it seems like she's closed up to me. Whats happening to her right now and how do I get her back??

Answer 1

Wow. I don't really know what to say. That is a hideous situation to be in and I am sorry that you're hurting so much about it, but what is going to hurt you more is continuing to chase someone who could treat you this way.

She told you that she never really loved you and got engaged out of convenience. She actually said this to your face. I can't imagine anyone having enough acidity to say that to someone. I really think that persisting on this one is going to cut you deeper.

Forget about the fact that she was in tears. She prefers to be crying with the new boyfriend than to be comfortable with you. Even if she doesn turn around and wants to be with you again, can you have a relationship with someone that inconstant and fickle? And do you want to have a relationship with someone when you could only ever doubt their love?

Let yourself deal with it and get over it. For you.

Answer 2

Dude, leave her alone before she tries to get you for stalking. If she does not want anything from or with you, Who cares. Go out and find someone who is not screwed up in the head. and will have an honest relationship with you. Since you said you went to her work, the both of you are old enough to know that if one is not happy, walk away as nice as you can and let it be. If you keep pursuing her you can find yourself in trouble with the law. Count yourself lucky that you found this out now and not in ten years.

Answer 3

I think you've hurt her in some way. She's finding it hard to move on and let go. Maybe you should give her some space to figure out what she wants. She'll talk to you and open up to you in her own time. don't rush her into anything. She's probably taking the break-up hard so wait a while.

Good luck

Answer 4

not trying to be mean but i think its over between u 2 cuz it seems like it especially if she didnt love u when u were together or maybe she didnt want to tell u her real feelings but i think u should just sit back and see what happens or just go on with ur life and find a new girl

Answer 5

Did you get the ring back? She left, you get the ring back.

If you can't communicate, the relationship will not work. She is not ready for the committment.

Stand back. This one sounds like it's not gonna work.

Answer 6

Just keep being her friend. Don't pressure her or you won't get her back. Love her, give her advice without pushing, and just be there for her. She will eventually be grateful for it and all you have done and realize how much you care about her.

Answer 7

get over her...she doesn't love you and she feels guilty probably for teasing you!my opinion is that the relation u once had is officially dead!it's just over so live with it!