I'm 5 months pregnant, so basically I've been pregnant the whole time my boyfriend has had his current car, yet he keeps condoms in his car? There is no need for them with me obviously, and it's not like we used them before or I wouldn't be pregnant. (we did use them for the first couple of weeks we were together, but not since) So I ask why do you keep condoms in his car, and he says they've been in there forever and I say yeah it's not like we would want me to get pregnant and then he says no wouldnt want that to happen again, they were only in there for you. I am having a hard time swallowing this. We have talked about birth control after the baby and condoms werent one of the options I was considering, that along with the fact that I have been pregnant the whole time he has owned this car, and I still have 4 months to go makes me wonder. I was hoping to get some outside opinions on this please before I freak out. Thank you all.
2007-02-24 21:57:17 · 13 answers · asked by alexandria1_1999 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should have added that they were not there a month ago. I was with him when he bought the car and when he re-loaded the car and they only showed up in there a month ago. So essentially they are a new addition to the vehicle. I should also add, that we live together. About two months ago we had a fight and he took the condoms from here and hid them at his parents house. I asked him about that and he had no real explanation or answer for that, and now they show up in his car.
2007-02-25 04:30:00 · update #1
put pin pricks in them all, count them first, keep checking every so often, ask if you can have some to keep in your purse.
2007-02-24 22:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by Cromag 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he might be cheating on you since he does keep condoms in his car,and he says they are for him. He is lying to you. I know it might come as a shock for you but if you have to break up then do it. Don't stay together for the baby's sake. You can give it up for adoption. the baby will better off. Before you consider the advice I gave you check the expiration date on the outside of the condom's package then that would probably tell you what is going on.
2007-02-24 22:11:31 · answer #2 · answered by Josh L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok sweetie. Its completely high-quality to experience so frightened of what is going tohappen yet you are able to comprehend that this infant becoming interior you isn't in basic terms a action picture you turn off in case you do not prefer to observe it. Its a actual stay individual which you created. It appears like your boyfriend is worked up for the child and in case you adult males do not artwork out that's to dang undesirable because of the fact the child will continuously have the daddy. i comprehend you prefer the desirable kinfolk yet not anybody keeps to be mutually now days yet that would not replace the reality which you have household projects now. in case you % to maintain this infant which i desire you will, your gonna could do a super sort of becoming up and not in basic terms because of the fact your youthful the two yet considering which you have a newborn's physique of suggestions. I actual think of you made your mattress now lie in it considering that to procure pregnant you think of you are able to in basic terms end a existence? Abortion is a super determination. you does not kill a newborn outdoors of the womb why would you do it interior? i desire you're making the splendid determination for you and the child and hopeful at some point you are able to have a kinfolk of your guy or woman.
2016-10-16 10:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he got the new car he may have moved the condoms from the old one to the new one. They could be left over from when you two were using them. If this is the case throw them out and see if they return that would be a signal he is using them with someone else. You could also count them and see if any disappear. Congrats on the kid
2007-02-24 22:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im also pregnant and my husband uses condoms so as to not make a mess. In the middle of the night, he went in the car to get them and he told me he purchased them and forgot to take it out. So I checked the package to see how many is left and sure enough it was the correct amount. Dont jump to conclusions, gather all the facts, including asking him about it.
2016-01-25 08:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by Claudine Walker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know, im all out of advice for this evening. This one is a complicated situation but its weird that he keeps them in his car now would you think? Especially if you are 5 months preggers. Further, do you know if they heat up like that being left in the car glove box that they can break?
2007-02-24 22:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by kelstar 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could be that he's just lazy, or else he keeps them around to think about what might have been. Only you know his habits and schedule; if he's missing time, then you should worry. But like the man said: "Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar..."
2007-02-24 22:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are pregnant and you are worried about condoms in a glove box? What about marriage?.....if no marriage child support? Stay focused on the present who cares about yesterdays glove box.
2007-02-24 22:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do some homework, dig up whatever info you can.
Trust is this n that, so important right? Why not be less optimistic, more realistic and find out yourself whats going on...
2007-02-24 22:07:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just ask him to get rid of those condoms. He will do it if he is a good man.
Or else, you could throw them away yourself, while "cleaning his car"...
Good luck!
2007-02-24 22:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by Kerosa S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He keeps condoms for his disposal. You are not with him 24 hours a day, don't you.
2007-02-24 22:39:19 · answer #11 · answered by Sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋