Family & Relationships - 24 February 2007

I have loved him since the day i met him (about 8 mo. ago) 2mo. ago we kissed. I have never felt this way towards any other guy. My mom found out (that we kissed) and now has forbidden me to see him. The last time I saw him was that night. I am head over heels in love and have cried every night since we hvae been separated. I think about him every second, and it is making me insane. I don't know what to do. I know he has feelings for me to, but I don't know how intense they are.


I am 17 (will be 18 in June) He is 24.

2007-02-24 12:26:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

people who get married should remain the same as there were before they say i do all because thats what made them say i do to begin with y change whats the point be u and be real change is not always the right thing nor would it make things any better

2007-02-24 12:26:13 · 9 answers · asked by chae 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-24 12:25:23 · 1 answers · asked by joseph w 1 in Friends

ok so i just got my first serious boyfriend and my brother (19) isn't very pleased (im 14). David (my bf) is 16 and that p*sses my brother off like beyond beyond. its retarded. the other day david came to pick up his sister from my school and when he was waiting for her i went over to say hi and it just happened that when i hugged him bye my brother drove past and saw. he pulled over and started cussing me out (david already left) and was calling david a b*tch and a f*g and that he was gonna beat his a** and its really stupid. my dad already talked to him and i thought he was ok with it. what should i say to my brother because i cant live with him being on my back like this! i love him tons but hes p*ssed at me and thinks that im gonna have sex w. david when we both agreed not to. its stupid. plz help!

2007-02-24 12:25:06 · 8 answers · asked by Choconilla♥ 2 in Family

2007-02-24 12:24:54 · 13 answers · asked by miss m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

One of my friends fell for me, we're really close, talked for at least 4 hours a day online. I call him my bestest friend.[although I do have other best friends that know me way better] He's a lot older though so when he asked me I said no because he's too old for me. I started to like him too, but kept reminding myself of his age to i tried to push him away a little. He can't stand not being with me. And up until about a month ago, I told him I would just text message him on the phone which then turned into phone calls every once and a while. He's getting married to someone else soon and moving in with them. Now he barely has any time to talk to me. We're drifting apart and it seems he doesn't have any time for me although I know he still loves me. Our relationship is built on care for eachother. I really don't know if I do like him now. It feels like im losing a best friend. What to do?!

2007-02-24 12:23:07 · 9 answers · asked by your wonderwall 5 in Singles & Dating

Ive been off & on with this guy for 7 years. We seperated and I moved to another state and we both went on to dif relationships. through about 3 years of being seperated we kept in touch and always maintained feelings for each other. 3 months ago I went back to my home state to visit, we ran into each other and spent a 2 nights together. He told me his love for me, cried to me, told me I was the only one for him, etc. I felt the same way & throughout the years had been in realtionships but he seemed to be the only one for me. I came back to were I live now with my grandmother& my 1yr old son. We maintained a long distance realtionship, talked everyday, he told me I was his soul mate, he wanted to marry me, & be a father to my son. Sent both my son & I gifts, he wrote long heart wrenching letters of his undying love for me, etc.2 days went by after V-day of him not answering my calls & I get a text that says he cant be my partner and refuses to tell more. why wont he tell me why????

2007-02-24 12:22:54 · 6 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

i wouldnt like to talk about this on an open so if you have an answer please just post it and il try to email you back
thanx

2007-02-24 12:22:29 · 7 answers · asked by kklm 2 in Singles & Dating

my sister is going to marry in the end of this year. she wouldn't like to make a comum wedding party. Does anybody have some suggest for a diferent bridge dress, a good buffet, cerimony, decoration...?
you can talk about your expearance about wedding party. :O)

2007-02-24 12:19:52 · 7 answers · asked by lalita 2 in Weddings

We have been married 4 yrs now and I finally have him trained....lol I'm sure I'll get responses from men that will call him a wimp, that could not be the furthest from the truth, he is very manly, just respects the fact that it grossed me out to have to clean up after his none good aiming skills.... I love it! I'm a lucky girl to have a man that respects my feelings!

2007-02-24 12:19:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-24 12:19:08 · 18 answers · asked by Matt R 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 12:18:54 · 18 answers · asked by blah 1 in Singles & Dating

im guessin it cd vary- bt wt does it mean to u guys? is there an easy way to tell? id really like to know for miself.....
xxxx

2007-02-24 12:18:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husbands sister only calls him when she needs something. Take my kids here, grocery shop for me. It gets very tiring after awhile. And then his brother is the constant 1 upper. He does everything better and he's so much better at everything and he knows everything. I've tried to tell my husband to stand up for himself but he's like a doormat. It's starting to wear on on marriage. Do I give up and let him be a slave or try to get him to realize he doesn't need to do everything his family wants.

2007-02-24 12:18:33 · 5 answers · asked by n8ivemom77 1 in Family

If you were a character on The Jeffersons, who would you be?

2007-02-24 12:18:33 · 10 answers · asked by JACQUELINE T 6 in Family

I'm Looking for a song about a guy that loves a girl so much that he says that it's OK for them to brake up because it's what best for her!! I don't even know if there is a song about this, but I wanna find one b/c it would mean a lot to me in my situation right now

2007-02-24 12:17:42 · 9 answers · asked by ♥femme fatale♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

we live in Jacksonville, Florida and would like to know some good wedding spots and ideas. places for the wedding and reception.

2007-02-24 12:17:37 · 10 answers · asked by Fabo 4 in Weddings

My best friend of 4 years likes me as more than a friend and I don't like him that way...he is also going to ask me out and how do I tell him I don't like him like that. I'm scared it will ruin our relationship but if I go out with him I won't be happy with myself...what do I do?

2007-02-24 12:17:33 · 7 answers · asked by Jayedicans 1 in Singles & Dating

ya i no pathetic question but seriously. iv been shy all my life and i really never picked up on how to talk to someone. wen i try my mind just goes BLANK and i cant ever think of anythin to say!. so wat do i do?

really my life sux i need to talk to people..
please serious answers.

2007-02-24 12:16:46 · 2 answers · asked by Josh 3 in Friends

e.g. 14 years 5 years 2years

2007-02-24 12:16:24 · 12 answers · asked by kebanna d 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 12:16:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a girl you really liked passed you in the hallways and blew you a quick kiss. No touching involved of course, just a classic 'blowing of a kiss'?

You don't have time to talk to her or even smile, literally 2 seconds, but would you like it if she did that?

Just curious b/c I feel like doing that to this guy I like who likes me.

2007-02-24 12:14:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

FYI the moose picture is the tattoo I'm thinking about getting with some modifications.

2007-02-24 12:14:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But in love w/someone else?

2007-02-24 12:14:31 · 24 answers · asked by beachprincesssc 2 in Marriage & Divorce

That he likes me more then a mate or they think that we're more then mates. He gives me his CDs to download as well as I give mine to him, he shares everything with me like hes always open with me, he told me he just broke up with his girlfriend (hes not heartbroken or anything hes ok) we've been mates since last year..... He tells me what he gets upto the previous nights or what he does in the day.... he's easy to talk to were comfortable around each other we enjoy each other's company and I'm seeing him again nxt wk cause he's gonna give me something and Ive gota give him something. We both write so we give each other copies of our books to each other.. thats all. He works in a store in my area and Im going to see him at his work which is ok cause whenever we talk its like no one else is in the room. Anyways whats your guys verdict?

What do you guys think?

2007-02-24 12:14:26 · 7 answers · asked by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

By the time I was 3 months pregnant with my son, my boyfriend was putting me down, yelling, screaming, making me his house maid etc. I had been bleeding lightly and one day after a fight I had a lot of blood and had to go to the ER to make sure I wasn't miscarrying my son. It was suggested that I leave my boyfriend. So I did. 2 months later I started dating a friend and exboyfriend I'd known for a few years. Him and I have been happily together since then. He was there for my son's birth and claims him as his own. My son calls him daddy and they adore eachother. His father is trying to get visitation of him which at first I did allow him to see his son. But he's been acting irresponsible again and cusses me when I give him pointers. He has many criminal charges involving drugs, DUI's, etc. Its a long list. We already established paternity and child support but I fear for my son when he goes for visitation. Is there anyway that I can terminate or severly limit his rights?

2007-02-24 12:13:34 · 21 answers · asked by xx_crystal_mcbride_xx 1 in Marriage & Divorce

theres always someone willing to make you happy? why does it take another man to be in the picture(thats what he think)for him to open his eyes and realize that theres always someone willing to do his job,if he cant do it?

2007-02-24 12:13:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

most of them are 30-40 something. nobody has been married just once (many never got married but the ones that did 100% got divorced). its odd. i've never seen a family like this and i have a huge family. my grandparents gave us grankids one piece of advice...never ever get married. my boyfriend spoils me and i don't think i ever want to get married or have kids (sorry but i'm selfish and i love attention) and i would never want to jinx it. is this odd? i kinda feel like marriage is outdated unless your really sure or your really religious.

2007-02-24 12:12:20 · 4 answers · asked by anonymous 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband says it's my responsibility for making sure he gets up every day. I wake him up, he looks at me, then looks at the clock and then says, "Give me a few more minutes." So I give him five more minutes and then shake him and tell him to get up and he puts a pillow on his head and tells me to go away. So I give him a few more minutes and then pull the covers off of him and he gets mad and puts them back over himself. Then he says I'm not doing my job and it's my responsibility to make sure he is up and functioning because it's so hard for him to do it.

Am I nuts? Shouldn't a mature adult be responsible for his own choice to sleep or get up? He makes me feel bad when I just let him sleep rather than go through this whole routine. I tell him he should at least cooperate with me when I'm trying to wake him up and get him out of the bed, but he says, "It's not my responsibility. I trust YOU to wake me up and get me out of the bed, but you let me down."

What do you think?

2007-02-24 12:12:12 · 7 answers · asked by Pippa A 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Been with my man for 9 years, we have a child together. I also have a son myself. I am 31 and he is 49. He has been married before and burnt bad! We are happy-he does everthing for me and my family. He provides and works and gives me anything I want. I don't understand why he wont ask me to marry him. He bought me a beautiful platnium diamond ring for christmas 2 years ago. It was wrapped as a present. He didnt propose though. I just though some men dont. Im not sure what to do. Im happy but I want to be married. Is it ok to ask? Does It look desperate? Please offer me some advice. I have a similar posting like this but I didnt get to post all the details in it. What should I do???

2007-02-24 12:12:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce