Family & Relationships - 24 February 2007

Yesterday,my x-friend Kat lied to me and I told her I didnt want to be friends with her anymore and she told the blaber mouth popular peopleand they ask me why I wasnt her friend and I said because she lies to me and that I was never her friend and Ciarra called me a cold harded ***** so now I am woried that everybody is going to hate me how do I get back at her,my modo is dont get mad get even so please help me

2007-02-24 11:38:19 · 10 answers · asked by Gina S 1 in Friends

My live-in b/f (49) and I (44) are in a real crisis mode. First, we love each other very much. After some pressing on my part (he's a master at keeping secrets), he revealed his financial status. He's been lying to hide from being embarrassed. He owes the IRS a lot of money, he screwed up his $, no savings, he doesn't own a house now, he lives paycheck to paycheck. We talked about marriage and trips, but now that I know this, how we can even think about that with all this $ stress? His health is bad. I don't care about the $ so much as he is not happy and told me he hates himself, feels guilty over his mistakes, feels there's no use in trying to make things better $, too late to buy a house, pay debt etc. He can't see his way out. I said he was losing me because there's no joy, no happiness, no hope. It's always been stressful. He stopped making love 8 months ago. I'm always the one giving. I want to help, I got a job even tho I'm sick & he still thinks it's useless. Can this be saved?

2007-02-24 11:38:16 · 14 answers · asked by Brianna L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im not sure how to approach it. What do I buy for him and how do I ask? Is it even appropiate for me to ask? We have a good relationship, he has just been burned in the past by ex's. Please help. Thanks

2007-02-24 11:38:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

k i have i big problem, my closest friend had feelings for me but i had meixed feelings for him, and mixed feelings for another person (for a long time) but this one just got a gf, i mentioned that i was a litlle jealous to my friend, and he told the other one, n since people think i have flirting problems they think im trying to break him and his gril up, but that wasnt true at all, afterwards i didnt care but it was too late. he hates me, his gf hates me, a lot of other people probably hate me, and my closest friend hates me now (he got another "gf") i tried to say if he would still b my friend but he HATES me. what do i do??? im very sad about it, and the worst thing is that he called me a lot of mean names, spilled my secrets, and made up a couple of lies about me.

2007-02-24 11:37:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend is going to be 14 and we have been BFFs for five years. Besides some Tillamook cheese, I don't know what to get her. She is a girl who LOVES to laugh and she's very funny.

2007-02-24 11:36:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okayy so i like this guy. we met at a dance and he gave me his number and i called him and this went on for a month in a half...he stopped calling me and i never called him back....well he callled me again a couple of months later and we talked again for a few weeks then he totally screwed up and we stopped talking again. my frend called him but forgot to block her number and he been calling her and she asked him if he did like me or whatever and he said yea a lil and i would make her call him so i can hear his voice. and she was at my house and he wanted to kno whose house i was at and she told him me HE WANTED TO TALK TO ME!!!!!
like omg idk what to do!!!!

2007-02-24 11:35:37 · 13 answers · asked by kaite 3 in Singles & Dating

I really want these Coach shoes. PLEASE HELP!

2007-02-24 11:35:35 · 17 answers · asked by anonymous_xx 2 in Family

Today when I went to work I decided I was going to try the "ignoring" game on one of the guys since I am interested in dating him. Well anyways, it made me mad to see him flirt with this other girl (tickling.) I looked sad and didn't even bother to look in his direction. Unexpectedly, he grabs the end of my leg (I was sitting on a chair while the others were on the ground.) and hauls it, then smiles a weird smirk, I just raised my brow at him and continued looking the other way. Eventually it is near the end of the work time, and me and four other girls head to the room to get ready to finish up. The guy I want appears and says something about smiling while looking at me (he knew I was mad at him by now), then he sits down on a chair around the other girls, talking to them (I am sitting away from them) but I looked over at him and he was looking at me nearly the whole time it seemed. Then as work ends, he says "bye girls", and before leaving looks at me, waves and says bye again.

2007-02-24 11:34:37 · 6 answers · asked by Dreizehn 1 in Singles & Dating

So I wrote to this guy I went out on a couple of dates with and i wrote to him about the things that have been going on at school (like how awkward it's been) and how much I like him...this was his response:
Yeah, it's been pretty awkward... sorry about that. And my friends are definitely assholes... but the gagging noises are completely un-related to you, we've been doing **** like that for quite a while heh, heh. Anyways, I'm kind of just non-confrontational I guess, which in situations like these is kind of a bad thing heh, heh. Whatever though right? You're still a pretty chill gal, and I guess I'll see you on Monday. the test was pretty nasty by the way, he told us that we didn't know how to do two of the questions on it and so he would "count them for less" ... great.

Later

what do you get from his message to me?
advice?

2007-02-24 11:34:02 · 1 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

the texts are quite flirty so am curious as to who it is!

2007-02-24 11:33:53 · 22 answers · asked by boytrev 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating the most amazing man for just about 2 months. He is 7 years younger than me, but we both grew up in the same town, we have the same values and ideals, and we are in love. We've decided that we want to be married. He and I both are 'staying' with our respective parents while we get back on our feet. I feel a little overwhelmed...but I'm amazingly happy. I want to make sure our relationship stays as wonderful as it is now. He and I have talked about what we want out of marriage and life, and we both agree on pretty much everything. My question is whether 2 months is a realistic time frame to know you're with the person you should be with for the rest of your life. I feel it, he feels it...I just want to know how much we'll be judged for this decision.

2007-02-24 11:33:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your partner wants to go out of town all the time without you, let say every weekend? to visit some friends and relatives, do you believe it?

2007-02-24 11:33:39 · 3 answers · asked by sure_whatever_29 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 11:33:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married to my husband for 3 years and we've had our share of ups and downs, but like most women say, I love him! He hasn't always been a bad person and recently he's gotten a lot better. He doesn't have a job although he's been trying really hard. He's a convicted felon and he is on probation. Like I said, I was with him when he was a hustler and now that he's trying to change, it is hard on me. I have to work two jons and pay the bills by myself. When i come home, he hasn't cooked, cleaned, taken out the trash or even tried to wash a load of clothes. He makes me so angry and i feel bad when i really tell him how i feel. I know that some of the things i say are hurtful, but they are true. He tells me that when i talk to him like that, that i make him feel like less of a man. I don't mean to but i don't want him to get comfortable with me taking care of our family. If anyone has any suggestions or comments, i would really like to hear them. thank you.

2007-02-24 11:33:04 · 10 answers · asked by wilsonhutchison04 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not talking about sexually either you perverts!!! That part is easy. But with men it seems like no matter what you do, they're not happy. The more you do for them, the more they act like buttholes.

2007-02-24 11:32:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am looking for a nice white dress for my wedding I dont need a fancy wedding dress since we r having a VERY small wedding. Does anyone know where I can get one (except for ebay I dont trust ebay) so any advice would be appreciated.

2007-02-24 11:32:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

He was perfect 4 me. Everything I dreamed of. Then, BOOM!. here comes rejection. He said no when i told him, and moved to Switzerland. I wonder if it was because of me.........How can I stop thinking about him?! ITS SOOO HARD EVEN THOUGH HE'S BEEN GONE FOR 2 YEARS!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!!! :(

2007-02-24 11:32:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my name is ABHINAV(INDIAN GUY)
I need a small name which i easy for americans to spell,which resembeles my name and is cool for also an 18 year old.no fun pls this is damm serious for me.i can be a comman one also

2007-02-24 11:31:54 · 19 answers · asked by neo 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 11:29:36 · 24 answers · asked by Bruza 17/uk 3 in Singles & Dating

i want my husband back... i love him, we been together 9 years. I left him 2 weeks after my mom died . My mind was a mess and I left him because of being mixed up. We hang out everyday together behind his girlfriends back. We cant stay away from eachother. We call everyday.
He said he wants me back but his girlfriend lives with him. She has no family , so he cant just kick her out with nowhere to go. She has a little boy. He is my husband so I do not feel bad for hanging out with him. He,I and the kids enjoy the time we are together...but the kids have to keep it a secret that their mom and dad hang out because of his girlfriend.

I want him back. What should i do??

2007-02-24 11:29:36 · 24 answers · asked by Navulam 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have no problem with that except I dont know any Bi-sexual females, I live in Marysville CA, Where Can I get some Bi-sexual booty?

2007-02-24 11:28:52 · 17 answers · asked by ♥Proud Mommy♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 11:28:11 · 6 answers · asked by noga 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-24 11:27:17 · 30 answers · asked by chepi 1 in Singles & Dating

My guy friend and I have always had sparks between us...but have never acted on it...recently we have been talking about being together...he says he loves me and wants to be with me. But I feel that once he gets me, he won't want me anymore...he sort of acts like that...when I call him now he is short on the phone and always asks to call me back...I'm not going to play mind games with him....is it true that guys want what they can't have and once they get it they don't want it anymore? How do keep him interested? Let me know what works for you ;)

2007-02-24 11:26:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I find it funny sometimes, and other times I find it to be nice that guys don't have to be macho all the time.

2007-02-24 11:26:47 · 6 answers · asked by ladidadi 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 11:26:34 · 5 answers · asked by noga 3 in Singles & Dating

I have always loved him even after he remarried, am I potentially making a mistake?

2007-02-24 11:26:22 · 42 answers · asked by akissbythetiber 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 11:24:52 · 14 answers · asked by noga 3 in Marriage & Divorce

met someone for a very brief moment in time...
and they stole your heart forever?

2007-02-24 11:24:05 · 13 answers · asked by lkjgfyfukh 4 in Friends

Was it years, months, weeks, days, hours, minutes? Let's not moralize over the responses but see what people have to say.

2007-02-24 11:23:52 · 22 answers · asked by Mark S 1 in Singles & Dating