k i have i big problem, my closest friend had feelings for me but i had meixed feelings for him, and mixed feelings for another person (for a long time) but this one just got a gf, i mentioned that i was a litlle jealous to my friend, and he told the other one, n since people think i have flirting problems they think im trying to break him and his gril up, but that wasnt true at all, afterwards i didnt care but it was too late. he hates me, his gf hates me, a lot of other people probably hate me, and my closest friend hates me now (he got another "gf") i tried to say if he would still b my friend but he HATES me. what do i do??? im very sad about it, and the worst thing is that he called me a lot of mean names, spilled my secrets, and made up a couple of lies about me.
2007-02-24 11:37:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you can't bare your problems and feelings to a friend-guy or girl- and them be supportive and not "flip-out" over it then maybe they were not true friends in the first place. I say keep living like the old saying "If you love something let it go, if it was meant to be it will return to you." If your friendship with this guy was meant to be then he'll come back, if not another person will fill that hole in your heart.
2007-02-24 11:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what? sometimes it actually helps being the mean person for once! make up rumors about him and other people, if they say something mean to your face or next to you trying "not to let you hear" them shoot back a smart remark. you may want adults to help you by having them talk to the bullies, but that will just make you look like a coward. or you can also ask your parents to move to another city and you can have a fresh start there. yeaa, i know thats like running away from your problems, but you cant tolerate people being mean to you like that. or just confront the guy that liked you and tell him that what he did was messed up and that he can go screw his mother if he has a problem with you. everyone has feelings and its normal to fell jelouse!! you know, hearing this makes me wnt to go to your school and mess up that guys face. come on now, he said he was your friend, and now look what he did! i dont really know if you are the tough type who dont take any bull or the type that would break down crying at every littlt thing, but either way you need to stand up the these loosers. you deserve better friends than that.
2007-02-24 11:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Joanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone gets confused and knowone is perfect! Just tell your friend and his girlfriend you wish them the best and you know alot of rumors are going on about you but you hope they dont beleive them all, and if you made them mad your sorry for any hard feelings before. Then give them space!
This other friend that spilled your secrets, sounds like he was jealous and he had no right to tell lies about you!!
I would just hang out with your other friends and let all this cool down. good luck!
2007-02-24 11:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like he was much of a friend if he did all those things. True friends forgive each other when they make a mistake. True friends would never intentionally hurt someone they REALLY cared about. True friends are compassionate, kind, loyal and loving. I would find a new best friend if I were you.
2007-02-24 11:54:19 · answer #4 · answered by Al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel bad.... i lost my best freind when i was 6 or 7. im 11 now. my best freind acctuly died. him and this kid were playn frisbee while i was watching. he was looking backwards and the side of his head hit a tether ball pole. his head hit a sharp pionted hook. the peremedics came and i havnt heard of him after that. i called him ( well his parents) and found out the sad truth. we had a nice funeral. i just wish i could have done something. his last words to me were " your shoes are untied"
2007-02-24 12:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by (allison) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time can tell were this may end up. Just think about it.
2007-02-24 11:43:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4get them if they did that 2 u
2007-02-24 11:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by happy-soccer-feet! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call them a backstabbing hoe/bicthass
2007-02-24 12:05:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your sorry
2007-02-24 11:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Tingting♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋