My WEDDING is next weekend am I am going on a DATE tonight with my EX-BOYFRIEND that just got a divorce?

Question

I have always loved him even after he remarried, am I potentially making a mistake?

Answer 1

Well...what does marriage mean to you?

If your fiance was asking this question would you be pissed?

(I thought so...)

Answer 2

You're engaged to someone else, you don't even have the right to be going on a date now, and you're asking if you're making a mistake? Use your brain, look at the situation you're putting yourself in. If you're going on a date with your ex who you still have feelings for you probably shouldn't be getting married. You're obviously not being faithful and if you go on a date with your ex, you're asking for a lot of problems and your new marriage will more than likely end in a disaster. So the answer is yes, you're making a mistake, a big one.

Answer 3

You need to think do i love him or not? (Fiance I mean)

If you feel bad then you know the answer mate.... But you do have to think if I do end it with my fiance is my ex going to take me back. So either way you could lose them both. So you really got to think about it. Yeah your going on a date with your ex but he could just be using you for personal use and you going to end it with your fiance and find out it was only a one night stand with your ex your gonna feel like an idiot.

So you need to think.... because the moment you go on the date is the moment you let go of your future with your fiance.

Which is more important a future or a fling?
Postpone the wedding and tell your fiance that you've got some personal issues to think about
and tell that ex of your's Im sorry no thanx.... If you love someone that much you would let them go and if theyre meant to be with you they will come back

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Answer 4

You are making a mistake by going out with your ex a week before you are supposed to get married. I mean, he is your ex for a reason-selfish or not. Why do this to your fiance? What happened if you found out that he did this to you? Wouldn't you be devastated? What happened if he finds out? If you have not gone out with him yet-DON"T-call it off. Tell him that you are sorry about his relationship falling apart but, you need to move on and think about being Mrs. Whatever His Name Is.
You are not only going to ruin your relationship with your fiance if he ever finds out but the relationship with your family and everyone else who would think that this decision of yours was stupid. And, what happens if your ex acted like a jerk or something and needed to go on without you? You gave up everything to go backwards in your life instead of going forwards. What the ***** are you thinking? That is why some woman can't keep a good man because of bulls-hit like this. You are going to make it bad for women and/or men who are good and can't get a break.

Answer 5

Why are you going on dates when you are getting married?! You are definitely making a mistake. I think if you can, postpone the wedding, you should be sure you want to get married to your fiance and it sounds like you are in love with someone else? Good luck.

Answer 6

If you love your ex, you need to call off the wedding, even if you call off the date. Love is wanting the other person to be happy. Who will be happy from this? Marriage is forming a partnership to share your life with. How can you do that if you heart is divided?

Answer 7

Sweetie, quite listening to James Blunt songs because you are only beautiful so long. If you are deciding to marry this man, why the h e double hockey sticks would you go out with your ex. Don't go into the most serious commitment of all time with unneeded baggage. Stick to the one who is willing to marry you, obviously things didn't work out with the ex or he wouldn't be the ex, and sounds like he is racking up experience points with the x-factor.

Answer 8

a whole can of worms - argghhhh

its not too late - a marriage is the rest of your life (possibly) and harder to get out of if you dont feel its right .....poor fiance though

why did you and the ex split originally - ??? how does he feel for you -

half of me thinks - dont go there -
and the other half thinks - what if this is for a reason and is meant to be -

how do you feel about your fiance - compared to the ex?? what is better with the ex than the fiance -

but i think you know the answer in your heart.......i cant judge you and wont do so - good luck - i dont envy your situation let us know though how it all ends up

Answer 9

Yes its a mistake!!! U have some serious commitment problems girl.
Call off the wedding. Ur potential hubby dont deserve that.

Answer 10

Yeah I wouldn't marry your fiance if you're still totally hung up on your ex. It's not fair to your future husband and will cause problems down the road. Not to mention if you're going on a date with this guy - that's really messed up - hello? He's MARRIED!! By going on a date with him, you're cheating on your fiance and he's cheating on his wife. My advice is don't go on the date with him and you need to either push back the wedding to give yourself time to think or put it off altogether. You need to get over your ex COMPLETELY before marrying someone else!!

Answer 11

I think the fact that you are going on a date with someone other than your fiance one week before the wedding says it all. Are you kidding? If you have a heart you will call off the wedding.... Your fiance deserves better!