Family & Relationships - 24 February 2007

OK, I didnt hack into her myspace and invade her privacy. I have a myspace too so I can keep in touch with my family and share pics and stuff. She is on my friends list and I am on hers even though we live together. LOL
I noticed on her myspace she has been using terrible language. Stuff I taught her was wrong to say. And I also noticed she has been lying about herself (age, things she does, etc..) and also saying bad things about me and my husband and how she doesnt like us. Why? Not sure. We get along great. And she is trying to act like she is this "bad girl" that she ISNT. AND listening to music we dont allow her to listen to. SO, I went into her myspace because she let me know the password the other day. And I changed her password and took out the bad music and erased the lies about herself and the bad language and left a blog for her firends that she is grounded. I also edited her features so only friends can see her profile and made it to not show where she lives.

2007-02-24 11:53:15 · 13 answers · asked by Kel Kel 3 in Family

Last year I quit going to public school and now I am home schooled by a computer. I had two bestest friends in the whole world untill i figured out they didn't trust me and i dropped the friendship. Now I am really depressed and I don't want to go back to public school.. wut should I do... BTW i am not vary social

2007-02-24 11:53:10 · 9 answers · asked by DDR QUEEN 3 in Friends

There was a guy that really liked me 6 years ago. I just recently got back in contact with him. We went out one time after talking again and he kissed me. It's obvious that I like him. He's even asked me why i still like him. When I see him (out dancing) he's very kind, smiles alot, gives me compliments and flirts and he dances very close to me. He even gave me his cell# AND asked me to send him messages online, BUT when I call he never returns my calls (he did once) and he never answers my online messages. I KNOW he's not married or has a girlfriend.

2007-02-24 11:52:14 · 6 answers · asked by mset 2 in Singles & Dating

Upon our first meeting, he started speaking about marriage very early on. What's up with someone like this? By the way, he's divorced and the marriages appear to only last 3 years max!

2007-02-24 11:52:10 · 8 answers · asked by bahjij6 5 in Singles & Dating

a guy was deeply inlove with me thru the net.we communicate a lot.but iam married and no divorce in my country.My husband knew a lot about this relationship..of course he was so mad at first.but what can i do?I fall out of love with my hubby and was just sacrificing a lot for our no good relationship.lately my husband accepted my life's decision.
and now here's this guy who would offer me so much love and happiness in life...i can go crazy giving up my marriage just for this guy which i fell in love too.right now he is sick(cancer) and getting back his health so we can meet soon.and get married.
any comment?

2007-02-24 11:50:25 · 27 answers · asked by xxxx66 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Lately, when I go out, I have been being kind of followed by this guy. He seems like he has business in the place where he goes, in the sense that whenever I see him in the bank, he is making a withdrawal, whenever I see him in a salon, he's getting his hair cut.And it's not like he's a strange person; he's slightly cute and the way he goes about doing his business is completely normal The thing is, this guy goes almost to the *exact* places as me!This is not even the scary part; I got one of my friends to track this guy, and she overheard him talking on his cellphone about this "dream girl" who matches my description! Do I have enough evidence to make a police case? Should I confront this weirdo?

2007-02-24 11:49:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married 4 years and have two kids (ages 1 and 3). We have a mortgage, day care costs, and other bills. We both make great incomes (both over $100k per year) but he wants to quit his job, take out a loan and go back to school full time to study music. His dream is to be a musician and a producer and to work in music. He says he is very unhappy with his job, working the 9-5 desk job, and wants to "do music." I have been VERY supportive and want him to be happy BUT I don't understand going back to school to pay like $60k for a degree in music when he probaby won't make much money AND I just think most great producers/musicians don't have degrees, they just do what they do best/love... play music! No degree needed! Anyway, I don't want to end up resenting him but I just feel like he's not being responsible and honesty, just acting like a kid who won't grow up! We all have dreams but guess what ... the creditors don't take dreams as payment... only cash! HELP!!?

2007-02-24 11:48:46 · 16 answers · asked by Falina T. Rayon 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So I've screwed around with a lot of my friend's girlfriend's friends lately. It was more of a convenience thing, since we have been partying quite a bit. But now I don't want to lead these girls on, because I don't see myself being serious with any of them. But at the same time, I don't want these girls to hate me, since I'm not asking them out. I hope to stay friends with them, but I don't want to lead them on. What do I do? To make it more difficult I really don;t want to lose respect from my friend's girlfriends.

2007-02-24 11:48:35 · 3 answers · asked by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 in Singles & Dating

i need information and that specific spelling of the name.

2007-02-24 11:48:23 · 3 answers · asked by ♕ℭrown ƒit me good♕ 6 in Family

My husband is emotionally and verbally and financially abusive. He screams at me for money for bars and friends. He does not work and I work 10 hour days some days. He calls me names and I have to give him the money or he keeps screaming until I am scared. I do it so he leaves; then he comes back and is even worse with the names and voice. He threatens to kick me out of the apartment daily when I object to the money spending. He has no hobbies except bars and gambling. I have been trying to find us cultured activities and he is a no go for it.His friends laugh and just drive off when he starts in on me! I need some options on how to cope with this. I have little money he takes it all, no family(parents are dead and brother is estranged living far away). Friends unable to take my child and I both in...Should I just take this?

2007-02-24 11:47:36 · 32 answers · asked by Samantha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

hey yall

jus gonna give a brief description of my life. I'm 19 and have a 3 and a half year old girl, and i'm not wit the father, due to the fact that i don know where he lives and his last name, and it was kinda like a one night stand. My parents have been seperated since i was 11 and i live wih my mum, she been there with me when I had my baby girl and supported me threw thick and thin. Now my mum suggested that i must stay at home for the first year od my babies life and look after her. During that year since my mum went to work and i was at home looking after my baby, i let some boy come in like my boyfriend come in the house without her knowing and this led to 3 boys coming and having sex with me and then almost 10 boys, when theses numorous guys came in the house they stole my lil siters play sation 2 and my mobile phones and my mums money. So that same day my mum got back from work and i had to tell her the entire truth, so the trust is kinda broken. what do i do?

2007-02-24 11:47:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mans member is too small, its only 5 and a bit inches long, NO NO NO, He is not a small person in hieght I mean, this is an honest question k ladies, He just does not fullfill my sexual needs ANY MORE as in having a full orgasm, what do you fem's recommend, I know most will say, get a rabbit, I have gone through 5 already, I love him to bits, he is caring, honest, listens when needed, and has an amazing tongue, but I am in a dilemma, WHAT can I do to get propper sexual orgasm through sex, I don't know if I can keep telling him that I have come, without actually doing so......
HELP LADIES - HELP !!!!!!

2007-02-24 11:47:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm a 19 year old college freshman. im commuting to school, so im not at college parties every weekend. the thing is, im not a big partier anyway. im spend most nights during the weekend at home, i dont mind hanging around with family. my friends on the other hand always wanna go out. sometimes i make excuses if i dont wanna do anything.

is this ok?

let me know if you need any additional information

2007-02-24 11:46:52 · 5 answers · asked by youngjeezy 1 in Friends

So I wrote to this guy I went out on a couple of dates with and i wrote to him about the things that have been going on at school (like how awkward it's been) and how much I like him...this was his response:
Yeah, it's been pretty awkward... sorry about that. And my friends are definitely assholes... but the gagging noises are completely un-related to you, we've been doing **** like that for quite a while heh, heh. Anyways, I'm kind of just non-confrontational I guess, which in situations like these is kind of a bad thing heh, heh. Whatever though right? You're still a pretty chill gal, and I guess I'll see you on Monday. the test was pretty nasty by the way, he told us that we didn't know how to do two of the questions on it and so he would "count them for less" ... great.

Later

what do you get from his message to me?
advice?

2007-02-24 11:46:25 · 1 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

One spin with me and I know you will want to come. What say you?

2007-02-24 11:45:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 11:45:23 · 29 answers · asked by coloradocoolaids 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend promised me that he would be over at 12 or 1, and if he was late he would call me, to tell me he was late, he promised to spend time with me, cause our 2nd year annvesry, and he let me down , I dont want to call him, cause I know I would yell at him, but he really let me, down , I worked so hard to make it a specail night for us, what should I do, I cant hang out with my friend's , cause they are with thier boyfriend's, I'm also mad cause I dont get to meet his parent's , when he met all mine, should I breack up with him, but it's hard for me, But he hurts me when he lets me down, any advice.

2007-02-24 11:45:12 · 10 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Singles & Dating

Why do people do that? I have several members in my family that only contact one another to brag.

2007-02-24 11:45:06 · 5 answers · asked by JACQUELINE T 6 in Family

Well my bf and I just decided to get married I'm sooooooo happy and looking forward to this and I just wanna show him how much I love him and can't wait to marry him. What special thing can I plan for us to do or surprise him with before we get married. He's always use to me doing special things for him but now I'm just out of ideas HELP

2007-02-24 11:44:35 · 7 answers · asked by MrS.WilSoN 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it true that when you are looking for a guy to have a relationship with, you always first approach your girl-friends and ask them if they know of any single guys who they think might suit you, and only if they can't find any such guys then you start searching on your own (i.e. clubs, sports, internet sites or just living normally waiting for a person to click with)?

2007-02-24 11:43:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok... i have this guy friend named Diego who i like but we have already gone out before and now we just started talking again on Wed. and now we r friends and he told me that he still likes me a few days ago but idk if i should tell him tat i like him too cuz i dnt think i can trust him anymore. I mean i wanna get back together but i wanna test him out first. And i barely see him everyday (when i do he is always like i wanna make out with you) and we dnt hang out outside of skool..and if i do tell him i want it to be in person! so should i tell him... or wait? And how do u test a guy to see if he really wants u?? Im so confused about everything rite now

2007-02-24 11:43:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 11:42:29 · 10 answers · asked by Beautiful G 1 in Singles & Dating

i meet this guy at a volunteer thing a year and four months ago and he asked for my msn and we would talk the odd time and he would be a little wierd sometimes

like he would ask so how many bfs have u had, i have had like 10 or lots of gfs and i once told him that my school was having a dance and he was like ohh be careful there are lots of drugs there and another time he asked me if i smoke and do drugs but he is a year younger im in gr11 and to me this just sounds like a little gr10 trying to act cool and impress me

then i got facebook and he added me and he was like wow ur sexy and hot, u wanna go on a date and see a movie .. and he asked if i wanted to be his gf and i was like no to the gf and i said i dont know to the movie and then he asked me again on thursday for a movie on friday and i said i was busy

do u think i should go out as friends or do u think he is a player? and if he said hi babe on msn and i was like, babe? and he said joking so would u go out with him?

2007-02-24 11:42:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a loser, and over the years i alienated myself from people cuz of some issues i had to work on but i was wondering what can i do to become social?

2007-02-24 11:41:23 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf of two years has left me. I love and miss her so much. I have already let her know my feelings, but i am getting no response. It has been six weeks and i am lost without her. I work with her one day a week, not even a smile or hello. We had some hard times but I never stoped loveing her and the relationship did not end on a bad note. She wanted to get out on her own. Does she still love me? Will she ever come back?+

2007-02-24 11:40:27 · 6 answers · asked by jdr1331 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-24 11:40:18 · 11 answers · asked by choco taco 3 in Friends

2007-02-24 11:40:06 · 7 answers · asked by noga 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-24 11:39:48 · 21 answers · asked by PETER Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

I go with my oparents every friday nights to their vollyball games. Since i am 17 they adluts are ok with me subbing on other teams who need players. Therer is this guy there who is married and has 2 kids one is close to my age. Every week he is like staring at me and flirting with me. I am a friendly person so i don't really wanna tell anyone cuz i don't want to make a big deeal about it. I have just started to tyalk to him more online and i know its wrong but i don't want to be mean cuz than i am afired that he will tell my parents about my cell phjone and other things he knows about that inm not suppose to have. WHAT should i do? Im kind of getting creeped out by this.

2007-02-24 11:38:57 · 19 answers · asked by countrybitc89 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...especially when you are from different cultures?

2007-02-24 11:38:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships