ok... i have this guy friend named Diego who i like but we have already gone out before and now we just started talking again on Wed. and now we r friends and he told me that he still likes me a few days ago but idk if i should tell him tat i like him too cuz i dnt think i can trust him anymore. I mean i wanna get back together but i wanna test him out first. And i barely see him everyday (when i do he is always like i wanna make out with you) and we dnt hang out outside of skool..and if i do tell him i want it to be in person! so should i tell him... or wait? And how do u test a guy to see if he really wants u?? Im so confused about everything rite now
2007-02-24 11:43:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why did you guys break up? Was it an amicable, friendly terms break-up or did he do something really wrong to hurt you? It sounds to me like he did something wrong because you say you don't trust him anymore. Listen to your first instinct? If you don't trust him anymore, why would you want to put yourself in a position where trust is one of the foremost important things by being in a relationship with him? You don't want to constantly worry about him hurting you in some way if you still don't trust him. If he only wants to make out with you when he sees you then it doesn't seem like he likes you as a person and only wants a body to lock lips with.
If you really, really like him and you feel like you should give him a second chance, then by all means - do what you want to do. If you're so confused about everything, then you should step back and take a moment to figure out what you really want. If you have any lingering doubts then you should listen to your instinct because it usually means that you're correct and there's something not right about your decision.
2007-02-24 11:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the guy keeps pressuring you to do stuff with him, then it might be more about the play than him actually liking you. Everytime I really like a girl, I take it slow. But when I just want some action I tend to push harder for that.
Make him work for it, and follow your instincts, they are almost always right.
2007-02-24 11:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so funny, how long do you test a guy? that is too funny, you test him until he finds out how high maintenance you are and ditches you so you don't have to keep guessing if he likes you or not, he won't and you will have your answer. if he did want you and you prove to be manipulative, I would say he won't any more, yes you are so confused.
2007-02-24 11:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting used like that sucks. attempt to take solace interior the reality that he's a significant-league douchebag for doing that to you. now and returned there ain't lots you are able to to do tell if somebody is doing that to you, so that's unlike you're completely naive.
2016-10-16 10:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a friend to ask him if he really likes u. u could also get a friend to try and hook up wit him and see wat he says hope this helps
2007-02-24 11:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by wassup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋