My boyfriend promised me that he would be over at 12 or 1, and if he was late he would call me, to tell me he was late, he promised to spend time with me, cause our 2nd year annvesry, and he let me down , I dont want to call him, cause I know I would yell at him, but he really let me, down , I worked so hard to make it a specail night for us, what should I do, I cant hang out with my friend's , cause they are with thier boyfriend's, I'm also mad cause I dont get to meet his parent's , when he met all mine, should I breack up with him, but it's hard for me, But he hurts me when he lets me down, any advice.
2007-02-24 11:45:12 · 10 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love him with all my heart, and I do everything for him, I'm even faithful to him, but he always lets me down.
2007-02-24 11:46:07 · update #1
Should I call all my plans off.
2007-02-24 11:47:18 · update #2
call him .
dont yell
plan out what your going to say
dont *****
ast like everything is fine andyour happy
but still tell him EXACTLY how you feel and play off his reaction.
you know you dont want to leave him, and you dont have to.
butyou have to know right
so call, and be nice !
2007-02-24 11:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by braineak123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He' unreal..
He knows exactly you're expecting him.
Don't call him,, wait till he calls you but be prepared.
He would come with excuses. Be smart and evaluate
it if you think it's right. But it should not end there,,
if you're still be together after the expalination,
after few days try to be more smart and you can catch
it from his own mouth if he was honest with the excuses
he has given you. (cos I can have the truth come out,
without being obvious) hope you can do it..
Then you would know if you still can trust him.
but if your disappointments come time after time,
I suggest that you should be smarter than him,,
say goodbye to him and to more disappointments..
You'll handle it, believe me, it would only hurt in the
beginning, then it fades away..
.
So.. have the best luck
2007-02-24 20:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by JUSS 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont break up with him cause you dont want to. Just tell him how you feel. Tell him that you went through alot of effort to plan a nice evening and you would him to be apart of that special evening for a change after all it is a party for two not for one.
Call him and tell him how you feel.
2007-02-24 19:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a relationship lacks ingenuity and open communication, then it is not a relationship at all. If you haven't spoken with him about it, then do so--if the behavior does not change and you are unsatisfied with the relationship in general, then end it. As goes the general rule of life, if the benefits do not outweigh the drawbacks, then how is it worth it for you?
Think about it in simple terms.
If you do speak with him, be open and honest. If you are not genuine, then it won't be worth anything.
2007-02-24 19:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him express to him how you feel. But if he's always letting you down and acts as if he doesn't care I say the hell with him and keep on moving. I know break up are painful but you have to do what you have to do. I mean come on you haven't even met his parents and you have been with him for 2years that's not right. What's he got to hide?
2007-02-24 19:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by MrS.WilSoN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to call you.
it's as simple as that and when & if he comes then you need to give him exactly how you feel. Let him know that it's two years & you love him but you're tired of this and it needs to be set in stone. You tried to make your day perfect and i cancelled off all my plans to be with you and all you had to do was show up. Personally it he cant show up for two year anniv. then he aint worth it honey!
2007-02-24 19:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh man... thats very very sad... How can someone let down there girlfriend that much after you spent so much time trying to make your night with him special. If he would hurt you that much, you would be better of with a guy that actually appreatiates you.
2007-02-24 19:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by matthew.cain 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a person loves you they will not hurt you! Life is full of pain, and hurt. Look elsewhere. Don't waste anymore of your life on him. Truthfully he's out having a good time and not even thinking about you. Sorry!
2007-02-24 19:50:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm chill **** happens and you cant help it your gonna run into glitches no matter what it happens to me all the time and i've been late and not been able to call so yeah **** happens and he'll call or show just chill and listen to music or somthing and dont cll it off
2007-02-24 19:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by Metalup87 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
call him
2007-02-24 19:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋