hey yall
jus gonna give a brief description of my life. I'm 19 and have a 3 and a half year old girl, and i'm not wit the father, due to the fact that i don know where he lives and his last name, and it was kinda like a one night stand. My parents have been seperated since i was 11 and i live wih my mum, she been there with me when I had my baby girl and supported me threw thick and thin. Now my mum suggested that i must stay at home for the first year od my babies life and look after her. During that year since my mum went to work and i was at home looking after my baby, i let some boy come in like my boyfriend come in the house without her knowing and this led to 3 boys coming and having sex with me and then almost 10 boys, when theses numorous guys came in the house they stole my lil siters play sation 2 and my mobile phones and my mums money. So that same day my mum got back from work and i had to tell her the entire truth, so the trust is kinda broken. what do i do?
2007-02-24 11:47:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-24 11:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, APOLOGISE... Tell your Mum it wont happen again. It wont, will it? I sincerely hope you will have learned from this. By now you probably have quite a bad reputation with local guys (sorry) so stop this now and gain some sef-respect. A guy totally used me for sex and after that I learned that the only person looking after me is, me, so lay off guys for the sake of your mother and daughter, until you find the right guy. Now, your daughter is 3 and a half so she can go to playgroup/nursery in the mornings and you can get a job. I suggest that you use the money you earn to first of all buy stuff back for your family, replace the missing stuff to make up for it. As your child gets older you will have more time and maybe you can get a college degree and move out into a house for you and your daughter. For now, try and gain some self respect and esteem and repair relations with your family. Im not judging you cause guys can be arseholes, us girls have to look after ourselves. Good luck xxx
2007-02-24 12:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like the life you are living now for your daughter.
Would you like it, if you went to work and your daughter slept with 10 men and will do so till she gets caught.
I think you need to control your sexual urges and concentrate on giving your daughter a good life.
Stop encouraging boys to come over. Men will always want sex and will take it from anyone as long as its there.
Have more self respect for yourself and learn to be some body in life.
You made a mistake once. Learn from it and learn to not repeat it.
The difference between animals and us is that we learn as we grow.
We don't make the same mistakes twice.
Your mother trusted you and you did the same thing again not once but 10 times.
Stop this. I don't want to call you a whore, coz I am nobody to judge.
But I will say this, its time you changed your ways girl for good.
2007-02-24 19:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by CG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her and attempt and get her to speak to her mum and dad... by skill of her conversing to them supplies her extra concepts on wether or not she needs to maintain it or maybe adoption she has extra concepts now than she will later. Her mum and dad will locate out finally in basic terms make effective it is to not previous due. And be a great buddy and attempt and help/handbook her to make the concepts she needs and not what every person "needs" her to do because of the fact she am has to handle it in a while in existence no remember what she comes to a decision... and prefer the lady in the previous stated her mum and dad will advance to the belief and likely there's of undertaking they are going to loose it however the will not harm her or the child. So inspire her to make her judgements which will earnings her interior the tip.
2016-10-16 10:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mum is probably peeved of a bit try talking to her about it she may be feeling a bit guilty cos she wasnt there to protect you even though your 19 its a mum thing as you find out as your daughter gets older no one likes the idea of there child getting hurt and not being able to make it better you and your mum will make it up and the trust will still be there and we all learn from our mistakes and you should also report these people to the police they sound a nasty lot to say the least but i couldnt write what i think of poeple who are like that cos i would probably a warning letter from yahoo answers
2007-02-24 12:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP LETTING THEM IN!!!! You are a mother now of one baby already do you not want to know the name of any future kids dads have some respect for yourself your daughter and most of all your mom who is going out of her way to make sure you and your daughter are taken care of. GROW UP you have a kid. Start acting like a mother.
2007-02-24 11:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by HOT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust has to be rebuilt and takes time, theres no quikfix im afraid, youve not had much of a life getting pregnant early, but you need to start taking responsibility for your actions, its a hard lesson, but i hope youve learnt it
2007-02-24 17:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, keep those legs closed til you find Mr. Right or he's never gonna want you.
2007-02-24 11:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shut your legs and stop being a wh0re.
2007-02-24 11:52:02 · answer #9 · answered by __ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
close your legs and grow up
2007-02-24 11:54:14 · answer #10 · answered by caroljohnson13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋