Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

My husband is into drugs very heavily for almost a year now. I want a divorce, but since I do not work (I am looking and have resumes out now), and haven't, I am afraid that some idiot judge is going to give him custody of our children.

We had a high income before he lost his job, but they would not qualify it as drug-related, even though it was common knowledge that he was using.

Other than family and some friends and a few bank statements, I have NOTHING to document his drug use. Nor do I know how to even go about this and what I would need.

2007-02-22 04:26:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-22 04:26:46 · 9 answers · asked by Babe 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 04:26:21 · 2 answers · asked by dyerow 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been friends for years, and we have become closer and closer in the last few months. I told her I liked her but just wanted to remain friends for now. She said she wanted our friendship to grow, so I let it grow. Now, we are really close, and she wants to know all about me. She also sharing things with me. Why is this?

2007-02-22 04:25:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok..So i really like my ex boyfriend but i dont know if he likes me but i hope so! Should i forget him..or...Take a chance of my heart getting broken? :(

2007-02-22 04:25:53 · 14 answers · asked by lucy 1 in Singles & Dating

Now i am very shy and scared of rejection by others. i.e if i see a girl i would like to talk to and get to know but she has a guy around her that i perceve as better looking i will cower away and avoid the situation instead of going after what i want. What can i do besides drink?

2007-02-22 04:24:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

... and the topic was about racism and someone answered my question with a racist remark and i let him know that i didn't like his comment and he called methe "n" word well that didn't bother me b/c i know i'm not but is there anyway that i could report it. thanks

2007-02-22 04:24:10 · 10 answers · asked by brown eyes 2 in Family

2007-02-22 04:23:57 · 28 answers · asked by stacy P 1 in Singles & Dating

do you tell that person about it and invite them out? or do you not say anything? I feel like if you invite someone to celebrate your birthday, it speeds up the relationship. Any thoughts?

2007-02-22 04:23:53 · 9 answers · asked by Funnygrl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 04:23:29 · 6 answers · asked by Jizz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend broke up with me because of age difference. I'm 20 and she's 25, but when we first met she said that she was OK with the age difference. Now, she says she isn't. Is there any way I can convince her the age difference doesn't matter?

2007-02-22 04:22:40 · 11 answers · asked by Joel V 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 04:21:18 · 41 answers · asked by lovelthotchik747 1 in Singles & Dating

a year ago i ran into this guy and we instantly clicked.The problem is this guy is mutual friends with my brother and my x(my x and bro r best friends)when i ran into this guy i was still bitter about catching my x cheating,he was sweet and listened and understood,he drove me home that night,he told me there was a'guy code'and he was hesitant to breaking it,but i invited him to stay and he did,i asked him to sleep in the bed w/me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,he was so sweet.I saw him 2 months later and he came to me and said"your killing me"my x was there alos and freaking out that we liked eachother.10 months later now,i called him and told him he was eating me alive,he said feelings are mutual and he had no idea thats how i feel.The problem now is he has been dating someone for a month now so i told him to tell me to give and let it go and he said he cant because im so beautiful.What now?

2007-02-22 04:20:53 · 16 answers · asked by kerri r 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyf for about a year thinking that eventually he would tell his family of me . . . now he doesnt think this is ever a real possibility (too difficult) and we have sort of split up. I think if we were together longer, perhaps he would be prepared to tell his family one day...... hes understandably confused and doesnt know what is best...

2007-02-22 04:20:53 · 17 answers · asked by yck584y9 1 in Singles & Dating

which man turns the woman on the most, a man with little aggressive or a nice guy?

2007-02-22 04:20:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well, a boy asked me out when I was with my 6-year-old sister, but I said I'd get back to him. Should I? I mean he is sssooo hot and when Mim(my sis)went to the loo he talked about having hot, saucy, sex!


Should I, or not?

2007-02-22 04:20:04 · 12 answers · asked by julietboardman 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a private floral designer who's specialty is wedding flowers and decor. I own my own home based business in Central Missouri and offer my brides a custom experience when using me as their wedding day florist. I have been in this business for 10 years. I am always trying to find new ways to serve my brides better and I have a couple questions.

#1- Which would you be more in favor of, a florist who can meet with you in your office or a cafe on your time for no extra cost, or a florist that ownes a store front space that requires you to meet with them on their time?

#2- What is your budgeted amount for flowers at your wedding? This helps me get a good idea of the average budget for weddings in my area!

Thanks!

2007-02-22 04:19:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

The silent treatment...... ?

2007-02-22 04:19:56 · 32 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

tryed suggesting different things to do but hes not interested. this is not in bed its normal everyday life! hes 24 going on 70

2007-02-22 04:19:25 · 20 answers · asked by nuttytart 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering cause I am going through a situation right now.

2007-02-22 04:19:22 · 14 answers · asked by Aunt Lauren 1 in Singles & Dating

i want something that my dad will love he is into animals and farming and cuts trees down in his spare time i want to get him something special but not to pricey.

2007-02-22 04:18:44 · 15 answers · asked by Trace!! 1 in Family

i have a best friend that i grew up with and he is the cutest thing and i love every thing that he sdoes for me. Im cool with his mom his sister and his step dad i just dont know if i should tell him wut i feel. i am cool with his best friend but he likes me and i cant tell him to tell this guy!!
i am so confused i need help PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!
everyone i know knows that i like him and ive heard that he likes me but i dont know what to believe.
I REALY DONT WANT TO RUIN OUR FRIENDSHIP IF HE DOESNT FEEL THE SAME WAY!!!
IF HE DOESNT FEEL THE SAME WAY I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-22 04:18:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my mother inlaw and i used to get along ok but i have now been told to F*** off by her. She chose to divorse my husbands father for a man 20 years her young wich she shares a very unhealthy life with, they argue fight and beat each other up, i continualy ask her not to call my house with her problems she gets my husband so reved up and im the one who has to calm him down. Im afraid he will set out to get his mothers boyfriend and may loose control ending up with a criminal record or even go to prison. We both work very hard for what we have and i dont want to loose what we have. Am i being too harsh in saying that my mother inlaw is a huge attention seeker and lover chaos in her life she makes the choice everday to stay with him so am i wrong to tell her not to call my house with her self inflicded problems?

2007-02-22 04:17:34 · 13 answers · asked by Kenny K 4 in Family

If a guy barely speaks to a girl but always looks at her. Does it mean that he likes her but is shy? He talks to other girls, but seemed kind of nervous the time he talked to me.

2007-02-22 04:17:24 · 8 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

I Really like this girl, and She knows it, we have hung out a couple of times in the past and we always have a good time, However I just feel as though I'm being used. When she needs a ride to a school I always say yes, When we hang out I always pay for her and her friends I know I should because I'm the guy and I want too and I sent some flowers to her school for valentines day to show her that I like her and she did say thanks, however is she taking this as a sign that I'm too nice and that I will do almost anything for her, should I play hard to get? or should I keep doing what I'm doing? I think she likes me but I'm not sure if she likes me the way I like her or is she just using me? my family thinks I'm being a pushover and kind of being used, But I really want her to like me and it feels as though this is the only way to keep her interested in me. What should I do?

thanks

2007-02-22 04:17:07 · 6 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm going on a blind date and just was wondering if anyone could tell me in a "NICE WAY" she's 5'9 185lbs, she's got red hair, but I'm just curious what to expect and I need something to compare it with... if u have a link, it'd be greatly appreciated...

2007-02-22 04:16:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 04:16:28 · 18 answers · asked by Hairy Monster 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 04:16:19 · 2 answers · asked by Cindy S 1 in Singles & Dating

I just need some answers.

2007-02-22 04:15:17 · 20 answers · asked by rebel12 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like to know what people think about this problem. We all want to be independent in life, be it social or professional or personal. Whenever our independence is compromised we feel bad. Now a marriage requires dedication, effort to make it successful (from both partners). That means they both MUST make compromises in the form of spending time and energy both willingly or unwillingly for the sake of family. When one is forced to do that unwillingly that is really unfortunate. For example many promising women leave career to look after family. Or when they continue to look after both family and job, probably they have to work harder. In general what is the best way to deal with the problem? Is it possible to achieve bliss without feeling bitter about lack of premarital independence?

2007-02-22 04:15:17 · 19 answers · asked by Roy 2 in Marriage & Divorce