I Really like this girl, and She knows it, we have hung out a couple of times in the past and we always have a good time, However I just feel as though I'm being used. When she needs a ride to a school I always say yes, When we hang out I always pay for her and her friends I know I should because I'm the guy and I want too and I sent some flowers to her school for valentines day to show her that I like her and she did say thanks, however is she taking this as a sign that I'm too nice and that I will do almost anything for her, should I play hard to get? or should I keep doing what I'm doing? I think she likes me but I'm not sure if she likes me the way I like her or is she just using me? my family thinks I'm being a pushover and kind of being used, But I really want her to like me and it feels as though this is the only way to keep her interested in me. What should I do?
thanks
2007-02-22 04:17:07 · 6 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is starting to call me more just to talk, which is cool but is this the result of me not calling her and playing hard to get?
2007-02-22 04:18:27 · update #1
Is your relationship progressing? She's certainly making use of your generosity, but is it turning into romance? If not, then she's definitely using you.
2007-02-22 04:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in a similar position that you are in and it took me along time to realize that i was being used, so if i were you i would play hard to get and stop being so nice, and stop paying for everything and then see if she is still interested in you if not then you know she was just using you for money and for free things, and in my past experiences i have stopped hanging out with my old friends and dump the girl i was dating then because they were all using me for my money and stuff like that. well that is all i can suggest for you and Good luck to you, and don't let this situation get you down and just have fun!
2007-02-22 04:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by liquid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have seen way too many guys get used that way. Don't pay for her AND her friends, and if you want to know if she likes you, ask her out. If she says no then you'll know if she is a b*tch or not.
2007-02-22 04:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by Kristin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to her maybe in a quiet corner when noone els eis around. Becaus eif your being to nice it mightgive ppl the idea that you are a push over
2007-02-22 04:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by Tania C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there....my ex-boyfriend did the same thing....and eventually he grew on me and I fell inlove with him....but somewhere down the line I lost him....
2007-02-22 04:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definately ease off and play hard to get. Girls cant stand it and will only desire you more.
2007-02-22 04:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by Manda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋