Could u ever get back with one of your ex?

Answer 1

YES

I just have

Answer 2

I just did as of last Saturday. We broke up 5 months ago. We had no contact during the period we were separated and we both have grown spiritually and worked on individual problems during that time. he is essentially the same man I love but completely different as well. I have never done this (gone back to an ex) but so far so good. We worked through a lot of issues we had and also let the other person go. For what ever reason, God put us back in each other's life.
The most important thing for me was taking time for myself and being honest about what I need and want in a relationship.

Answer 3

It's more of a personal decision than anything else, but the factors that should affect whether or not you should get back should include:

1. the circumstances regarding the break up

2. their behavior towards you afterwards

3. and like someone else mentioned, whether or not the causes of the problems leading up to the break up are identified and addressed in some sort of way.

If you've thought about these things long and hard, and it still feels right, then I say go for it...but don't do it just cause you feel lonely and getting back with an ex is for mere convenience rather than genuine affection.

Answer 4

Yes you could. However, it all depends on the reason or reasons for them becoming an ex in the first place. If it were due to cheating, lying or abuse-HELL NO! Those are the types of things that even if forgiven, they will never be forgotten, especially abuse. NO ONE should stand for that whether it be verbal & damn sure not physical You'll just find yourself second guessing the whole situation & putting yourself in an uncompromising position. If it were due to something else besides what I've just named, then YES you could. Just make sure it's something that you both want. It's a two-way street & it takes teamwork & co-ordination.

Answer 5

yes, you can. I did after being divorced from him for 20 years! We were never enemies, and we had a son together. I went on and remarried because I didn't think his family would like me back in the family. His was a mother's boy and I never was the first woman in his life. Mom's want's were more important than mine. Any way, i have lost all of them to the other side. But yes, you can if the love is there and you can learn to respect each other.

Answer 6

Whatever for? Been there, done that, bought the T-shirt.

They didn't work the first times for real reasons, and while I have changed, they have changed differently, and I'd have a better chance at making it work with a new person who has the qualities I am now looking for.

Answer 7

I never know what may happen in life, and I never know what I would want to get back to.

Staying open for possibilities may mean to be flexible and tolerant, to be open to a possible revival of that old affection, of that old love, of those old precious memories.

I think it is anyway better and warmer to want to kiss possibilities than to be a stiff friend of limits and of impossibilities. So, yes, I could.

Answer 8

As we age or experience more relationships, I think we begin to understand what is important to us and what types of things we shouldn't sweat. I think we expect perfection in our mates, but looking inward that is impossible. So yes, I think after you've had some relationships, past ones would work again if you have different expectations.

Answer 9

Remember these words I live by: An ex is an ex for a reason. nuff said

Answer 10

i wouldn't want to they are an ex for a reason

if it didn't work out the first time what makes you think its going to work out a 2nd time?

Answer 11

Yes, I think so, but you'd have to remember the reasons it didn't work out in the first place and figure out if you can live with it now.