Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

I know women do and try to listen to it- do men get these messages too?

2007-02-21 13:05:57 · 7 answers · asked by Yentl 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 13:05:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I thought people were supposed to be mature enough to work out any problem be it the perceived problem of sex with other people, being treated like crap, etc.

When people get curious and decide to have some fun on the side why does it have to end in divorce? Shouldn't adults be smart enough to include each other in these sex fantasies or realities?

But no, people will do the dumb move and end up in financial ruin.

If you made the mistake of marriage, at least you should be able to negotiate a few deals every now and then to keep things interesting without having to resort to divorce. Think about it. When you promise each other your entire lifetime, do you think that you will not get bored with each other after 10, 20, 30, 40, 50 years.

Tell me what deals you have negotiated with your significant other throughout your marriage. All responses are welcome.

2007-02-21 13:04:37 · 9 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

for the last past three week he hasn't been spending that much time with me because he has to do stuff with his kids I don't know if he is seeing some one else are the kids mom.

2007-02-21 13:04:18 · 24 answers · asked by ALLEYCAT 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 13:03:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He was ordered 3 months ago from the judge, but has ignored the order, and has not payed one cent.

2007-02-21 13:03:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my dad got divorced from my mom for being a alcholic and now he got divorced again for doind drugs. i have no idea how to handle it. :((

2007-02-21 13:03:07 · 4 answers · asked by Autumnkins 2 in Singles & Dating

My name is Nadia and I love it. I'm looking for a similar name to put on my daughter. What do you think about Nathalie? Any better suggestions? I want it to sound like mine!

2007-02-21 13:02:41 · 26 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

and he was over 18 never kissed a girl and he asked you if he could kiss you just so he could say in his mind he actually kissed a girl and wouldnt have such low self esteem anymore would you let him kiss you?

2007-02-21 13:02:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i asked the girl i like while she was going out with another guy if she wernt datting that guy and i asked her out wht her answer would be she told me she thought of me as just a freind yet befor this guy she seemed to like me so whts the deal have i messed up and should i move on or is there anyadvise that i could have

2007-02-21 13:02:08 · 25 answers · asked by novicane_punk350 1 in Singles & Dating

When I confront my girl of 8 years, I ask her, "did you cheat on me? or have any sexual relationship at all with him?" we took a few day break from the relationship and i think she went out and screwed this guy. When I ask her that question, she says, with a smile, "I didn't do anything. Think what you want." She always wants to smile or laugh when I ask this.

Whats this mean?

2007-02-21 13:02:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Basically, I tell her in a joking way.. "I can't have sex with you anymore.." just joking around. I think she's been cheating on me with a nasty kind of guy, and she says, seriously, "Well I'm not sexually attracted to you either.." with a serious type tone. She'll say, "if you get bigger, I will have sex with you every night" and things like that.

Whats all this mean?

2007-02-21 13:00:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think he is stressed. I look different obviously, he just bought us a new home, works to support that home, goes to school full time, has a baby coming any day now and has not even breathed on me since November. I feel sorry for him and try to cook and look pretty, keep up the house and have enough money to cover all my own bills and the few extra that are my responability. He rejects me over and over and over, he gives me a kiss everyday but barely touches my lips. I am understanding most of the time but get fed up and worried that he does not like me that way anymore. What kind of marriage will this be with no lovin ever? Maybe the stress and pressure are too much and killed his libido or maybe it is me that turns him cold. What do you think I can do to make him feel good again, any suggestions?

2007-02-21 13:00:45 · 19 answers · asked by I'm her mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend has been going out with this girl for about a year and alot of my friends say that he is whipped. I have an idea of what they mean but what exactly does it mean to be whipped?

2007-02-21 13:00:30 · 7 answers · asked by MD8P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been talkin to this boy for about a month and he sometimes act like he likes me but then there is other times where he just diss me.

2007-02-21 13:00:16 · 4 answers · asked by belizeangurl_one 1 in Singles & Dating

Any one has interesting ideas for proposing to a lady? My friend wants to propose to his gf but he's at a lost of what to do to make it memorable.. Ladies out there, what do u want your guy to do when he propose to u?

2007-02-21 12:59:50 · 9 answers · asked by IcE~ 2 in Weddings

how long after getting married do YOU think you should wait until having kids? 1 year...4 years...6 years...what?

2007-02-21 12:59:48 · 31 answers · asked by Love Doctor 4 in Singles & Dating

;0)

2007-02-21 12:59:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

all the guys in my school is dum. and nobody likes me anyhow

2007-02-21 12:59:26 · 9 answers · asked by Autumnkins 2 in Singles & Dating

?????????????

2007-02-21 12:58:48 · 26 answers · asked by b.e.a.utifull 1 in Singles & Dating

always ask if i am close to being in love with him? or when do i think ill fall in love with him? or do i think i ever will be?.. im talking about my ex who is now my friends with benefits who i am thinking about going out with.

2007-02-21 12:58:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and like he can't take his eyes away..like he would look for abou seconds look down reall quick and than look back up into your eyes.

he is my class and does this to me. We don't talk that much.

2007-02-21 12:58:01 · 4 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think that he is with me ffor the right reasons or do you think he is like the stereotypical 19 year old who ppl wud say only cares about sex and such...Obviously you do not know him so its hard to judge...but to me he is an amazing and loving person but I am just being thrown off by hearing all of the stories about how all of these older guys with younger girls have the wrong motives..what do u think? :)

2007-02-21 12:57:43 · 20 answers · asked by *Mariah* 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so my very best friend is hurting herself her parents know and took her to a shrink and its not helping just last friday she cut herself again and i am getting woried she only told me and know one else and if i tell someone else she will know it was me how do help her without losing her as a friend she been with me through everything my dad in the hospintal my mom breaking down even me breaking down shes always there when i need her and i dont want to lose her friendship but i dont want her to kill herself eather how do tell someone your tired of them hurting themselfs without losing a friendship HELP

2007-02-21 12:57:27 · 3 answers · asked by andi 2 in Friends

I KNOW I MAY BE ODD BUT I REALLY WANT MY B/F 2 SPANK ME LIKE MY EX USED TO.
EX USED TO GIVE GOOD OTK SPANKINGS BUT THIS B/F WONT DO IT HE SAYS HE'S NOT IN2 IT.
I WONDER IF HE THINKS I'M JOKING BUT I'M TO EMBARRASSED TO TELL HIM I'M NOT.
NE IDEA'S HOW I CAN GET HIM 2 REALISE I'M NOT JOKING AT ALL AND I WANT A TANNING?

2007-02-21 12:57:09 · 14 answers · asked by SILVER-STAR 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-21 12:56:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If all the risk of losing your partner were gone and you didn't have to worry about what anyone like family members, etc thought, would you enter into an open marriage as long as you and your partner had consent priviliges over who the other had relations with? Why or why not?

2007-02-21 12:55:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm shy...
I'm quiet and usually have nothing to say...
^ it makes it extra hard to make friends, especially since i'm going to attend a new school...where most people already have their little social groups already....have any tips?
also class has started already like 2 weeks ago,
and students already have their desks to sit in...
so where do i sit, people will usually be like...
"YOUR IN MY SEAT...move.."
what do i do? i don't want to get bullied...

2007-02-21 12:55:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Me and my friend plan to run away.Everyone in the world is so mean.I live in Maryland.We plan to run away sometime either in the spring or summer.We dont want to be technowledgy addicts like some people(not insulting you people answering) but I just want to relax and dream dream and dream.Were gonna run away as long as we can.We'll make a wilderness home and everything.My friend has a bow so we can go hunting.He plans on getting a sword.I repeat,dont answer this question if your gonna stop me.I wanna know what I should bring and all sorts of other stuff I should know.Were just gonna relax all the time,no school, and just have fun.

2007-02-21 12:55:38 · 5 answers · asked by ilovepsp1 1 in Friends

White men/Asian women are already the largest interracial coupling in America and also the most successful when Divorce rate, longevity, and Happiness is taken into account. My question is why are they so successful?

I notice White men and Asian women have a lot in common, generally speaking both are educated, both speak proper English, both make very high income, both enjoy the same music and entertainment, both prefer more preppy clothes then Ghetto clothes, ect, ect, ect.

Do you think its possible that even though they’re different races that White men and Asian women are soul mates or meant for each other?

2007-02-21 12:55:30 · 3 answers · asked by Lip Stick Alley 1 in Other - Family & Relationships