Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

like when they like the same things and stuff? or opposites? or do they have to complement each other?.

oxox.

2007-02-21 12:44:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok in my group of freinds there are 6 people including me and like every friday something happens between 2 of my freinds then one of my freinds is ALWAYS there when it happens and then they cant tell anybody about and make the 3 of us leftover ( including me) are feeling sad and thinking " why cant they tell me!!!" and this happens so much and not just on friday!! and usually the problems are either about crushe's, homelife boys whatever you name it! and i really want it to stop because its getting REALLY out of hand i mean today i was getting extra math help from my teacher and i come back in the classroom my best freind is CRYING about something she cant say!!! i sick of lies and being used how can i stop the madness?
any advice appreaited thxs! = (

2007-02-21 12:44:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I want my friend who is a girl to except me more than a friend, so i brought the same dog (Beagle) as her, is it wrong to do this? I already brought it and i'm only 17 years old. I had it for a while and she notice me with it and every morning we walk our dogs together but i don't know if she think of me only as a friend, how do i get her to be my girlfriend? and don't tell me talkin b/c i'm not good at talkin about love and feelings.

2007-02-21 12:43:49 · 6 answers · asked by Live&Learn 2 in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship now for 2 years. During this time, I have found out that he likes to look at naked women and frequent the "go-go" bars. When he goes to these bars, he doesn't just sit at the bar, he sits at the runway and tips the girls! He says that it doesn't mean anything ... he's just being a "guy." Should I be upset? It hurts my feelings that he's so open about liking to look at other women ... it makes me feel like I'm not good enough for him, even though he tells me all the time how awesome my body is., etc. I'm the kind of person that, once I fall in love with someone, I have no desire to be with, much less look at naked, any other men. I can't understand how he can say that he loves me but still openly expresses his attraction to the other women. Should I just accept it or forbid it? We eventually plan to get married. Help!!!

2007-02-21 12:43:47 · 15 answers · asked by anon2009 1 in Singles & Dating

been married just under a year, we were living together for 4 years before that. i find myself feeling disinterested in my wife. i see her more as a friend. i have no real reason behind this...we don't argue, we both have separate lives, theres no abuse. she thinks everything is fine. but i feel like i have fallen out of love with her. i find myself thinking of other women and just craving freedom and being single. i don't tell people i meet i'm even married. i'm embarrassed to go out with her, i act different with her. i knew right before the wedding i shouldn't get married but i felt pressured by her and family to get married. i have been unfaithful although she doesn't know it. i know thats awful, i make no excuses. i stopped all that behavior but i can't help feel like she doesn't deserve me and i need to move on. whats the best way to deal with this? should i just cut the cord and suggest separation or what? i'm almost certain a separation will end in divorce.

2007-02-21 12:43:42 · 10 answers · asked by ray j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to use them as wedding favors for December...I remember seeing them w/red marshmallows mixed in at Walmart, but I can't find them online anywhere? Help?

2007-02-21 12:42:56 · 7 answers · asked by southernbelle8222 1 in Weddings

how do i tell a boy i like him w/o actually telling him bc theres no way i could tell him i like him...&& dont suggest notes...i've tried that to this other guy && yeah things got baddd. :(

please dont respond if ur gonna say sumthin' like.."just tell him! its easy.."ummm no its really not.. im new at this stuff so hahah, thanks ahead of timee.

2007-02-21 12:42:47 · 7 answers · asked by BRITANI 1 in Singles & Dating

is it ok to be in intimate love with distant relatives that are by marriage? i mean like not blood related at all but by family marriage?

2007-02-21 12:42:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have some friends that smoke. They're both in the eighth grade, and they tell me not to smoke. They say it sucks but they know what happens if you quit. Withdrawl. I really want them to stop smoking, but today, the one kid had a pack on him and he sold some to a girl that also smoked in order to buy something. I don't know what to do! I told them that smoking sucks and we just finished the drug unit in health and I don't know what he's gonna do. I stood near him while he smoked but I was far enough away that I couldn't smell the smoke. I was afraid that someone would see us and I'd get in trouble. I love to hang out with them, but I want what's best for them. ???

2007-02-21 12:41:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im fixin to be 20 my boyfriend is 20 weve been together for a year and 3 months.weve had a great relationship...we have called each other wife and husband and at one time we have talked bout gettin married and having kids and things like that....i stay at his house every night and we txt all day long...so things have been pretty good then last night things got kinda rocky and then today he txt me and said that he had been doin some thinkkin and he doesnt know how were gonna be together cause were nothin alike...and he was like im not sayin that im dumpin you now im just sayin later on im only twenty i can met alota people in my life still...he has always told me that he was never goin anywhere...and that we were gonna grow old together...i just dont want to lose the love of my life and the man of my dreams...and all that...i really love this man...i just dont know what to do i need yalls help.

2007-02-21 12:41:43 · 6 answers · asked by christie. 1 in Singles & Dating

or just about girls?

in 5th to 8th grade ?

2007-02-21 12:41:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

See, I like this guy but he has a girlfriend but his girlfriend is cheating on him and we're good friends and he IMed me that he was depressed because she MIGHT not go to the jr. high he's going to next year, and I want to tell him but his little heart will be broken and he won't want to talk about it for weeks. This was the first girlfriend he's ever had and she's slowly unveiling the plan she puts on every guy she goes out with! And I love him like a friend, and I like him as more than a friend but I don't love him as more than a friend, but I care about him SO MUCH and I don't like to see him hurting. HELP!!!

2007-02-21 12:41:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 12:40:13 · 8 answers · asked by meena 1 in Singles & Dating

1.when you stare at a girl does that mean you like her or you just think shes hot?
2. What do you like in a girl?
3. Do you usually tell the girl you like that you like her?
4. If you do like a girl how would you tell her...?
5. Would you rather have your girl freind too skinny or to fat?
6. Do you try to be yourself around girls or the funny cool popular guy?
7. Do you talk about your crushes?
8 Do you like girls for there looks, charm or just the entire girl?
9 how are you today

Thanks!

2007-02-21 12:40:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been friends this whole school year and I have secretly had a crush on him! He is best friends with my x who thinks that i only went out with him to get dylan(the guy i like) jeluse!

2007-02-21 12:40:06 · 4 answers · asked by Julie C 1 in Singles & Dating

i was over at a friends house and we were sitting by the pool, it was me, lundyn, skiey, chris, and bre. it was dark and we all headed inside to eat. well it turns out skiey and chris forgot to get their drinks that they left beside the pool. i waited for the both of them and skiey wentt in first, then chris turned around and pretended to kiss me, it was an inside joke that we did when we think no one is looking, hes not my boyfriend, but my best guy friend really, then he closed the door leaving us outside and leaned closer to me, then i closed my eyes and i felt his lips press agianst mine, he told me afterward it was on impulse and i was blush red, i am 13 and he is 17 going on 18, was i sappose to have my first kiss with him? guys and girls help!

srry i had to post this twice.

2007-02-21 12:37:21 · 18 answers · asked by Lexi 2 in Singles & Dating

lol , i really dont know how to do that whole flirt talking thinggy - imma pretty staright forward kinda person so if i wanna say "i like u" ill just say it or if i think someone's hot ill just say it - how would u say it flirty
and how could u flirt but not have it be too obvious ?
and do boyss really like when u flirt or do they like when ur staright with them - or a mix of both :)

2007-02-21 12:36:54 · 3 answers · asked by kiss_of_a_dreamer 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm in a very dangerous sitution see i really like this girl but it very hard for me to let her know as everyday goes by i'm dieing slowly inside and it really hurts please does anyone have any advice that i can use to get her. i think that she like me because she always want to be with me she lets me driver her car, call/txt me every-morning please any advice.
Thanks .

2007-02-21 12:36:49 · 32 answers · asked by Ravi 1 in Singles & Dating

it really hurt so somebody help me please for 100 points

2007-02-21 12:36:31 · 2 answers · asked by madeline f 1 in Friends

What exactly is considerred domestic violence? Like I know about the hitting and stuff but my friend told me if someone takes your phones away and doesn't let you leave the house then it's considerred domestic violence, is that true? I've been having some problems with my stepdad :(. I'm 15 and I really wanna leave (not like runaway but just go to a friends house) but I know he wouldn't let me. My friend says I should call the cops but I'm scared to. Can someone please tell me some more about domestic violence? Please and thank you :)

2007-02-21 12:36:06 · 8 answers · asked by ALL SMILES :D 5 in Family

Hypathetically speaking if you know this guy you like and he wouldnt enjoy watching a child would you still like him and if he said he in a nice way he doesnt have time for gf?

2007-02-21 12:35:20 · 2 answers · asked by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 12:34:55 · 20 answers · asked by matt b 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I met this guy on the train about a month ago. At first he would just sit across from me and go about his business. Then one day he wrote his number down on a piece of paper and gave it to me. Well I called and we hit it off really well. Well he admitted to me that he would look for me on the train and would sit down near me so I would notice him. We've been to the movies a couple of times and even hung out at the mall (I even helped him pick out some clothes). He calls regugarly - when he gets off work, and most of the time out of the blue - and he even mentions other women to see if I get jealous. He has even asked if I like him, and I told him to a point, yes. Well my cousin asked him what are his intentions for me - if he likes me or not. His answer was "I don't know". What I want to know is, what does that mean. Does he or doesn't he like me, and what do I do now?

2007-02-21 12:34:30 · 7 answers · asked by Kellie S 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i am a leo women and my two childrens father is a virgo. But our problem is he don't like to communicate. He is so secretive. He leaves early ion the morning and comes back later in the evening. Many of you ask why i care so much well im also pregnant again. Should i leave him or keep him.

2007-02-21 12:34:10 · 10 answers · asked by dwwork4money 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Lately she's been under a lot of stress and screams at me. And recently she's been getting violent! Like today, she attacked me and threatened to stab me. As I was defending myself (no I didn't throw punches, just blocked and pushed her away) she tackled me and I couldn't get her off so I pushed her pressure point on her hip to get her off. That was when she said, "If you ever hurt me again, I swear I'll kill you!"

WTF?! I've been institutionalized twice already and I'm contemplating suicide... PLEASE HELP ME! :'(

2007-02-21 12:33:37 · 7 answers · asked by .:|KýlèR|:. 2 in Family

2007-02-21 12:33:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think about her cheating on me way too often, yet I have no real reason to worry. We've been together for two years and its been great, but lately at work, all I think about is her cheating. She came from split parents b/c her dad cheated, and I know its one of her worst fears of happening to her, but here it is - still on my mind. We have talked about it, and that always helps, but these intrusive thoughts keep popping into my head. All I can think of is my job is not mentally stimulating, and therefore my mind wanders - unfortunately to this. Like I said, we are good together and plan to marry, but I need to get this crap out of my head. HELP!!!

2007-02-21 12:33:14 · 10 answers · asked by brian f 3 in Singles & Dating

uhm i like this guy sooo much like i dont care how he treats me or anything but i always end up crying so like i wuz just wondering iz there anyway to make me get ova him??? cuz this is like so fustrated i get soo mad/sad/happy everytime i see him and i cant stop thinkin about him eva... i really hate it....

2007-02-21 12:33:09 · 2 answers · asked by cheRRy_flavoRed™ 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is a manic depressant. He's been to counseling and has taken anti-depressants....Nothing seems to help and for years it's gotten to me. It hurt me emotionally and now physically. I love the man I married but not the man I'm married to. We don't have a relationship anymore. No dating, talking, laughing...anything. I'm tired of being married yet lonely and confused. After 7 years, I've lost the desire to try anymore. I'm ready to live again I feel like I'm caught up because I take the kids feelings more into consideration than my own and now it's becoming overbaring. I know my children will miss their friends if we leave but I don't want to keep the house because it's too many bad memories here. Any suggestions????????

2007-02-21 12:32:38 · 10 answers · asked by QuEEn B 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-21 12:32:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating