What exactly is considerred domestic violence? Like I know about the hitting and stuff but my friend told me if someone takes your phones away and doesn't let you leave the house then it's considerred domestic violence, is that true? I've been having some problems with my stepdad :(. I'm 15 and I really wanna leave (not like runaway but just go to a friends house) but I know he wouldn't let me. My friend says I should call the cops but I'm scared to. Can someone please tell me some more about domestic violence? Please and thank you :)
2007-02-21 12:36:06 · 8 answers · asked by ALL SMILES :D 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm not saying he did that I'm just asking if that's considered domestic violence cuz that's wat she said (her dad got put in jail cuz he wouldn't let her and her mom out of the house). My stepdad has done other things (such as hitting me) but I'm not gonna talk about those. I just want to know more about whats considered domestic violence
2007-02-21 12:47:42 · update #1
If he were to keep you trapped in the house & not let you leave or make a phone call that could be kidnapping or holding you hostage.
What you are talking about is abuse if he has a habit of hitting you, and you should call the police or talk to a teacher or counselor at school.
2007-02-21 13:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know the whole situation and i wouldnt be able to say if your stepfather was doing this for any reason. You dont know what domestic violence is like, its hard and ive been through it, this is nothing to domestic violence. Dont call the cops, that would be incredibly stupid, it would only mean that you would have the srs come to the house and could potentially take you away and that would cause more problems in the family than needed. Sit down and talk to your family if you feel you are being treated unfairly.
2007-02-21 12:47:05 · answer #2 · answered by magickitty0621 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get the feeling there's more to the situation that you're not saying. At 15 your parents are allowed to control your world and in fact that's part of their job. Obviously they can go too far but so can you and I get the feeling that's what's going on here. You're not telling us your part in the situation. I'm sure you know why he took your phone or won't let you go to your friends or whatever but you want us to hear what you're upset about. Be fair. Kids have a habit of forgetting parents are not professionals. This is the first time they've done this job and they're flying by the seat of their pants trying to keep up. They are supposed to keep you fed, housed and safe and that's not so easy. Kids make it difficult for parents to keep them safe because in their inexperience they're certain their parents are over reacting to everything. Don't forget your brain won't finish developing until you're about 21 and judgment is the last thing to develop! Talk it out with them and don't even think about calling the police unless there is physical violence. Maybe some family counseling will help you all find better ways to each get your needs met.
2007-02-21 13:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by MissWong 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Domestic violence is a fancy word for abuse. Cops process hitting and sexual stuff better, but if he is making you feel bad and scared, then it's domestic abuse. Keep a journal of everything he's pulled and if/when he hits you, you can call the cops and keep a journal. Remember, spouse abusers start off by isolation. Then they get into the heavier stuff. Keeping a journal will help you in any legal battles that you need.
2007-02-21 13:31:45 · answer #4 · answered by harpylady85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking your phone away and not letting you leave the house isn't domestic violence but, if it's your stepfather you should tell someone because he's not your biological father so why is he doing that?.just be careful and speak to your mother about it. because he must be doing it for some weird reason.
2007-02-21 12:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by Bubblez ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
domestic violence is hitting..... your friend is talking about domestic dispute...that is when you are argueing with no violence....as for your step dad well he shouldn't be hitting you in the first place....what he is doing is abuse on a minor...if he does the same to your mom then you have got a domestic violence case.....good luck to you
2007-02-21 12:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean by other things like inaprorpiatly touching you then you need to tell someone. You can email me for further advice cause i iwll talk to you first hand about stuff i don't want to put on the internet!
2007-02-21 13:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by vaderslittlegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-21 13:14:27 · answer #8 · answered by Rivana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋