how do i tell a boy i like him w/o actually telling him bc theres no way i could tell him i like him...&& dont suggest notes...i've tried that to this other guy && yeah things got baddd. :(
please dont respond if ur gonna say sumthin' like.."just tell him! its easy.."ummm no its really not.. im new at this stuff so hahah, thanks ahead of timee.
2007-02-21 12:42:47 · 7 answers · asked by BRITANI 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to him for a while get to know him a little better and then just out of no where just say do you like me and if he says yes then you can say me too soo do you want to go out kinda make it quick and to the point
or ask a friend to ask him out for you
2007-02-21 12:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One potential answer depends upon how close you are to his friends - obviously if you feel comfortable setting up something through them, that would be an easy in. Starting out in group settings (i.e. you and your friends arranging a place to chill with him and his friends) would be ideal, you can gradually start talking with the guy you are interested in, but not be forced to focus solely on him. If this is not an option, then gradually increasing verbal communication with your guy interest would work great. Showing interest in and asking questions about him would be a great way to get to know him, and if he starts to show the same interest in you, then it is safe to assume he likes you as well. If you start talking with him and don't feel him returning the same vibe, either back off or slow down and try to just establish a "friends" relationship first.
2007-02-21 21:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by krytic1984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since it doesn't seem like talking to guys is your strong point, there are other ways of getting the point across. physical contact, not in a slutty way, is always an obvious way to let him know you are interested. examples would be touching him arm when he talks, putting your arm around him, holding his hand, etc. there is also the messenger idea, where you get a friend to talk to one of his friends and just test it out to see if he would be interested. hypothetical questions are always great. plus this is a good way to let him know you like him because his friend will tell him that your friend was wondering if he liked you.
2007-02-21 20:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by dragonrayne2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u tried talking to him??? well, if u havent, try really hard to talk with him. mention sumthing about the day (what shows r on... moveis in theaters....) and then also get some of ur friends to talk with him a little too. and then u could just get one of ur friends to ask him if he likes u. and if u dont want them to, u could always ask urself. u could just ask him who he likes, then u could just answer by saying, o just wondering. or, u could say that one of ur friends was wondering. also, u can give him little hints that u like him. smile, flirt, and nething else u can think up to tell him u like him. good luck!!!
2007-02-21 20:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well one thought is that if you DON'T start doing it you miss out and you spend alot of time without a guy......also it depends on how bad you want someone there are no silver platters in life so just ask him or get over it.........it's that simple
2007-02-21 20:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard i know...
pull him aside and ask if you can talk to him
once you're in a semi-private talking area, tell him how you feel.
i know how hard it is...but it's truly the only decent way. msn, e-mail, phone calls...no, it has to be personal.
2007-02-21 20:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make it obvious that you like him..such as, smile at him a lot and just get all happy when he's around..that what I did with my boyfriend.
haha good luck.
2007-02-21 20:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋