Well i am a leo women and my two childrens father is a virgo. But our problem is he don't like to communicate. He is so secretive. He leaves early ion the morning and comes back later in the evening. Many of you ask why i care so much well im also pregnant again. Should i leave him or keep him.
2007-02-21 12:34:10 · 10 answers · asked by dwwork4money 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't leave him until you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that he has done something wrong, and you have done all you can together to work it all out. You have kids...you have to consider their well being. You may have a harder time pregnant and alone. I would say go to counseling and read Gary Chapman's book The 5 love languages. It may help you see how better to communicate...And one more thing....stop reading your horoscope...it can bring about self fulfilling prophesy. Just focus on what's real.
2007-02-21 12:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by BellaLuna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a virgo, and BOY do i love my space and time to myself!!!
I think hes the same way-- and coming going late and early like that is a way of buying quiet time.
Perhaps give him space at home when he's there, ignore him for a while before talking to him when he gets home... be in separate rooms-- but then after a while, spend timew with him in a positive way-- you know go out together go shopping etc--
That works for me. I like ot be left totally alone but when I feel like opening up again I like the time to be enjoyable and stress-free. Otherwise, I clam up and go silent again-- I dont communicate either. If something bothers me, I just do the silent treatment....
2007-02-21 13:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by Yentl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do yourself a huge favour and figure out that zodiac signs are for entertainment purposes only!! A guy or gal can be any sort of personality no matter what time of year they are born! I check out the horoscopes and such now and again for a hoot, but let me tell you, I'm a Virgo and have never once exhibited the traits and habits those nuts say I do. If you live your life based on horoscopes and zodiacs seek counselling immediately!!!!!! And you have children that you are bringing into this superstitious atmosphere! For shame!! Take some parenting classes please! For the sake of your wonderful innocent kids!!
2007-02-21 12:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by carpentryman05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh darling........i am a leo and was with a virgo man......our signs are not compatible in ANY way!! Leo and virgo are so different and my ex was secretive too...that is a BAD sign......maybe he is cheating?? That is what my ex was doing.I wish i could say it will work but i know from my experience....virgo will bring you down! You need to talk to him about your relationship....also why he is so secretive....good luck...i think there is someone else better for you...i will never date another virgo again!!
2007-02-21 12:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by sugar_n_spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will be some challenges but everyone has them . Try and set differences aside some of the time and you will be alright . I am a Gemini and I am with a Taurus and we are not compatible but we've learned to set or differences aside . We have been together for 8 and a half years . GOOD LUCK !!!!1
2007-02-21 12:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave, he's being really shady and if you guys can't communicate then it's doomed cuz communication is a big part in making relationships work. Idk about the virgo and leo thing, that doesn't matter though. But maybe you could try talking to him about it but if he doesn't wanna talk I'd leave him.
2007-02-21 12:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by ALL SMILES :D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think you should give up on signs and concern yourself more with communication sit him down and tell him that the two of you need to talk if he won't listen then tell him that maybe you two should separate for awhile until he can get his priorities straight...
2007-02-21 12:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should talk to him.....explain what it is that you are feeling, most guys dont like to talk about it, go figure, but explain that you feel left out in his world, and you want to be a part of it again. Thats all I got...I hope that it works
2007-02-21 12:40:45 · answer #8 · answered by I am Noodles! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about this with HIM. he's obviously a little too comfortable with your relationship, so he's taking you for granted. if he gets the idea that you might leave him, he'll really start re-thinking his actions
best of luck!
2007-02-21 12:39:34 · answer #9 · answered by Antoine J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too superstitious. it has nothing to do with his sign.
2007-02-21 12:37:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋