ok in my group of freinds there are 6 people including me and like every friday something happens between 2 of my freinds then one of my freinds is ALWAYS there when it happens and then they cant tell anybody about and make the 3 of us leftover ( including me) are feeling sad and thinking " why cant they tell me!!!" and this happens so much and not just on friday!! and usually the problems are either about crushe's, homelife boys whatever you name it! and i really want it to stop because its getting REALLY out of hand i mean today i was getting extra math help from my teacher and i come back in the classroom my best freind is CRYING about something she cant say!!! i sick of lies and being used how can i stop the madness?
any advice appreaited thxs! = (
2007-02-21 12:44:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What grade are you in?
right now it sounds anywhere between 6 and 8th
anyway first of all calm down then you need to gather them all together, calmly, and have a chat, talk about the secrets everyone is keeping and how you are sick and tired of them then give them all the choice stay with the group and stop this b.s. or keep their drama and leave
in the end they might kick you out but you didn't want that drama anyway also if they kick you out based on the fact you arn't told anything, you weren't really part of the group before this
more than likely there will be somebody else who feels the same way but may not feel confortable confronting the group if you split out they could end up going with you
and if you were really part of the group and yo leave for a while they will want you to come back and you will have to decide whether you want to or not if you do then you will come back as a stronger leader and if you don't you should still keep contact you never know when you will need it
2007-02-21 12:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by Kelsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who used to be a good friend,but is now currently dissing me and my other friends behind my back. What i would suggest is find other reliable friends who can tell you anything. This might sound hard,but anyone can succeed in this task. *possibility* The friends that haven't been telling you anything must really think it is something personal. The thing is they seem like they must really be in the habit of leaving you and the other two left out. Try talking to them in a deep conversation.
2007-02-21 20:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by blazer b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they want to leave you out, there is not much you can do to stop it. Find other friends that you have something in common with and let them have their drama moments.
2007-02-21 20:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by asneakyone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres really no solution all friends do this sometime u should say "come on we r friends u can tell me anything"
2007-02-21 20:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by mdmel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋