2007-02-21 12:34:55 · 20 answers · asked by matt b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but she is joining the army right after high school......i am scared i might lose her
2007-02-21 12:49:22 · update #1
Anytime that works
2007-02-21 12:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not when u r 17. right now people get married young most of the time they will not go to school pass high school for many years and my end up spitting after just a few years. wait until u 2 are out of college to get married when u to have a better understanding of ur life's. if this girl is the one u love and she loves u a few years will just be a drop in the bucket when u have ur whole life's together
2007-02-21 20:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by torres 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd give it a couple years if you two plan on going to college. If not whenever you get a stable job. Just make sure everything is in order for you guys to start your life together or else you could be starting a marriage off on the wrong foot.
2007-02-21 20:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by Doug B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably wait til you are out of school or close to it! Also make sure that you can finacially support a family! If you want to make a commitment before that try a promise ring or something.......
2007-02-21 20:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by princess45cassie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
21 at least. i know i'm in the exact same situation, but then you'll have a good paying job, both of you will probably be in college. just dont have kids too soon. i would at least wait till 21...you'll be more ready for marriage then.
i know its hard, but its best to wait.
2007-02-21 20:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, you are way too young to even be thinking about that. Just go out and have fun with your girlfriend and enjoy being young.
2007-02-21 20:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you are feeling now but people change, in ten years your girlfriend might be a totally different person, trust me. wait till your older.
2007-02-21 20:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been together? can you financially support each other? how would your/her family feel about this? don't ask us when the right time is...only you know. just don't make any rash decisions. you're still young.
2007-02-21 20:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by X-tine 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
id say 18 or older bc 18 is wen ur legally considered a adult
2007-02-21 20:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by nicole m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have asked her a long time ago. It's probably too late.
2007-02-21 20:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by charbatch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋