I'm in a very dangerous sitution see i really like this girl but it very hard for me to let her know as everyday goes by i'm dieing slowly inside and it really hurts please does anyone have any advice that i can use to get her. i think that she like me because she always want to be with me she lets me driver her car, call/txt me every-morning please any advice.
Thanks .
2007-02-21 12:36:49 · 32 answers · asked by Ravi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she's always with me in da morning at lunch we even hang out at the mall sometimes
2007-02-21 12:54:58 · update #1
Talk to her and tell her
2007-02-21 12:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let her know when you have a moment alone with her. If she rejects you, trust yourself enough to know that you'll get over it and that it's not a big deal in the grand scheme of things because it isn't, even if it feels that way for now. If it's meant to happen, it will, and if it's not then it was never meant to be in the first place and you will be ok. When one door closes, another one opens.
Let your feelings be known; life's too short to keep them bottled up anyway and it does no good. Maybe she has the same feelings for you but is waiting for you to make the first move. It's only dangerous if you make it dangerous. Take the fear out of the situation; you don't need to be afraid. Trust yourself.
2007-02-21 12:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by oneworld 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question, I think, is going to become your answer. Or maybe already is. If it's killing you, then one way or another, you will figure out how to tell her. Are you two friends? if you are, then you guys will be mature enough to go through this by talking it out. Dont use something fancy, or flirty. Tell her, look, I like you and I've really been dying to tell you for a long time. Ask her if she feels the same way. And give her TIME. Always give her time. Show her how sweet you can be and considerate. Ok? If she enjoys spending time with you, then I dont see why she wouldn't like you. Maybe she's trying to tell you exactly the same thing! :]
I wish you the best.
2007-02-21 12:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, what worries me is why is this a "dangerous situation?" I just don't understand why you're dying inside if she doesn't even know how you feel. You have just got to take a risk and prepare yourself for the worst-case-scenario...if she doesn't like you back in that way and wants to be just your friend, life will go on. There will be other people. Just tell her. Good Luck. :)
2007-02-21 12:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jade D. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her in a conversation. Laugh at the little things she says, look at her and listen to her. She's gonna feel flushed when you really, really look at her. Tell her you like looking at her, she's gonna ask why and tell her you like looking at people who you are slowly falling in love with. There's gonna be silence. Just change the topic. That way, she'll know you like her and she may even say she likes you too. Don't wait too long though or she'll think that you don't like her and get fed up and leave. Good luck.
2007-02-21 12:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by Girl-In-Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. It's not a guarantee that she will feel the same way, but at least you will know and it will take away the apprehension you are feeling right now by not knowning. I know this is not an easy thing to do, but it is the only way to really alleviate the "not-knowing" that you are currently feeling. I hope this helps and good luck. ;) Her actions suggest that she may like you as well; certainly at least as a friend.
2007-02-21 12:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by annecsabagh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Now would you quit! My goodness it's obvious just ask her already. Let her know how you feel about her, tell her hey listen I'm not sure how to say this but it has to come out because I can't stop thinking about it anymore! Then just get it out in one sentence if you have to short and sweet just get it out. you can do it just have a little faith. she likes you to you think so that makes it even easier go for it, you'll be fine and it takes 2 minutes.
Good luck chow!
2007-02-21 12:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to ask her out. It's easier said than done, but you just have to do it. If it's bothering you so much, it will be better to get it over with. Knowing is the solution. If she doesn't like you, it might be a little painful, but you are in pain right now. At least that way you can start moving on. Or, you can start dating. Either way, it's better than being torn.
2007-02-21 12:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her if she'd like to hang out on Friday-go to the movies, Starbucks (or whatever local coffee shop you have), or go hang out at the mall. The worst she can do is say no. You'll find out for sure if she likes you or not. She's showing signs that she has an interest in you, so go for it!
2007-02-21 12:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by Traveler 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved her you would tell her how you feel, and would not feel the need to hide anything from her. Are you loving your fears more than you love her?
Why is it killing you that you can't "get her"? Are you more interested in how happy it would make you if you were with her, or do you really love her, wherein, you are concerned with her happiness more than anything else?
Ask yourself why you are not telling her how you feel about her. Ask yourself what you are afraid of. Think hard, search deep. Eventually answers will come, and everything will work out.
Best wishes
:)
2007-02-21 12:42:07 · answer #10 · answered by Om Mani Padme Hum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you really like this girl let her know it, don't just go up to her and be like "I LOVE YOU" take it slowly. Example, One day talk to her on the phone about going to dinner or (if you had a date) about how fun or magical it was. Just take it slow and remember girls always want what they can't have or what's hard to get!!!
2007-02-21 12:44:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋