is it ok to be in intimate love with distant relatives that are by marriage? i mean like not blood related at all but by family marriage?
2007-02-21 12:42:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i'm gonna let the people pick
2007-02-22 13:06:25 · update #1
Certainly it's okay. They are only family by law, not by blood. Heck, assuming it's not a same sex relationship, why not marry the one you're having a relationship with? That's legal also.
If it is same sex, go to New Jersey.
2007-02-21 12:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by caesar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Why not? If you get along with somebody and they aren't blood line then why shouldn't you? You can't help that the family got together somewhere else along the way. And lucky for you that they did. Nope. There's nothing wrong with it. A little ironic maybe but hey. You win. Right? Go. Be happy. Dance girl!
I know of an aunt and her husband and then her niece got in with the husband's brother. It was fine. Everybody was happy. Why not.
2007-02-21 12:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by Me2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Prolly not. I mean it may be fine legally, but socially unacceptable. You could marry and move far far away. Or you could try to get those people tieing you together to divorce...j/k. I have thought about that. I think it would mostly just be social implications, it would be hard to get over those things on holidays and when you had kids and just in your network of family friends.
2007-02-21 12:47:13 · answer #3 · answered by BellaLuna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think
1. we should be more careful w/ what we consider 'right' or 'wrong' and
2. we shouldn't care so much (even though we do) about what something is 'considered' and listen to your own instincts.
I'm not saying "go for it" in any way, what I'm saying is every situation is different, and love can be found in the most random places. you should probably try to avoid putting yourself in such a complicated situation though, but you can't and SHOULD NOT avoid it if you believe it to be true love. cause that's pretty damn hard to find.
2007-02-28 04:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by ksrairsk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its completely right...some people have marriages like to relatives cuz they fink its easier...so i odn't think that theres anything wrong with being in love with a relative...
2007-02-28 07:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is okay and it is wrong. It is okay because they are not blood relatives.It is not ok because even if they are not blood they are still related.
2007-02-21 12:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by Kayla N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sociality today thinks it disgusting and probably count as incest but i think it's ok even though i will never do it. but love is love and it's hard to find true love so go for it.
2007-02-21 12:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by Live&Learn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is ok.. but no matter what you do, someone will complain or make remarks.. so do what you want to do..it is your life..but be prepared to deal with the negative remarks that some people might have.
2007-02-28 04:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a culture to culture basis on this one.
2007-02-28 08:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry but yes cuz if you go any further and someone might find out it can cause alot of situations with ur family ...............hope it helps
2007-02-21 12:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋