2007-02-21 13:03:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its amazing how only one GUY, answered! Is that cause only women seem to like marriges??
2007-02-25 08:45:45 · update #1
The fact that my husband is the most annoying person in the world, but when he is being annoyony I find it cute. He always makes me laugh, just by being silly. I found my missing half in him.
2007-02-21 13:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To address your second question: I think society created marriage more for the benefit of women then men, (to have someone to protect and provide for them while they're bearing and raising children.) There really isn't much in it for men. By nature, men aren't known to really care about things like communication and emotional intimacy, which women think is a great thing about marriage, plus men are programmed to want sex pretty continuously throughout life with multiple partners, and not only do they have to give up the other women, they often find their wives lose interest in sex at some point. So now they aren't getting any fulfillment physically. Finally, all the non sex stuff men like to do like watch sports and hang out with their buds and drink too much are frowned upon by wives. So I can see how marriage would be viewed as one big drag to most men and there wouldn't be much there to make them happy. (By the way, I am a woman.)
2007-02-28 13:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by Ronnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marrage is ok for the men too we know who is cooking dinner when we get home from work and who is going to keep the house clean and who is going to take care of things in the bedroom whenever the urge strikes.
2007-02-28 12:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The companionship. Knowing that he is going to be there for me when I come home in a bad mood after a very long day of dealing with a pain in the butt micromanager boss. Having someone to go out to dinner with occassionally. Being able to look in his eyes when his son is born and know that you have just made him the happiest person in the world. Knowing I will be there for him when he needs it like when he gets hurt on a job and can't work for months and is depressed after four surgeries to repair a broken foot. Watching my baby girl's eyes light up when you give her her first stuffed animal. And watch that same joy when she goes on her first date or tell her she can not only have a sweet 16 party but you will help her plan it. Getting woken up to breakfast in bed by your man and the kids on your birthday or having them make you feel like a queen on mothers day.
2007-02-21 21:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband,kids,my sex life, having the opportunity to be a stay at home wife and watch my kids grow,life in general I am happy. I wish that I seen my husband more but his job requires him to work long hours but I have been dealing w/ it for 4 years. And spending my husbands money I am the best at that!
2007-02-21 21:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by hotmoma1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I are best friends, we do everything together, and are totally honest with each other (cause she can tell when I'm lying so I can't get away with it even if I try). We own our own business too so we even work together. We are pretty much joined at the hip but neither of us would rather be anywhere else but with each other. We have GREAT sex too;)
2007-02-25 21:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by maydynzwarrior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is probably too much to mention here but ... I love the fact that my man works hard...never misses a day of work. I respect him so much for not being a lazy azz...
He has the patience of JOB with his children...Is compassionate and truly tries to be understanding with them..assisting them in resolving their "kid/teen/young adult issues".
He is always the one to speak calmly and wisely when my nerves are shot from whatever the drama of the day may be. His words comfort me. He's kind, compassionate, sweet with animals too. What a huge "turn on".
He says out loud to me how much he admires me, appreciates me, etc.. Words are wonderful and his actions back those words up.
All of the small, thoughtful things that he does makes me most happy........
*Fixing me a drink when he gets one for himself
*Calling me during his workday to tell me that he's think of me...etc.
*A smile and a wink when we catch eye contact from a distance.
*Having a bottle of my favorite purfume delivered in the mail to me for no good reason at all.
*Having the oil in my vehicle changed every 3,000 miles, when he has his done.
*The fact that he TAKES the TIME to learn to communicate with me in a calm, adult, affectionate manner, even during those "tough" times when he may not think he's getting anyplace. :o)
*etc..etc...etc...
He's a masculine man with a soooooo sweet side for me! I love that!! This IS HOWEVER a two way street!! I do the same for him.
2007-02-21 21:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by ~Me~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love that I can be myself with my hubby. We can agrue with each other and end up laughing half way through the fight..I also like that I have someone waiting on me when I get home from a long day at work..and waking up with him in the morning.
2007-02-21 21:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being loved unconditionally. Always having someone to hang out with. Letting someone see my absolute worst faults and knowing they'll love me anyways. Knowing that no matter what I do, he'll always be there for me.
2007-02-28 03:07:56 · answer #9 · answered by Canadian Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the love that my husband expresses to me with admiration, and respect. He expresses his love by, gratitude, praise, care and consideration, listening, and through physical affection.
Lets not forget that our 3 sons also help us stay together as a family. I am so grateful for my husband and for my sons! (smile)
2007-02-21 21:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋